Fruit and Love by Julie Arduini

This fall I’ve been attending a small group that has been discussing principles gleaned from the movie, Overcomer. There has been so much great conversation there. The one main theme I’ve come away with is when it comes to our identity, if we know Jesus, it has to be rooted in Him. And everyone will know us by our love.

Or lack of.

Years ago I was asked to give an opinion on a conflict that was sadly playing out on social media. Basically I was questioned which side did I believe. On one hand there was someone in a leadership position who grew up in the church. On the other, there was a broken person who was far from making perfect choices, but man, the worship was real.

I answered that I can’t tell them what to think, but my measuring stick was fruit. I said, “Look for the fruit.” For me, an abundant crop for the cause of Christ came from an unexpected place—the wounded warrior who kept their focus on Him and making sure He got the glory.

As I type, my Facebook feed is full of comments on Kanye West’s new album and very public proclamation that he is born again and that Jesus is his Savior. There are two camps I’m seeing: those rejoicing, and those warning the first camp to beware of a wolf in sheep’s clothing.

I don’t know where Kanye’s heart is, but I can say this: no one with a false agenda for the advancement of God’s Kingdom through Jesus would make Jesus the focus. In any cult or false testimony, whether immediate or in time, the real worship is on man and self. To hear that Kanye is proclaiming Jesus and that his mission is to point the world to HIM and not him, I gotta admit, I’m rooting for him.

No matter where he stands, the heat on him will be intense. His circle and fanbase have followed him for his brand of showcasing himself. And Christians? I fear a portion of those identifying as Christ followers will be criticizing his every move.

I’ve seen it time and time again. The modern Pharisees come in their perfect suits, perfect hair, and perfect attendance. But anything that looks less than perfect in the Body of Christ, they are rankled.

As the saying goes, just because you go to McDonald’s, it doesn’t make you a hamburger. Just because you go to church, it doesn’t make you a Christian.

You—and I—we will be known by our love and fruit.

—Julie Arduini

I’ve watched hungry hearts for Christ run into the world’s heartbreak because they came across those focused on religion point out their jeans while singing on the worship team. For awhile, those that sat with me joked it was a “tattoo safe pew” because they had been judged in other seats.

How dare we? Do we not remember Jesus wore a robe and sandals? That one of the most faithful messengers was a man who wore smelly clothes made out of camel hair and ate locusts and honey?

I’m far from an expert in anything Biblical or Christ-like. My faith is so simple and basic because I am not a complex thinker. I’m not that smart. But, I believe if we call ourselves followers of Christ, we need to be known by our love and our fruit.

God’s Word does not change. However, I believe the coming days are going to show a Holy Spirit infused movement where the imperfect, broken, smelly, weird, and downright shocking are going to rise up and proclaim their relationship with Christ. We’ve got to be ready to open our arms to an addict coming off a high walking into our church and sitting in “our” seat. There will be those in perfect suits walking to the altar because they are facing legal proceedings. So many things we can’t even predict will play out before us.

I told my friend who asked about the conflict that we better not be afraid to get close to those with a “Mess-timony.” They will have a witness, but it will make our jaws drop and our eyebrows raise.

The measuring stick we’re using on Kanye and Bieber, I have to use it on me. You need to do the same. How do people perceive you? They are looking to see how you love. They are looking for your fruit in how you treat others, serve, forgive.

Let’s rally around these new Christians, celebrity and not, and not spend our time waiting for them to fall, but pray they are safe, mentored, and able to go the distance to hear, as we all desire at the end of our time on earth, “Well done, faithful servant.”


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About juliearduini

Julie Arduini loves to encourage readers to find freedom in Christ by surrendering the good, the bad, and ---maybe one day---the chocolate. She’s the author of the new contemporary romance series SURRENDERING HEARTS (Anchored Hearts, Repairing Hearts, +four more.) Her other romance series is SURRENDERING TIME (Entrusted, Entangled, Engaged.) She also co-wrote a YA series with her daughter, SURRENDERING STINKIN’ THINKIN’ (You’re Beautiful, You’re Amazing, You’re Brilliant.) Her stand-alone romances include MATCH MADE IN HEAVEN and RESTORING CHRISTMAS. Julie maintains a blog at and participates in the team blog Christians Read. She resides in Ohio with her husband and two children. Learn more by visiting her at
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9 Responses to Fruit and Love by Julie Arduini

  1. I couldn’t agree more. Lately I have been noticing a lot of “ugly” in our world. Whether it’s the conflict between John MacArthur and Beth Moore, fans booing President Trump, others booing former President Obama, and even mothers screaming at the referees at a high school football game. When I look around at how “ugly” we are to one another, it just makes me sad. So thank you for speaking about this topic. Let us walk in Love, and as a result, others will witness Fruit!

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  2. Homer Les says:

    “Look at the fruit.” Yes. Wise words.

    Homer Les
    Uncompromising Faith

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  3. I don’t understand why everyone in the community of Christ is not loudly rejoicing that these young men have turned to Christ from the world. It’s a miracle! We cannot see into their inner being, but they are proclaiming Christ bravely. How many others will they bring home with them? Who on earth would NOT be thrilled?

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  4. Judy says:

    Like you, I hold to “by their fruits you will know them.” What I’ve discovered is that it also requires me to look deeper, make more of an effort to be engaged with people because fruit isn’t always obvious. Thanks for the reminder to stay focused on Jesus and His example and not the whisperings of the world.


  5. jrcoggins says:

    I don’t doubt the sincerity of these conversions, although there is always the possibility that, like seed falling on rocky ground, they received the word with joy but will soon fall away because they are not deeply rooted enough (Matthew 13:20-21). My main concern is that, because of their already existing fame, these baby Christians will be looked at as role models and Christian leaders, a position for which they cannot be adequately prepared. For this reason, Paul warned in 1 Timothy 3:6 that recent converts should not be made elders. We should welcome the confessions of faith made by Kanye and Justin, be careful not to put them on pedestals, and pray for them.

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    • juliearduini says:

      Yes, and I’m pleased so far with what I’m hearing from Kanye. He’s pointing to Jesus. He isn’t wanting the worship, and that’s a huge change from the past. I’m rooting/praying for him, but yes, it has to always be about Christ and following Him.


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