Be a Modern-Day Barnabas (by Hannah Alexander)

Posted on March 12, 2019 by alexanderhodde

Modern Day Barnabas

What were the first words you heard when you went to work or school or exercise this morning? Did they make your day? Did they make you sad? Did they fill you with hope or discouragement?

What were the first words you spoke to another person today? What did you say to yourself in the mirror? Did you look at someone today and say, “You look really good today,” or, “You look like a truck backed over you”?

I recently gave notice on Facebook that I will no longer tolerate discouraging words. I’ve drawn a line in the sand and will not allow myself to be abused by words. You know those blanket posts that some stranger has posted, and then maybe a friend or family member of yours has picked up and shared out of guilt? You know those posts in which the original poster tells everyone that if they don’t share this post, they’re a bad person, a bad Christian, a bad American? I reject that negativity.

Yes, we do have some bad issues going on in social media right now, and in our country, in our world, in our churches. How will my continued negativity fix that? It won’t. How will it help if I decide I want to blame someone in my life? It won’t. Remember that wonderful, short, easy-to-learn Bible verse, “A soft answer turns away wrath”? Yeah, that one. I’m claiming that as mine. I love it.

From now on, I will attempt to speak only encouraging words–okay, can’t help a bit of dry humor every so often, but other than that, only encouragement. If someone says something harsh to me, I cannot promise that I will reply with a soft answer, but I will attempt to at least walk away without responding in anger and making things worse. I will, instead, attempt to encourage others the way the man in the picture above encourages me and everyone around him.

I have never met a kinder, more encouraging man than Mel, my partner and husband and best earthly friend. He’s the Alexander half of Hannah Alexander, and though he doesn’t physically write our novels, he does everything else. He is a wonderful researcher, he is the best editor, whose grasp of English and grammar and spelling is excellent. Most importantly, he encourages. That’s his love language, and with that language, he rescued me years ago from a life of verbal abuse. He showed me that life wasn’t about fighting and winning, but about winning people over with goodness and love. What a total about-face he has made in my life! I’m still learning from him, and I hope to continue to do so for many years to come. Maybe I also teach him some things, too, but I don’t know that I can ever teach him as much as he has taught me.

Let’s learn kindness from one another, not hostility. Let’s speak words of life to one another, not harsh words that discourage and drag others down. Let’s show God’s love to others and see if the changes in our attitudes might begin a chain reaction that could become a force for good. Let’s stop this runaway train of anger and ugliness before it’s too late, and let’s replace it with hope.

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Seeking Truth: Practical Observations in Online Information Sharing by Vicki Hinze

Posted on March 11, 2019 by Vicki Hinze

I spend a lot of time researching all kinds of things. Current events, systems, places, new technology, social mores, human behavior and activities. All writers do. And, like with most things, exposure brings experience and enlightenment. The more you know about something, the more apt what you know is to change your perspective, your opinions, and/or your attitudes.

We seek to gain knowledge and understanding. We seek to gain wisdom. Bluntly put, we seek answers to find the truth.

Those objectives make it imperative that we are judicious in where we seek our information and that we view what we find through a prism of discernment. You cannot believe everything you see, read or hear online any more than you can offline. If you seek only in echo chambers, you can trust even less that you’re getting clear-eyed and objective information.

It’s noteworthy that no human being can be totally objective. Every human being sees a given thing—any given thing—through his own personal prism. That prism is a compilation of his experiences, understanding, and the foundation that forms deep inside based on beliefs, values and morals. The things taught from the cradle that we carry with us and adjust as we grow. In other words, we view things based on what we know to be true at the time we view them.

At some time, our truths are challenged, and we must decide whether those truths are truths or if they must change. Knowledge can challenge. Wisdom can challenge. An intense event, physical or emotional or spiritual, can challenge.

Our perspective is our prism, and like opinions, everybody’s got one. That’s why no human being can be totally objective. It’s also why we must use discernment and good judgment in where we seek truth and from whom we seek it. This is especially important online. Why?

When we interact in person, we automatically note body language, inflections in voices, tones, and other tips that cue us as to whether or not the other person is being honest, sincere and genuine, or being untruthful to sway us or our opinion. We get intuitive nudges—where you know deep inside the person is being straight with you or if he has more twists than a pretzel. We pick up on these things instinctively because we’ve used them all our lives, seeking approval, working out conflicts, preparing for something important to us. Let me share a practical example:

A three-year-old wants praise and approval. So, he reacts in a way that gains your praise and approval. Or, if upset, in a way that won’t so he gains your attention, because that is his underlying goal. To get your attention. If he can’t get it by being good, (his experience at interacting with you and your reaction tells him what your response will be), he’ll toss a temper tantrum and take your bad attention, admonishing him. Good or bad attention is better than no attention.

Adults are typically a little more subtle, but the underlying motivation is pretty much the same. Try good actions. If they work, great. If not, try bad actions. Either way, you gain attention and you’ve moved the needle off the human being’s nemesis: indifference.

There’s been a lot of discussion lately about information sharing and getting good or bad information and how-to tell the difference. We tend to think that everyone is like us. Their motives are good, their intentions are good, and they’re doing the best they can in a world where many have lost their way. But that isn’t the truth.

Like in life, online there are people who do good things and people who do bad things. Their acts are deliberate. Sometimes mistakes are made, apologies are offered and accepted. Other times, we discover a person or entity is a nail looking for a cross.

Now there are times when things push our buttons and we fire off a blistering response. This is why we should avoid responding immediately. Sometimes we need to pause and give ourselves time for a cooler head to prevail. The upside of pausing is that we end up having to apologize less often, we don’t regret as much of what we say, and we’re not proven wrong nearly so much. Those are substantial upsides.

For the same reason, when we receive a blistering response, we should also pause before responding. Maybe it’s deliberate, but maybe that person is having a bad day, venting, or up to their earlobes in alligators. Perhaps what is most needed is a little grace.

We all mess up, make mistakes, vent and, because we do, we should grant grace. Why? Because there will come a time when we mess up, make mistakes, vent, and we’re going to need it. If we grant grace to others, we are far more apt to receive grace from others.

All of these things wrap right back around to our online information-sharing and the intense interest lately between Patriots and Pay-triots.

In years of research, I’ve run into basically three groups of people who information-share online. Here are some common practical observations that may guide you:

GROUP ONE

These are Patriots. They share for the purpose of informing, of enlightening. They don’t want or need your money. Their objective is to share knowledge, the truths they’ve acquired. Some share so that you’ll stop making uninformed mistakes and screwing things up for everyone, including them. Some share, because they’ve figured things out, found the truth, and they want to help you (or to warn you so you) figure them out, too. They are altruistic, their goals noble.

These Patriots might be right or wrong. Their truths might not be all of the truth but the truth as they know it, and it well might lead you to the whole truth, a deeper truth. Their motives and actions are constructive and apparent in their details. What they offer might be facts and figures, emotional perspective, historical context, or spiritual perspective. All are important and valuable. And when these Patriots make a mistake, they’re first to admit it. They seek feedback and many straight out ask for those who have different takes or conflicting information, to share them. They too are hungry for truth and confidence in their findings. They do not fear being wrong and welcome deeper insights. We are blessed by many knowledgeable, discerning, and generous-spirited Patriots.

GROUP TWO

Those, who for many of the same reasons as those in Group One, share but they doneed to worry about money. They are very good at research and are glad to do it, but they can’t not earn living expenses while doing it. These people like to have a roof over their family’s heads, and they like to eat every day, too. They work hard and willingly share. They accept donations and have patrons and they might sell t-shirts and mugs and books or other merchandise.

They do not charge for information but ask for your support to fund their research expenses, their equipment and production expenses, their living expenses. In return, they share their insights, knowledge, wisdom and/or experience—their truth. That’s fair. None survive on air. These people take a large leap of faith that if they provide their best, you’ll provide them support. They, too, are a blessing. They, too, are Patriots.

GROUP THREE

These are those who are all about the money. They see an opportunity to bilk others hungry for information, for truth, and so they gather enough truth to convince some they have the “inside scoop” and can enlighten everyone. They have “sources” who are “connected.” They often drop names to impress you, so you know how important they are. Often, they pad their resumes, so you deem them experts. And they often tell you how smart they are, which of course, they wouldn’t have to do if they were truly smart. You’d know it.

These tactics to draw you in are reminiscent of high school and college sororities, aren’t they? Childhood secret clubs? The cool-people cliques? All of these proclivities are red flags, warning you to search out the motivations of the people in this group.

Often in Group Three, you also see these red flag warnings: Some information is free, but if you want the “scoop” information, you must be a patron or a regular donor or donate at a certain level to get to the inside group. That’s where these scoops are stored, and to get them, you must pay. They often sell products as well as information. And if they aren’t earning what they want to earn, then they flip their views and come at people from “the other side” to get more money. This group is not motivated by principle or ethics but by money.

Some in Group Three are paid by individuals or entities to shift or shape public opinions and views. To mold your perspective. They are not emotionally invested or driven by ideals, morals or values. They’re not driven by love of country or respect for their fellow man. They’re driven by your wallet. The wallets of those paying them. And they will take whatever stance or position proves most lucrative for them. These are the Pay-triots.

If you’re devoting your time and attention to the first two, you’re spending your time well. If the last… Well, you’re adults. You don’t need me to tell you what is or is not the best investment of your time, energy and attention.

Lastly, be careful who you give your time and attention, remembering that you can’t get out of your mind what you don’t first put into it. Guard your mind. Guard your thoughts. And listen to your own intuition.

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The Leader Who Serves

Posted on March 9, 2019 by writinginoverdrive

by Ray Stedman,
introduced by Jim Denney
from Ray Stedman on Leadership,
new from Discovery House Publishers

Ray Stedman was the pastor of Peninsula Bible Church in Palo Alto, California, for four decades, from 1950 until his retirement in 1990. I began working as Ray’s writing partner in 1992, the final year of his life. He was a faithful expositor of the Scriptures and a leader of character and integrity. Ray understood that a leader is not a boss but a servant, and he taught and followed the leadership model of Jesus the Master. For more than twenty-five years, I’ve been privileged to work with transcripts and recordings of his sermons, helping to turn them into books with the help and blessing of Ray’s widow, Elaine Stedman.

I think this latest book, Ray Stedman on Leadership, may be my favorite among the twenty-five books I’ve worked on with Ray and Discovery House Publishers. While working on this book, I spent many rewarding hours reading Ray’s other books—Body Life, Adventuring Through the Bible, God’s Unfinished Book, Psalms: Folk Songs of Faith, and more. From them, I distilled Ray’s most practical and penetrating leadership wisdom into forty daily readings. Each entry is followed by a set of discussion and reflection questions, making this an ideal study book for a church board or committee, home Bible study, adult Sunday school class, Christian business, mission team, or any other setting where biblical leadership plays a key role. Here’s an excerpt:

“The Leader Who Serves” from Ray Stedman on Leadership

I once picked up a young hitchhiker. We chatted as we drove, and at one point he told me, “My uncle died a millionaire.” I said, “No, he didn’t. Your uncle died with nothing.” The young man looked surprised and said, “Why do you say that? You don’t know my uncle. He had millions!” I said, “Who has those millions now?” The young man nodded slowly. “Oh, I see what you mean.”

Nobody dies a millionaire. We all die with nothing.

But Jesus shows us a way to be rich in this life, and in the life to come. How do we achieve these riches of Jesus? By denying ourselves, taking up our cross, and following Him. Let’s look again at his message to the crowd in Mark 8:

“Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me. For whoever wants to save their life will lose it, but whoever loses their life for me and for the gospel will save it” (Mark 8:34-35).

Way of the Cross, Station Twelve, Our Lady of Peace Shrine, Pine Bluffs, Wyoming. Photo by Chris Light. Used under the Creative Commons Attribution-Share Alike 4.0 International license. Image adapted by J.D.

When the people first heard Jesus speak these words, they must have wondered, What does He mean — “take up your cross”? They had seen the Roman instrument of execution before — but they didn’t know that Jesus Himself was about to be nailed to the cross and tortured to death. Jesus knew what the cross would mean, but the people who heard Him did not.

Some people mistakenly think that a hardship they’re enduring — a troublesome neighbor, a difficult boss, a financial difficulty, a physical handicap — is the “cross” they must bear. But that’s not what Jesus meant. When He spoke of the cross, He was referring to the shame and humiliation of the cross. Crucifixion was a criminal’s death, a demeaning and degrading form of death. When Jesus said we are to take up our cross, He was telling us that we are to welcome the shame and humiliation of the cross. The cross is the place where we put pride to death.

Do you resent it when people insult you, embarrass you, make fun of you, yell at you, cut you off on the freeway? That’s your pride at work. Crucify it. Do you envy what others have? Do you feel you have a right to a certain standard of living, a promotion at work, a bigger home, a better car? That’s your pride showing. Crucify it. It’s not wrong to have these things, but everything we have is a gift of God’s grace, not a right or an entitlement. To feel entitled to such things is pride. Crucify pride.

After “take up your cross,” the Lord says, “and follow Me.” To follow Jesus is to obey Him and walk in His footsteps, patterning our lives, our words, our actions after His. Disobedience is the way of this world. Obedience is the essence of following Jesus. Yes, we struggle and fail. But when we stray from the path of obedience, we pick ourselves up, confess our sins, and get back on the path of following Him.

This is what it means to be a disciple: Deny yourself, take up your cross, and follow Him. In the original Greek, these steps are stated in the present continuous tense. We are to continuously deny ourselves, continuously take up our cross, continually and persistently follow Him. This is not a once-and-for-all decision, but a program for a lifetime, and it must be repeated over and over.

Jesus gives us a new motive for living: “For whoever wants to save their life will lose it, but whoever loses their life for me and for the gospel will save it.” Who doesn’t desperately want to save his or her life? Who doesn’t want this life to matter? Who doesn’t want a life that is full, rich, and worth living? We all want that. And Jesus tells us, “If this is what you want, I’ll tell you how to acquire it: lose your life for Me and for the gospel, and you will save your life.”

In other words, deny yourself, disavow yourself, and you will find a life worth living. Hold onto your desire for comfort, entitlement, status, power, praise, money, fame, or any other worldly goal — and you will ultimately lose everything. You’ll die having wasted your one and only life.

If we live for ourselves, we will lose our lives. If we lose our lives for Him, we will save our lives for all eternity. But equally important, we will save our lives in the here and now.

Ray Stedman on Leadership:
40 Lessons from an Influential Mentor
by Ray Stedman with Jim Denney;
foreword by Charles R. Swindoll

available at your local Christian bookstore, at Barnes and Noble, at Amazon.com, and at Christianbook.com. Trade paperback and ebook formats.

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CWA: Strong Women Tribe by Julie Arduini

Posted on March 6, 2019 by juliearduini

My prayer for 2019 is that doors would open for me to encourage women to find freedom as they surrender the good, the bad, and—maybe one day—the chocolate. I’m so thankful because one amazing opportunity isn’t just in the works—it’s launched!

The Strong Women Tribe is a safe place for Christian women who serve to receive encouragement and hope within the site Christian Women Affiliate. Christian Women Affiliate is a wonderful destination full of resources and networking. It’s free to join, and once a member, you can visit here and let me know you’re interested in the Strong Women Tribe. I’ve been a member of CWA for years, and I will be facilitating the tribe.

Strong Women Tribe members can be pastor’s wives, ministry leaders and workers. It’s the women who spread the generations but are known for getting things done for the glory of God.

They are the ones other women go to for prayer support, advice, and to vent.
They may be single, married, empty nesters, have young children, work outside the home, have their own business, have a very busy ministry as a wife and mom right in the home—but this is true of all of them—they are strong women who need encouragement, too.

If you’d like to join the Strong Women Tribe, there is content already waiting for you to engage in. Articles are short by design because we understand your schedule is full. But we believe this is a place you’ll look forward to visiting often so you can get back at what you do with renewed focus and hope.

Please check it out and spread the word.
ABOUT CWA: http://www.christianwomenaffiliate.com/

INVITE TO STRONG WOMEN TRIBE: (Must be member of CWA, first. Easy to do!) https://christian-women-affiliate.mn.co/…/new-tribe-in-cwa-…

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“Look for the helpers.”

Posted on March 5, 2019 by Kristin

Mr. Rogers used to say that in the face of tragedy and scary times. Look for the helpers. I know life is tough out there, but as Christians, we really should look for the helpers. The lessons for us and the earthly angels God has sent us. Being grateful for what’s good helps us to not get mired in the Valley and keep our eyes on the prize: Heaven. This is not our world!

The crazy thing is, when we do something kind for someone else, it really benefits us. Something that is not that big of a deal to us, might be life-changing for another. Case in point, I could not fix something on my website and I was paying twice for something that I could not afford. I could not figure it out. The company I host with would not answer the phone and their helper was not in America and not great at English. Add that to my inferior knowledge of website management and you have a recipe for disaster.

Well, a few years ago a young reader of mine in Stratford-Upon-Avon (how literary, right?) told me that my website was not dynamic. That apparently means it won’t open well on a phone — which is how most people read websites these days. So she took it upon herself to redesign my whole website. She told me that God had impressed upon her to do it. Well, the result was so much more “me” than the other one and there is really no way I can make it up to her.

This morning, she went on the site where I was having trouble and fixed my entire problem. Just because. She’s a young mother. She’s got a job and she’s starting her own business. But she took the time to help me out in my frustrations.

When I was about to give up writing, a fellow blogger here, Cheryl Hodde told me to send her my stuff. She’d edit it. Colleen Coble paid my way to a conference recently so I could meet with my agents. I could go on and on…

0-5 It’s not in my nature to accept help and that is something that God has impressed upon me over the years in the Valley. But it is in my nature to look for the helpers. It’s been very humbling to be on the other side of “helping” but I am so grateful. I encourage you today to look at a situation that isn’t great — where are the helpers? Maybe it’s just a friend who lets you vent and makes you laugh. (Sibella Giorello and Melanie Dickerson for me.)

Writing is my world. When I don’t write, I’m not me. Am I Shakespeare? Certainly not, but God gave me a purpose and I’m grateful for every person who helps me get back to the keyboard so that I can do what I’m called to do. Where are your helpers today? Have you thanked God for them by name today? Do it. It will change your outlook and remind you that God is always with you.

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Why I Write by Tara Randel

Posted on March 4, 2019 by tararandel

One of the first things people ask me when I tell them I’m an author is, “What do you write?” And since I love my job, I’m happy to tell them.

But before I continue, I need to go back in time.

I’ve always loved to read. My favorite memories are coming home with a stack of books from the public library. The love continued through high school. Once I got to college, fiction went to the wayside while I studied. Then, when I entered the work force (in the totally non-creative writing field of dentistry), I resumed my lifelong passion of reading.

Somewhere along the line a friend I worked with introduced me to romance novels. I fell in love. With the characters. The stories. The idea that love was bigger and stronger than anything I could imagine.

And then one day that same friend said, “We should write a book.” My immediate response was, “Sure.” What did I know? Nothing, I soon learned, but I studied craft and the business of writing in the hopes that my new dream might come true.

Fast forward twenty-some years. Not only do I write romance novels, but the world of writing has opened up so much, I write in other genres as well.

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Romance will always be my first love. I’m a hopeless romantic and can’t fathom a world without love stories. I’ve been fortunate to write for Harlequin Heartwarming, their wholesome fiction line. While these stories don’t have a faith element, these books still celebrate the greatest gift of all. Love.

I’ve also been able to write my second favorite genre, mystery. Who doesn’t love a story where you have to figure out “Who done it?” I love the layers, the red herrings and the logic behind piecing together a good story you hope a reader won’t put down until they get to the very last page.

This year, I’ll be starting work on books for a Women’s Fiction line. Another step into a different genre and I can’t wait to get started. Real life issues tackled in a way to connect women, to bond over stories of family, heartache and life changes.

Even though I’m not published in Christian fiction, I still consider myself an inspirational author. After all, as a writer, I want to move readers with the journey of my characters, the growth and lessons learned along the way. No matter what genre you read or write, we can always close the book after the last page having made new friends and making new discoveries. It’s the magic of books that will never go away, and that’s why I love sitting at my keyboard every day, creating stories I can’t wait to share.

When I first started writing and had trouble getting published, my husband suggested that I not limit myself to one genre. Best advice ever. Now I get to work with different publishers. I’ve made new friends as my career as grown. Best of all, the ideas in my head eventually get a home.

If you’ve ever thought about writing, I encourage you to start by writing those first words. You never know what can happen. All those years ago, I never imagined being an author. If you love to read, keep supporting the authors whose books you love to read. We may never meet you face to face, but trust me, we appreciate the time you take out of your schedule to get lost in one of our books. It’s a privilege and an honor, one that is never taken for granted.

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Tara Randel is an award-winning, USA Today bestselling author. Family values, a bit of mystery and of course, love and romance, are her favorite themes, because she believes love is the greatest gift of all. Look for her next Harlequin Heartwarming romance, available in August. Visit Tara at www.tararandel.com. Like her on Facebook at http://www.facebook.com/TaraRandelBooks. Sign up for Tara’s Newsletter and receive a link to download a free digital book.

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You Want to Write for…Nothing? by Yvonne Lehman

Posted on March 2, 2019 by Vicki Hinze

Nothing? No money, that is…

The writers who contribute to the Moments Series get no monetary payment, but are delighted to donate all their royalties to Samaritan’s Purse, an organization that provides spiritual and physical aid to hurting people throughout the world.

Some stories have had life-changing effect on authors’ families, friends, and neighbors. They’re often used as devotions. Some married couples read these together. The books are also great gift books.

Here is a handout I use when teaching a class on writing for the Moments series. I’d love to receive an article from YOU. Many suggest book topics.

Writing for the Moments Series

Articles– a story that compliments the theme of each book, such as ChristmasMoments

Most are true stories – Some are reflections on the theme or subject of the book –

Poetry – Have used short, short stories – A few have been written by children –

These are written by never-before-published and multi-published authors

Voice– author’s natural telling voice – in fiction we’re hounded by the need to show, not tell. A true story, or your reflection on something, is told. Tell it your way. But, be aware of allowing your reader to see the action, feel the emotion.

Mary loved everybody. (too little telling- needs some showing)

Mary sent cards or took food to anyone she knew was hurting. (showing)

Rights– These may be original or previously published if rights have been returned to you. We retain rights after acceptance until publication, then rights automatically return to you.

Word count– however many words are needed to tell your story – from about 500 to 2000+ words – main point is the content of the story

Edit– Look for unnecessary words, poor sentence structure, correct punctuation, typos, getting away from theme, inserting too much backstory or explanation

Payment– sharing, with the possibility of changing someone’s life, heart, or mind. Authors get one free copy and discount on orders. All royalties go to Samaritan’s Purse, an organization that helps victims of war, poverty, natural disasters, disease, and famine with the purpose of sharing God’s love through his son, Jesus Christ. www.samaritanspurse.org

Submission guidelines– on the article, include your name, mailing address for your free copy and email address – I like them in 12-point type, Times New Roman, single spaced, and sent as an email attachment toyvonnelehman3@gmail.com

*** Accepting NOW!Christmas Moments– for Christmas 2019 ***

Accepting for 2019… on…

Christmas Moments for 2019 – Santa or Jesus or both (due June 3, 2019)

Broken Moments– hearts, lives, relationships, objects, promises, etc. (serious or humorous)

Grandma’s Cookie Jar Moments– most will be about grandmas – others may be warm, cozy stories having the ambience of a stereotypical grandma-type story

Lost Moments– lives, souls, keys, eyeglasses, minds, things found, etc. (serious or humorous)

Can, Sir! Moments– going through cancer, surviving, caregiving, observations, advice

We’d love to have you join our group of generous writers, who write for…something, like: faith, hope and love.

A NOTE

Moments with Billy Graham is a Finalist for the prestigious SELAH Award (anthology category).

The SELAH Award is sponsored by Blue Ridge Mountains Christian Writers Conference held in May at Ridgecrest NC Conference Center.

Christians Read congratulations the authors. Their work is to be commended!

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Unlocking Your Child’s Spirituality (Part 4 of 4)

Posted on March 2, 2019 by writinginoverdrive

Opinion by Jim Denney, author of Battle Before Time,
Christian time travel adventure for young readers

[Read Part 1 here.] [Read Part 2 here.] [Read Part 3 here.]

ReadingToChildren In Parts 1 and 2 of this four-part series, we looked at the research of Dr. Catherine Posey — research which showed that good books nurture a child’s soul and encourage spiritually sensitive children. In Part 3, we explored five ways to use these insights in our own conversations with our children to build lifelong habits of reading good books and thinking deeply about eternal values. Here are five more “key” principles for using children’s literature to encourage your child’s spirituality.

Key No. 6: Develop a taste for children’s literature. Read children’s books — not just for your children’s sake but to nurture the child within you. Become a connoisseur of children’s literature. C. S. Lewis observed, “No book is really worth reading at the age of ten which is not equally (and often far more) worth reading at the age of fifty — except, of course, books of information. The only imaginative works we ought to grow out of are those which it would have been better not to have read at all.” Discover new children’s authors and rediscover childhood favorites, then introduce them to your children. Enjoy a second childhood of brand-new reading pleasures.

Key No. 7: Attract your children to great books — don’t push them. Your kids may not gravitate toward the same books you loved as a child. They may not be ready to read certain books that are beyond their years. As parents, we want to encourage our kids to broaden their horizons — but if we push too hard, we risk turning reading into a chore.

Some books that thrilled us when we were young may seem dated or hard to relate to for kids today. And beware of didactic books in which the story is just a flimsy container for a heavy-handed message. Kids sense when a book is preaching at them — and preachy books make kids suspicious of literature.

Key No. 8: Encourage your child’s literary loves. If your children are fascinated by the Bible or animals or outer space or sports, help them find books to feed that interest. If your children want to read books that are a bit beyond their reading level, cheer them on!

As a boy, I often checked out grownup books at the public library. On one occasion, I took a classic book by Robert Louis Stevenson to the checkout counter, and the librarian said, “Oh, this book is for grownups. You wouldn’t be able to understand it.” Though disappointed, I let the librarian talk me out of checking out the book. I eventually read it — when I was sixty-two years old. Having read it, I know I would have understood it and enjoyed it as a boy.

As Madeleine L’Engle observed, “A children’s book is any book a child will read.” She also said, “When I have something to say which I think is going to be too difficult for adults, I write it in a book for children. Children are excited by new ideas; they have not yet closed the doors and windows of their imaginations.”

Key No. 9: Use books to address hard questions, like death. A child may find it easier to talk about the death of a character in a book than the death of a beloved grandparent. Children may ask, “Why do people die?” or “Where do people go after they die?” Good books give us openings to talk about real-life issues: loss, sorrow, suffering, and troubling events in the news.

Use good books to prepare children to do good works, such as visiting the elderly in a nursing home. Before your visit, sit with your children and read books such as Eve Bunting’s Sunshine Home or Cynthia Rylant’s The Old Woman Who Named Things. The discussions these books provoke with your children will help you prepare them for the visit.

Key No. 10: Use books to reinforce character qualities. Good books are an invaluable ally in highlighting character traits so we can discuss them with our children, including such traits as:

Honesty: “Which character in the story showed what it means to be honest? What would have happened if she had made a dishonest choice?”

Compassion: “Who was the kind person in the story? Who was unkind? Why is it better to be caring instead of mean?”

Courage: “Who was brave in the story? Do you think he was scared? Have you ever been scared like that boy?”

Perseverance: “Which character wouldn’t give up? What would you do in that situation—give up or keep going?”

Children who read get to be vicarious heroes. The more good books they read, the more they tend to pattern themselves after their storybook heroes.

As Dr. Posey says, “Books are good for a child’s soul.”

“What an astonishing thing a book is. It’s a flat object made from a tree with flexible parts on which are imprinted lots of funny dark squiggles. But one glance at it and you’re inside the mind of another person, maybe somebody dead for thousands of years. Across the millennia, an author is speaking clearly and silently inside your head, directly to you. Writing is perhaps the greatest of human inventions, binding together people who never knew each other, citizens of distant epochs. Books break the shackles of time.”
—Carl Sagan

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Just released: My new book with Orlando Magic founder Pat Williams, Character Carved in Stone. Overlooking the Hudson River on the campus of the United States Military Academy at West Point are 12 granite benches, each inscribed with a word representing a key leadership virtue: Compassion, Courage, Dedication, Determination, Dignity, Discipline, Integrity, Loyalty, Perseverance, Responsibility, Service, and Trust. These benches remind cadets of the qualities that lead to victory and success, not just on the battlefield, but in all of life. In Character Carved in Stone, Pat Williams shows us how to develop these 12 essential virtues in ourselves, our children, our teams, our students, and our churches. Foreword by Coach Mike Krzyzewski.

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Note: Battle Before Time, the first book in my newly revised and updated Timebenders series for young readers, has just been released in paperback. Click this link to learn more.

And if you’d like to learn more about how to write faster, more freely, and more brilliantly than you ever thought possible, read my book Writing In Overdrive, available in paperback and ebook editions at Amazon.com. —J.D.

Jim Denney also blogs at Writing in Overdrive and Walt’s Disneyland.

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What Lent Means to Me

Posted on February 28, 2019 by Bridget

Do you long to draw closer to God? Do you want more of God’s presence? If the answer is yes, then I invite you to observe Lent this year. Depending on what church denomination(s) you have been to, you may or may not have heard of Lent. I currently go to a non-denominational church that doesn’t observe Lent. But I still find Lent to be a valuable time, so I prefer to observe it.

What is Lent? In anticipation of Easter, Lent is meant to be a time of spiritual reflection. It can be a very rich, soul-nourishing season … if we make the right decisions. I will dig deeper into that in a bit.

When is Lent? Lent starts on Ash Wednesday (which lands on 3.6.19 this year) and lasts for about forty days. Lent ends just before Easter. Depending on the denomination (such as Catholic), some say it ends on Holy Thursday. But in the churches I went to when I was a child (such as Methodist), it was said to end on Holy Saturday.

You will often hear people say that they are giving up something for Lent. I am sure you have heard of Mardi Gras, which is French for Fat Tuesday. This is the day before Ash Wednesday, when Lent begins. Many people give up certain foods or drinks during Lent. And on Mardi Gras, they indulge in those things one last time before Lent begins. Then they say they are giving up chocolate or coffee (for example) in the name of the Lord. They see this as a sacrifice, which I can understand.

Nevertheless, in my opinion, if I give up something for Lent, it should be an item that hinders my relationship with God. For me personally, I don’t feel that giving up a certain food or drink is helpful. To be honest, there were times in the past when I did give up chocolate or cookies for Lent. However, now my focus has changed. During Lent I want to grow in my relationship with the Lord. I personally would prefer to find something that will truly improve my spiritual walk and produce lasting results.

Please keep in mind that I do believe there are times when giving up a meal might be a good idea, such as not eating dinner, if I am using this mealtime as a means of traditional fasting. I could use the time to pray, rather than eat. Or I could also consider using the money that I didn’t spend on that meal, and donating it to those less fortunate.

In today’s society, a good thing to give up might be social media. This tends to be a huge distraction in our lives, which takes away from our time with the Lord. Giving up television, computer time, or video games are other good examples. This will vary with each person. It all depends on what stands in the way of deepening your relationship with God.

Or another option would be to add something new to your routine, rather than removing something. If you haven’t had time to read your Bible on a regular basis lately, adding a daily Bible reading regimen would be a wonderful option. Or you might want to find a Lent devotional to read over the forty days. Or you could also consider adding more prayer time into your day. Again, this will vary with each person. If you see an area in which you would like to grow, then consider making this a priority for the forty days. The point is to draw closer to the Lord. So if you decide to observe Lent, then you will need to examine your own life to see what the best options would be.

I do want to mention one more things. It is important to go in with a solid plan. There have been years when I said I would just “cut back” on electronic devices. This didn’t work out well because I still looked at my smart phone every day, and in the end I didn’t see any real changes in my life. But if I had decided to only use my phone for calls – this would have worked out better. It would have given me more concrete guidelines to follow, and in turn, I would have seen better results.

So before this Wednesday, I encourage you to give this some thought. (If you read this after Lent has started, it’s not too late. You can still use the time remaining.) If you want to deepen your relationship with God, then consider observing Lent. And think about what things you might want to remove and/or what things you might want to add to your routine. Please comment and let me know your view on Lent and how you plan to observe it. I pray that by Easter, we all will see that we have drawn closer to God and deepened our faith!

(Photo by Cheryl Empey.)

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Newcomers (by Hannah Alexander)

Posted on February 26, 2019 by alexanderhodde

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This sweet little mule deer made the hassles of the weekend all better.

You know how there are times in your week, your month, your year, when nothing seems to go right, and no matter how fast and hard you scramble, you can’t stop things from tumbling into a mess at your feet? Figuratively speaking, of course.

This past weekend was like that. We awakened Saturday morning to a great chill. Wyoming is not a state where you want to mess around with the cold. The lowest elevation in the state, I believe, is more than 3100 feet. Our town is over 6700 feet. We’re so much farther north than the warmer, more humid climate of Southern Missouri where we lived for decades.

Our furnace had kicked off. It was icy cold in the house. I had appointments all day, so Mel, on one of his final days off before a marathon week of multiple 24-hour shifts, had to spend the day trying to find someone who would make a weekend call. He didn’t find anyone. So he spent the rest of that day rounding up space heaters. Our pastor was kind enough to loan us several, as well as invite us to spend the weekend with them in their home. Our wonderful neighbor to the west offered the same. They were the only ones we had told. I was blown away by the generosity.

The first space heater we plugged in kicked a breaker and plunged our living room–complete with internet, TV, and phone–into darkness. We did fine over the weekend by using space heaters in other parts of the house. We spent yesterday afternoon upstairs in the bonus room–heat rises. Amazingly, I got too hot.

You know what? I was raised in the country. I’ve never lived in a big city, only small towns as an adult. I’m accustomed to the kindness one finds in community. We folks in rural areas don’t have to search too hard to find that kindness. City folks can build their own communities. Churches are communities. Bible study groups are communities. Neighbors can be the same.

I was touched and humbled when our neighbors and our pastor and wife kept in touch to make sure we were okay, were warm enough. I’ve never lived in such a dangerous winter environment before, and like a hundred years ago, when there might have been a serious threat to life or limb (freezing to death or frostbite), people band together to support one another, to come to one another’s aid.

So today, after I got the furnace man and the electrician here, all was back running again. Then my neighbor called me to tell me to look out our front door. Sure enough, a baby like the one you see above, only a few months older now without his spots, was lying on my welcome mat taking a snooze.

The rest of the day I’ve felt so blessed by the comfort of newly formed friendships and wonderful neighbors. We haven’t even lived here a year, and yet this is how good people behave when strangers move into town.

Do you have your community in place? Even if you’ve just moved to a new place, may I suggest you get to know your neighbors? A good friend of mine, who is a wonderful novelist, moved to a new town a few years ago. She and her husband didn’t wait for neighbors to reach out, but they invited one household at a time to their home for a meal. In doing so, they created a great community.

I never had the courage to do that. Shyness makes life very difficult at times, but I’ve met and talked to neighbors when they were out and about. Mel and I have attached ourselves to a tiny house church where members grow close out of necessity. I’ve joined a water aerobics class–invited by a neighbor. Each time I go to a place where I meet new people, I try to learn names and even write them down with descriptions. I ask questions and begin awkward conversations. I’ve joined a group of women for Bible study, and I’ve even invited others. Let me tell you, if I can do this, pretty much anyone can. I’m a hermit’s hermit.

Moving to a new place might have made me more courageous. Maybe not. Maybe desperation for friendship drove me to it, but Mel and I seem to be developing a community around us. We all need good friends and neighbors, no matter where we find them. If you live in a strange place and find the task of generating a community for yourself, just take it one step at a time. Take that first step. Let people know you’re alive and that you’re interested in them. You might be surprised by the response.

Go out and make yourself a community!

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Don’t Stop Learning by Nancy J. Farrier

Posted on February 25, 2019 by Nancy J. Farrier

I was a fairly young Christian with a thirst to learn more about the Bible. I attended a weekly Bible study, trying to understand and just listen, but I often had so many questions to ask. At one Bible study, the minister, an older gentleman, got upset at a question I asked. In his agitation he said something like this, “It’s been years since I attended seminary. You can’t expect me to remember everything.” He went on to say that he wasn’t going back to school just so he could answer my question.

I was so shocked and hurt at his outrage I kept quiet the rest of the study. However, I couldn’t quit thinking about men of God and how they knew everything about the Bible but slowly lost that learning over the years. I wondered if I should seek out someone who just graduated and see if they had the answers I needed.

At home, I considered my husband’s job. He constantly had to learn new things for his work as advancements came out. He had to keep up or he would not be able to do his job. Teachers, doctors, and almost any field I could think of had continuing training. As a mother and later a homeschooler, I worked hard to keep up with the learning my kids needed.

I read books on the craft of writing to improve. I want each book to be better than the last. I’ve been told my characters need more depth so, next weekend, I will be attending a writing workshop intensive that is focused on character emotion. I am so very excited to do this because my work is important to me, and I want to be the best I can be.

As a Christian, I’ve found I can’t possibly just read through the Bible and know it all. Not even after reading through many times over the years. I can’t picture a time when I would know enough of the Bible that I can quit reading and studying and rest in my knowledge. Learning is a gift, a treasure that I seek out daily.

I don’t recall the question I asked that minister. I do remember growing as a Christian, finding the answer, and being surprised he didn’t know how to reply to my simple inquiry. The Bible encourages us to grow in grace and knowledge. We are told the wise man learns. I’ve never read where we know enough to give up studying the Word. In fact, Bible knowledge and learning leads us to the best kind of learning—becoming more like Christ. I pray my thirst and desire to learn more about Christ is something I never grow tired of or lose.

…but grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. To Him be the glory both now and forever. Amen. 2 Peter 3:18

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Unlocking Your Child’s Spirituality (Part 3 of 4)

Posted on February 23, 2019 by writinginoverdrive

Opinion by Jim Denney, author of Battle Before Time,
Christian time travel adventure for young readers

[Read Part 1 here.] [Read Part 2 here.]

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In Parts 1 and 2 of this four-part series, I talked about the research of Dr. Catherine Posey, which showed that good books nurture a child’s soul and encourage spiritually sensitive children. In Part 3, we’ll look at five ways we can use Dr. Posey’s insights in our own conversations with our children. In the process, we can encourage our children to build lifelong habits of reading good books and thinking deeply about eternal values. Here are five “key” principles for using children’s literature to unlock your child’s spirituality.

Key No. 1: Read to your children. Help your children learn to associate reading with joy, pleasure, fun, adventure, laughter, and play. Read with them at play time and snack time (books and healthy snacks go great together). Read with them by the fireplace in the wintertime, or out by the pool in the summertime. Take good books on family vacations.

Read from picture books, chapter books, the Bible and Bible story books. Read fiction, poetry, and books about science, nature, and history. Read in a lively, enthused voice, so that children sense the excitement of reading.

When is a child too old to be read to? Never! In The Reading Promise, Alice Ozma tells how, when she was ten years old, she and her father made a pact that he would read to her every night for a hundred nights. By the hundredth night, they had built a habit they didn’t want to break—and they continued reading together until Alice went away to college, a reading streak lasting nine years or exactly 3,218 consecutive nights.

Key No. 2: Encourage your child’s imagination, curiosity, and wonder. Take books on trips to the mountains or the seashore. Imagine the joy of reading to your kids about hobbits and elves while huddled by a campfire in the forest, reading by flashlight. Or read about Jonah and the great fish as you sit on the beach, watching the waves washing in to shore.

Books come alive in a setting where the stories could actually come true. In the mountains, under the stars, or even in a city park, your children will absorb a special sense of wonder about nature and the Creator. You can even connect with nature in your own backyard, watching the hummingbirds at the feeder or looking at the Moon through a telescope, then reading together about birds or worlds beyond our own.

Key No. 3: Ask your child thoughtful questions about books. Set aside quality time with your kids to talk, listen, and interact. Put away the phone, turn off the TV, give your child steady eye contact, nods, hugs, and other signs of affirmation, and let your child know you are really listening. Your undivided attention makes kids feel valued and loved.

Ask open-ended questions—questions that require thought and conversation, questions that can’t be answered “yes” or “no.” Ask about feelings: “How do you think the mouse felt when that happened?” Ask the child to identify with the characters: “What would you do if you were a mouse and that mean cat was chasing you?” Ask the child to compare storybook events with their own experience: “Isn’t that kind of like the day you had yesterday?”

Don’t expect your children to draw the same spiritual meaning from a story that you would. Don’t expect their answers to be “theologically correct.” Avoid making a child feel corrected for giving a “wrong answer.” Nod and smile, and let your child speak freely. A child who fears giving the “wrong answer” will stop talking.

Key No. 4: Use good books to reinforce family rituals and celebrations. Read together as a family in your devotional and prayer times. Read different versions of the nativity story throughout the Christmas season, and different versions of the resurrection story during the Easter season. Combine short spiritual poems and Scripture readings with mealtime prayers.

Encourage your children to see God everywhere—in your home, in the world around them, and in the books they read. Make talking to God feel as natural as talking to each other in the family. As God told Israel, “These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up” (Deuteronomy 6:6-7, NIV).

Ask questions during the devotional time: “What book are you reading? What was the book about? What did you think about while you were reading? Did the book remind you of the blessings God gives you? Let’s thank God for our blessings.” As screenwriter Barbara Nicolosi has said, “Great art makes a soul homesick for Heaven.” By incorporating spiritual discussions with the books your child reads, you help stir a hunger for God and a longing for Heaven in your child’s soul.

Key No. 5: When talking to your children, freely admit you don’t know all the answers. Your children may ask a difficult question, and you may need to do some research or ask an expert. Don’t hesitate to say, “Let’s find the answer together.” Your children may learn more from researching the answer with you than if you spoon-fed the answer to them.

“Reading should not be presented to children as a chore, a duty. It should be offered as a gift.” —Kate DiCamillo

Next Saturday: Five more ways to use great children’s literature to help raise spiritually sensitive children.

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Note: Battle Before Time, the first book in my newly revised and updated Timebenders series for young readers, has just been released in paperback. Click this link to learn more.

Jim Denney also blogs at Writing in Overdrive and Walt’s Disneyland.

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Bible Study Encouragement by Julie Arduini

Posted on February 20, 2019 by juliearduini

This season I realized I was participating in three Bible studies. Three.

Our church is going through Goliath Must Fall by Louis Giglio as a small group experience. Although I read the book last year, this year I’m attending one group as a participant and am hosting another with my husband.

Our Sunday School class just finished Lysa TerKeurst’s It’s Not Supposed to be This Way. As a participant we watched the weekly video and discussion. Proverbs 31 hosted an online study, so I also did that, branching off into a private group where I’ve facilitated a weekly chat with a very small group also going through the study.

Rounding it up is a small group we started to tackle Joyce Meyer’s Battlefield of the Mind. I read this years ago and the group hit some delays, but re-reading in the midst of the other two studies has been something else.

I’m not going to lie, the information between these studies is overwhelming. There are so many nuggets I’ve gleaned. Principles to apply. Challenges to overcome. So much to surrender at the Lord’s feet.

I’ve also been blessed to look back on situations and find confirmation. I might not have handled everything perfectly, but God was present. He remains good. And none of those rejections and devastation were God’s joke at my expense. He had a purpose the entire time that advanced His kingdom for His glory.

Here’s a couple encouragements I thought I would share.

Years ago I had a mentor who listened to me struggle about God not moving fast enough on behalf of those who were hurting me or those I love. I didn’t get why they seemed to flourish while I was treading water. She gave me a visual that continues to help me to this day, and reinforced what I was reading in Goliath Must Fall.

“Your job is to lie on the couch and watch Jesus leave to fight your battles. When He returns, He longs to curl on the couch with you and talk about His day.”

It sounded so simple, but impossible. Trial by trial I let it go and trusted God, even if I’d never see the results this side of heaven. Although not every situation has played out, one that came to mind was an event where I was clearly facing intentional rejection. The pain was so deep it hurt to breathe, but I knew Christ was calling me to be obedient. I didn’t make waves, I attended with my head held high.

As lonely as it was, I felt God with me. His peace surrounded me. And He arranged such a blessing just for me to know He loved me and had my back. It was a simple gesture, but in man’s rejection, God’s proclamation that I mattered echoed through the walls of that place. It felt so good to know God handled it. None of that pain was God’s joke, even though at times it felt that way.

I don’t know what I’m going to do with all that free time I’ll have once these studies all finish, but I feel so much richer for them. My prayer is that if you are struggling, you will glean the confirmations, principles, and encouragement that God is always present and cares deeply about you and your pain. He has a purpose, an amazing plan for you on the other side of it, and your job is to be still and let Him fight your battles. He’s got you. Always.

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Jazmin’s a natural at dance until a series of changes make her wonder if she should even keep up with her favorite hobby.

Lena’s a mom with young children overwhelmed with her schedule when a woman remarks that what Lena does isn’t even important.

Both Jazmin and Lena belong to Linked, a mentoring ministry where all ages encourage each other and build friendships.

Can these two surrender the lies they are believing and realize they are amazing?

A novella for tweens, teens, and women of all ages by mother and daughter team Julie Arduini and Hannah Arduini.

You’re Amazing in Print

You’re Amazing eBook

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When Hope has a Hole in it.

Posted on February 19, 2019 by Kristin

We all go through valleys in life. The rain falls on the just and the unjust after all. We don’t get out of this life unscathed, but hopefully, we grow in the process. I don’t know if any of you have ever felt without hope, but it is the worst experience of my life. To feel like I’m useless to God and not know what my purpose is has taken a part of my soul. Even when you’re in it, you know it’s a lie of Satan. And we know what they say, when you’re walking through the valley, keep on walking.

Believe it or not, I’m naturally an upbeat person, but when my spirit was crushed, I was surrounded by the kind of Christians who were like Job’s friends. They told me I deserved the punishment. That it was a natural consequence. If only I’d done this, or said that…

35438347_10156178195326251_317147879854571520_n Looking back, I know that wasn’t true. Here’s the thing. When you are in the valley and things look really bleak? You want real Christian friends who will surround you and walk with you. They won’t lie to you to make you feel better, but they won’t beat you when you’re down either. Some acted as if they were immune to such a terrible fate as though they were more righteous and immune from troubles. The truth is, we all deserve death. We’re only saved by His grace, not our own works.

People rarely know the whole situation when you’re in a bad place, so take that into account when you’re feeling hopeless. (Is this person giving me bad advice aware of the whole story?) We are Christians, but we are human too and so we will suffer. Being a Christian doesn’t mean sweeping our pain under the rug as if it never happened. When we don’t deal with our emotions, they don’t go away. Things get more uncomfortable until we deal with the truth.

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If God was done with you here on earth, He’d take you up with Him. If you’re still here, then you’re supposed to be. Your situation is meant to grow you as a human being. Ask yourself what you’ve learned in your situation. What lessons have you conquered that you can help the next person going through it?

When darkness seems relentless, I try to remember that Paul had to study for 11 years just to be fit to preach. He had to be locked in a prison and his extreme knowledge of Judaism was nearly unnecessary since he’d been called to speak to the Gentiles. Paul had one plan for his ministry, but God had another. Could that be your situation?

God loves us. He gave up His Son for us. He doesn’t want you to hurt but He is there if you do. Let those with the gift of compassion hear your story and help you walk out of the valley. Patch that hole up. If you have to scream it out with God, go ahead. He can handle it. If your hope has a hole in it, stay away from smug religious types who want to tell you that you shouldn’t feel a certain way. Feelings can’t be helped. They are your truth. Acting on them is a different story.

If your hope is all patched up and pretty, go help patch a friend’s today.

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ON THEIR SHOULDERS WE STAND: PRESIDENTS’ DAY By Vicki Hinze

Posted on February 18, 2019 by Vicki Hinze

President George Washington, long ago dubbed the Father of our Country, was our first elected president after claiming independence. He died in 1799, and his birthday, February 22^nd, became a day of remembrance in appreciation of the sacrifices he made to establish our nation.

Washington was revered by the citizens of this country and, while his birthday marked a day of remembrance and appreciation, it was not an official holiday. It was an unofficial day of observance and celebration of his life.

It stayed that way until the 1870s when Washington’s birthday became a federal holiday that applied only to Washington DC. It wasn’t until 1885 that his birthday became a federal national holiday. At that time, there were only four federal holidays, and Washington’s was the first to celebrate a single individual. (Later, Abraham Lincoln’s birthday was noted on calendars also, but his was a State holiday.)

In the 1960s, the sole celebration of Washington expanded to Presidents’ Day to celebrate the contributions of all presidents. And so in 1968, much of the Uniform Monday Holiday Act passed, and by executive order in 1971, along with several other holidays, Washington’s birthday celebration shifted to Monday. The third Monday in February. No longer do we dedicate the day to the Father of our Country, but celebrate Presidents’ Day, collectively acknowledging all presidents.

Let us today remember our heritage and the root reason for the celebration and today’s federal holiday. Let us recall all who sacrificed to make our nation strong and independent. And let us express our gratitude to them. For it is on their shoulders we stand as a free people today.