Unlocking Your Child’s Spirituality (Part 1 of 4)

BBT-1by Jim Denney,
author of Battle Before Time,
Christian time travel adventure
for young readers

Gladys Hunt, author of Honey for a Child’s Heart, urges parents to give their children the gift of soaring to other times and places, the gift of discovering strange wonders and fascinating people. “Life is full of choices between good, better, and best,” she writes. “Parents are the ones who bend the twig.” How do we, as parents, bend the twig toward what is best? Through good books for children.

“The plea I am making,” Hunt writes, “is simply this — make time for books! . . . Fill your children up with words, with imaginative worlds, with adventures beyond your ken.” 

She goes on to suggest several crucial benefits children derive from good literature:

First, good books teach children to savor life. “Books help children know what to look for in life,” Hunt explains. “Reading develops the taste buds of the mind.” As our culture grows increasingly more corrosive, literature elevates a child’s appreciation of grand ideas and deep truths.

Second, good books introduce children to the world of imagination, creativity, and curiosity. “Fancy a child who hasn’t met a dragon or a unicorn!” writes Hunt. “Imagine a child who doesn’t speculate about what small creatures live in a hollow tree or rocky crevice! That’s the stuff a sense of wonder may feed on.” Good books expand your child’s awareness of the universe of ideas.

Third, good books impart an understanding of different people and cultures. In books, children meet characters from other backgrounds and cultures. Young readers, Hunt says, “come to accept the feeling of being different. . . . Fear, which is the result of not understanding, is removed.” In this way, books help demolish barriers between people, so that understanding can flourish.

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Fourth, good books impart confidence, courage, and compassion. “Facing failures and tragedies with the characters of a story,” writes Hunt, “may vicariously give children the experience of courage and loyalty. Weeping with some and rejoicing with others — this is the beginning of a compassionate heart.” Great literature helps children identify with characters who face injustice, hard choices, mistreatment, and loss — and teaches children to endure adversity with character and faith in God.

Fifth, good books provide bonding experiences between parent and child. Hunt quotes Newbery Award laureate Richard Peck (A Year Down Yonder) who recalled, “I heard my first stories in my mother’s voice.” Peck adds that the bedtime-story bonding ritual is vital “because most of who we are is decided in those first five fleeting years of life before we ever see a school.”

Next Saturday, we’ll hear from a researcher who has studied the impact of children’s literature on the spirituality of children.

[Read Part 2 here.]

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Note: Don’t miss my interviews with Christian romance writer Robin Lee Hatcher (author of Who I Am With You and An Idaho Christmas: Past and Present), and Christian science fiction writer Kerry Nietz (author of Amish Vampires in Space and Fraught). Visit my website at Writing in Overdrive. See you there!
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Note: Battle Before Time, the first book in my newly revised and updated Timebenders series for young readers, has just been released in paperback. Click this link to learn more.

And if you’d like to learn more about how to write faster, more freely, and more brilliantly than you ever thought possible, read my book Writing In Overdrive, available in paperback and ebook editions at Amazon.com. —J.D.

 

Jim Denney also blogs at Writing in Overdrive and Walt’s Disneyland. 

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My Budget Sparkle Confession by Julie Arduini

This is hard to write, but I promised I’d always share what God prompts me to, so if this encourages you, awesome.

I’ve been in official menopause since my surgery in 2008. I wasn’t even 40, but the symptoms weren’t bad and I was so free from pain, it was a small price to pay.

Then I hit 45 and a new level of menopause seemed to hit. Weight gain. Big, dark circles under my eyes. Blotchy skin.

As I’ve learned the Curly Girl Method and faced trial and error with that, I’ve become more than vain, but afraid. I get I’m never gracing a catwalk. I know I’m inching toward 50 and few call that an exotic time of life when it comes to looks. But I confess I wanted something, anything that would make me feel a little special.

Enter Meghan Markle.

Or as I kept reading, Markle Sparkle.

She’s a romance author’s dream. American actress meets prince. Both from broken homes. Conflict between her not being English, her divorce, her career, and sadly I’ve read even her ethnicity as bi-racial has rankled those in the very elite circles that I can’t even imagine why that matters in 2019.

Anyway, when I saw clips from her wedding, and even as she’s visited places or been out with her husband, she glows. Yep, that Markle Sparkle.

And I thought, hey, I’d like to get me some of that.

Enter Google.

Instead of writing, like I should have, I spent the afternoon looking up that Markle Sparkle. Some attribute it to her personality, her marriage, her motivation, and then there was the skincare regime.

There were high-end products I’ve never heard of. Then there were products from Sephora that I have heard of, but that’s high-end for me, and I’m just not that girlie.

But, ah, down the list was something I could get on board with.

Could this budget friendly item supposedly part of the Duchess’ product list, be the answer that I’m seeking to get me out of my frump hump?

Aquaphor.

It’s a skin care treatment/healing ointment that I previously heard helped burns. The advice I read for that sparkle was to apply before makeup. Not a lot, and to rub in circles.

I’m so pale that my result made me feel like someone in the Twilight movies.

Then I thought I’d use a lotion that would also tan. Maybe it would bring out my freckles and highlight the glow!

You know what I have now?

A red face that looks like I’ve been drinking all night, and an acne breakout.

While Meghan has that sparkle.

But, wait. I’m not done.

I’ve also been doing quite a bit of reading, prayer time, journaling, and the like. Currently I’m working through a small group curriculum of Goliath Must Fall, as well as the study guide and book for Lysa TerKeurst’s latest, It’s Not Supposed to be This Way.

As I face some hard places and truths, I’m discovering new layers about myself and new levels of healing I didn’t even know I needed. I’m also working out regularly and trying to drink more water.

And although I’m still not loving what I see in the mirror, I saw a glimpse of something I haven’t noticed in a long time.

Joy.

It’s that gift from God that doesn’t depend on feelings, good hair, a certain weight, or royal recommendations. I’ve clung to joy when I had no clue how things were going to turn out, but I knew God was very present in it all.

Sephora can’t market that.

It’s so much more valuable than anything the royals wear.

And I have it for free.

I’m not into sounding like a used car sales tactic, so let me just say this: If that last line has you curious, if the whole post resonates because you’ve tried it all, you feel blah, and you don’t get how joy makes a difference, God gave me His Son for free. Seriously. Jesus did all the work, and it’s taken me decades to understand that. Beyond agreeing with that, I want more than to just believe. I’m constantly learning about Jesus, talking to Him, reading, listening to music, it’s a relationship. I love spending time discovering Him, and hearing from Him. He offers much, and joy is one of those things.

I’d kind of let it get buried with my stuff.

Yes, I still use Aquaphor here and there because it helps with the winter dryness. Yes, I still read articles about Markle Sparkle because she’s just so intriguing to me and I have a mom-type soft spot for Prince Harry.

No, I don’t have a younger, dew-like glow to myself that’s set me free from my menopause self. Nor am I interested in product suggestions.

But I have joy.

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Although Christian romance is my first genre, I’m working with our teen daughter on a series that’s both middle grade AND Women’s fiction. It’s two stories in one novella. The series, Surrendering Stinkin’ Thinkin, features a mentoring ministry with tween girls and adults. Each book features a character from each age group who needs to surrender a lie they are believing.

You’re Amazing is available on Amazon.

This post first appeared at juliearduini.com.

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It’s Loving to be Truthful…

This weekend, I went to my son’s new church and I was so pleased that they are not deniers of the truth.  Sometimes, the Bible shares some tough truths and there are a lot of Christians who feel that it’s best to ignore ugly truths and focus only on the good things in life.  Honestly, how I wish I could be one of those people.  But God did not wire me that way.  He made me a discerner.

Discerning can quickly morph into judgment–as every spiritual gift has its dark side. So I must be careful about that, but this weekend I was around someone who tried to shut down opposing opinions and say, “You can’t say that.”

Have you ever been told that you’re not supposed to feel a certain way?  This is a trigger for me — I’m a feeler and I cannot change that. In the Psalms, David felt everything under the sun! His emotions ran the gamut.  Now, we are not to sin in our emotions, but to deny them only makes us live inauthentically.

As Christians, God gave us feelings and emotions for a reason.  They are warning signs.  They lead us to prayer and deeper self-awareness — and hopefully, growth.  We should not be afraid of feelings and harsh truths.  We should be afraid of pretty lies because they enable sin to go underground and become insidious.  In my experience, the wolf in sheep’s clothing is by far, the most dangerous type of person.  They are the yeast in the dough.

Telling someone a hard truth is not the easy route, but we are to be as gentle as doves and as wise as serpents.  My experience is that we all need more of one side or the other. Offering the truth is love, for me, is better than denying it to live in a false bubble.

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“Dear children, let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth.” 1 John 3:18

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A Week of Lessons by Nancy J. Farrier

Last weekend, my husband and I drove to our daughter’s house to pick up our three-year-old grandson. He came back home with us for the week. This is the first time since moving that he’s been at our house. Since our youngest child is now twenty-five, I wondered how we would do with a toddler around. It’s been many years.

 

The week has been so much fun. We’ve played out on the slide and swings. We walked to the park almost every day and Jimmy was so excited. I read books to him, sang the ABC song more times than there are letters in the alphabet, played Candy Land and laughed so much.

 

Although I didn’t get any writing work done this week, I had a job that was so rewarding. There is nothing quite like praying at night with a grandchild and talking to them about Jesus and His love for them. Even at a young age they can begin to understand the concept.

 

In Deuteronomy 6:7 God speaks about His commandments and statutes. He tells the Israelites to, “… teach them diligently to your children and … talk of them when you sit in your house, when you walk by the way, when you lie down, and when you rise up.“

 

Teaching children is a full-time occupation and not up to those who work at a school or the video you put on the television. Every day, I talked to Jimmy about what color clothes he would wear, counted things with him, and put a red sock on his right foot and a green sock on his left foot. Every interaction turned into a chance to teach him even though it seemed more like play time.

 

Interwoven in the play time and lessons were tidbits about God and talking about Biblical truths. Although Jimmy is too young to understand a sermon, he can easily grasp stories of the Bible and begin to learn the concepts of love, sacrifice, grace and obedience. One bit at a time.

 

This coming week Jimmy’s parents and his baby brother will be at our house. I will continue to demonstrate that Christianity isn’t a Sunday morning thing to do, but is a life style. It means praying at meal times no matter where we are eating. Or learning a “God” lesson at the playground when the moment arises. A Christian lifestyle even means showing forgiveness when aggravated with someone. (Whew! That one can be tough. lol)

 

Just as I did with my children, I want my grandchildren to see me live out my faith every moment of every day. What a privilege to share Jesus with a young and curious mind—a child eager to learn. Although years have passed since I had a toddler in the house, not much has changed in the way I interact with them. Such a blessing and so many precious memories.

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When the Truth Slips Out

Opinion by Jim Denney

This past Tuesday, on the 46th anniversary of Roe v. Wade, New York Governor Andrew Cuomo signed a law allowing the abortion of babies up to the moment of childbirth. Then he ordered the Freedom Tower lit with pink lights to celebrate this victory for “choice.” The pink glow from the Tower is an affront to America’s conscience.

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Photo by Luigi Novi, released to the public domain.

Advocates of unrestricted “choice” claim the unborn are formless clumps of tissue that magically become babies as they pass through the birth canal. No, a baby in the womb is a human being, genetically distinct from the mother, with a soul and a right to live.

America was founded on the principle that all human beings “are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.” Removing restrictions on third-trimester abortion is the legalization of infanticide and a violation of the founding principle of this nation. 

Other states are seriously considering similar bills. Why are politicians hell-bent on legalizing the slaughter of infants? There is no voting bloc demanding unrestricted abortion throughout all forty weeks of pregnancy. Polling shows that only 13 percent of Americans favor such wide-open abortion laws (see Gallup’s breakdown of public opinion on abortion here).

Politicians are snubbing the will of the vast majority of their own voters. Why would they do that? Politicians like Governor Cuomo know they can get away with it. Government no longer serves the people or obeys the Constitution. Abraham Lincoln said that America fought the Civil War so that “government of the people, by the people, for the people, shall not perish from the earth.” But today we have government of the lobbyists, by the lobbyists, for the lobbyists.

Extremists pressure groups write huge checks to politicians, and the politicians do the bidding of the lobbyists, not the will of the people. So we are increasingly being governed by extreme laws and regulations, written by extremists with power and money, in direct violation of the conscience of the people.

One state considering similar legislation is Virginia, where Governor Ralph Northam, a pediatric neurologist, has publicly advocated a law that would allow newborn infants to be killed outside the womb (see a Washington Post video of his statement here; his disturbing pro-infanticide remarks begin at about the one-minute mark).

Kathy Tran, the sponsor of Virginia’s so-called “Repeal Act” (the infanticide bill Governor Northam supports) is a member of the Virginia House of Delegates. While testifying in support of her bill, she was questioned by another delegate, Todd Gilbert.

Watch the video here, and see her repeatedly dodge Gilbert’s questions.

At the 57-second mark of the video, Gilbert asks if the bill allows abortion up to the moment the mother is dilating. Tran, a mother of four, visibly winces at the word “dilating.” She tries once more to avoid the question, but Gilbert asks again, and she finally admits, “My bill would allow that, yes.”

Tran now claims she misspoke. But when politicians say “I misspoke,” they simply mean, “I let the truth slip out.”

More experienced politicians like Andrew Cuomo are skilled at never letting the truth slip out. Last month, in a speech supporting New York’s bill to eliminate abortion restrictions, Cuomo said of two recent Supreme Court appointees, “Kavanaugh is going to reverse Roe v. Wade. I have no doubt. Gorsuch is going to reverse Roe v. Wade. I have no doubt.”

Cuomo knows better. He’s a demagogue, intent on frightening uninformed supporters. He knows that two justices can’t reverse Roe v. Wade. He also knows that, even if Roe v. Wade were reversed, it would not end abortion in America. A reversal of Roe v. Wade would merely allow states to write their own abortion laws as the Tenth Amendment to the Constitution intended.

When Cuomo ordered the lighting of the Freedom Tower, its pink glow fell upon the National September 11 Memorial at its base. There the names of some 3,000 people who died in the 2001 attacks are inscribed on the parapets surrounding the waterfalls. Included are the names of eleven women. After the name of each one is the phrase “and her unborn child” (see the photo above).

We used to mourn the slaughter of the unborn. Now, at the very site of the September 11 Memorial, we celebrate the “right” to kill unborn children.

So I’m sad and I’m angry and I fear for my nation. I pray for my nation. And I can’t be quiet.

“Woe to those who call evil good and good evil, who put darkness for light and light for darkness, who put bitter for sweet and sweet for bitter!” Isaiah 5:20

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Note: Don’t miss my interviews with Christian romance writer Robin Lee Hatcher (author of Who I Am With You and An Idaho Christmas: Past and Present), and Christian science fiction writer Kerry Nietz (author of Amish Vampires in Space and Fraught). Visit my website at Writing in Overdrive. See you there!
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Note: Battle Before Time, the first book in my newly revised and updated Timebenders series for young readers, has just been released in paperback. Click this link to learn more.

And if you’d like to learn more about how to write faster, more freely, and more brilliantly than you ever thought possible, read my book Writing In Overdrive, available in paperback and ebook editions at Amazon.com. —J.D.

 

Jim Denney also blogs at Writing in Overdrive and Walt’s Disneyland. 

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My Laundry Addiction by Bridget A. Thomas

In the midst of my busy life, I used to do laundry every day. Now I am trying to cut back to at least every other day. Between Christmas and New Year’s, when I was getting tired of all the clutter in my house, I did laundry. When I had out-of-state family members staying at my house, and other in-state family members were popping in and out each day to see them, I did laundry.

I really didn’t think there was anything wrong with it, until other people commented on me doing laundry so much. So I stopped to consider it. It made me think. Perhaps with the hubbub and chaos, when I feel like there isn’t much in life that I can control, this gives me one thing that I can take command of. It is one thing that brings a bit of normalcy and peace to my life.

While I do find this to be a bit humorous, it is also sad. Why is it sad? Because God should be my peace, not laundry! So now I have been pondering something else. Why isn’t the Lord my peace? And how can I make Him my peace?

Here are just a few of the reasons why God might not be our peace:
  • We don’t allow Him to be.
  • We don’t run to Him with the speed bumps of life.
  • We react first to whatever is going on.
  • We allow ourselves to be too busy with life, and God is an afterthought.
  • We forget that He has already overcome the world.
  • We don’t completely trust Him.
  • We feel we must be in control of our lives, not Him.
  • We allow worry to run rampant in our hearts.
  • We don’t take every thought captive.
  • We don’t guard our hearts.
And here are just a few things we might do to allow Jesus to become our peace:
  • Spend time with Him every morning.
  • Read the Bible to allow His truth in our hearts.
  • Let Him be the anchor in our day.
  • When hurdles come along, hand them over to Him.
  • Don’t allow small annoyances to get under our skin.
  • Don’t hold onto expectations. 
  • Keep in mind that the enemy is actively trying to steal our peace. When we remember that tidbit, it prepares us for what lies ahead. And it helps us to not fall prey to his tactics.
  • Allow the Lord to have control. This is a difficult one for many people.
  • When we are worried about something, let God know we trust Him. I will sometimes say the words aloud, “I trust You!” This immediately makes me feel better.
  • When it feels like we are moving at the speed of light, we need to make conscious decision to pause and turn to The Light!

I would love to hear your thoughts. Is Jesus your peace? If not, why is that? If He is your peace, how do you ensure He stays anchored there?

Now may the Lord of peace himself give you his peace at all times and in every situation. The Lord be with you all. – 2 Thessalonians 3:16 NLT

(Photo by Bill Davenport.)

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Summer is Coming (by Hannah Alexander)

Do you miss summer yet?

It’s been quite the winter for most of the country. Harsh cold, bitter wind, heavy snows, black-outs. Actually, also dangerous white-outs that send a lot of motorists to the emergency room when the snow is blowing so thickly and drifting so badly over interstate that no one can see. I’ve driven in those white-out conditions and found my way off interstate as soon as possible, then wandered around backroads for a couple of hours before I reached my destination. After exiting the interstate, I wasn’t too worried because I’d been on those backroads before and I had a good idea about my direction and I had good tires.

So I’ve pulled out some pictures taken in summers past to remind myself that summer is coming again. 

Oh, yes, all those colors, that beauty, the green, the warmth. It’s coming. Don’t forget that it has come every year for as long as you can recall. It’s a promise, these seasons. You might live in a place where you don’t get a lot of snow. Maybe you live where the weather is just right in the winter and hits 120 in the summer. For you this is a warning–summer is coming.

This is our first winter in our new  home in Wyoming. After yet another snow, when I’m shoveling more from the drive, neighbors and the mail carrier ask me if I’m sick of it yet. Everyone expects us to leave. I tell them the sun shines every day despite the cold. I haven’t had this kind of sunshine since I was a child in California. I have been assured that by the time summer comes, I’ll be so sick of winter I’ll never want to spend another one here.

But I look at the pictures and remember that promise of summer. Here in Wyoming, that’s my favorite season. We’re high and dry here, and the elevation keeps us from the punishing heat. The trails beckon every day, and there are so many to choose from, such a short drive away. The sunshine makes me high to the point that people want to shoot me because I tend to be a little too cheerful.

If you’re in a winter season of your life–and often people tend to seasonal affective disorder when the clouds linger and the days are short–never forget that it won’t last forever. I understand that it feels that way right now, but winter doesn’t last for us. Spring always comes, followed by the warmth of summer.

If you’re struggling with more than seasonal affective disorder, if you have illness in your body or a family member is suffering, if relationships are tearing you apart and you feel there’s no way out, remember those seasons. There are deaths and divorce and awful pain, and suffering will always be with us on this earth. I know because I’ve been there. The longer you live, the more you know that suffering happens. You might look back on those times of suffering now, however, and it will dawn on you that you’ve gotten through them before and you’ll get through the again. They might be different kinds of struggle, but the darkness lifted.

If the darkness hasn’t lifted for you and you’re a child of God, then you can have the assurance that this suffering does go away, and it is removed forever. You have your true life to look forward to forever.

We are here for a few decades of changing seasons. We don’t know how long we will be on this earth. But this truly is not our world. We have so much more to look forward to. The pictures above won’t hold a candle to the true beauty of what God has in store for us. When you’re drifting through the snow, lost in the white-out, or lost in the dark, never forget that God’s got this. He will not let us down. What we see on this earth doesn’t hold a candle to the joys we have in store.

 

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DID YOU KNOW by Vicki Hinze

A few things you might find of interest…



Author Pat Nichols is Patti Shene’s guest on The Over 50 Writer, sharing lessons she learned in the pursuit of her writing dreams later in life. 

Note:  If you leave a comment you’ll be entered in a drawing for an ebook copy of her women’s contemporary (with a dash of cozy mystery) novel, *The Secret of Willow Inn. Drawing closes Saturday, February 2nd at midnight MST. http://ow.ly/hTZv30npNuZ

Mike Garrett is Peg Phifer’s guest at Whispers in Purple, where he talks about his recent release “Innocence Denied” and is giving away an eBook copy to one of the commenters on the post. http://bit.ly/2FTlKdF

Note: Giveaway ends on Wednesday, January 30 at MIDNIGHT CST. Winner will be drawn on Jan 31 and notified via email.

Mike aka TM Brown asks that we take a moment to learn about “Megan’s Pledge Campaign” – a love effort throughout February to support Coweta Pregnancy Services, Newnan, GA. 

https://mailchi.mp/3f8e99744071/megans-pledge-campaign

A note from Mike:  Thank you for taking a moment to read about Megan’s Pledge. Obviously, to better understand the bridge from the character in my stories to the significance of the campaign you might need to read one or both my books. I also pray you’ll consider forwarding… to a few friends and family members who would likewise like to take part.

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A Disney Disappointment

by Jim Denney, author of Walt’s Disneyland

In November 2017, I went to Disneyland with my kids and grandkids. We got off the tram before entering the Park and walked past the shops at the east end of Downtown Disney. On one wall was a giant movie poster announcing, “Coming March 9, 2018: Disney’s A Wrinkle in Time.”

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The entrance to Downtown Disney in Anaheim, photo by “Geographer,” image licensed under the Creative Commons Attribution 2.5 Generic license.

I hadn’t heard that a screen adaptation of A Wrinkle in Time was in the works. I’ve read the novel multiple times since I first discovered it when I was nine years old (I wrote about my first encounter with the book in a previous Christians Read column in September 2017). I’m also a dedicated Disney fan (which is why I wrote Walt’s Disneyland and co-wrote How to Be Like Walt with Pat Williams). I was eager to see the movie.

When March rolled around, however, I was deep in a deadline crunch. I put off going to the theater — and before I knew it, the movie was no longer playing. I wondered why. Almost a year passed, and I saw that Disney’s A Wrinkle in Time had come to Netflix. So, a week or so ago, I watched it — and I found out why it didn’t last long in theaters.

The filmmakers took one of the most fondly remembered books of my childhood and ripped the heart and soul out of it. That sounds like an exaggeration. It’s not. Madeleine L’Engle’s A Wrinkle in Time has a Christian heart, a Christian soul. The Disney filmmakers carefully and painstakingly eliminated all the core truths of Madeleine L’Engle’s original work and left them on the cutting room floor.

It’s not easy to de-Christianize such a thoroughly Christian novel as A Wrinkle in Time. It took a massive and aggressive anti-Christian bias to produce this $130 million parody of L’Engle’s novel. The filmmakers had to make deliberate creative decisions, fully aware of what they were doing, to wring this pale, lifeless travesty from L’Engle’s bold, mind-expanding, ground-breaking novel. Imagine a movie version of the Chronicles of Narnia that replaced Aslan with Kung Fu Panda — that would hardly be less egregious than what the Disney studio did to A Wrinkle in Time.

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Watching Disney’s A Wrinkle in Time on Netflix on my computer. The screen shows Oprah Winfrey as Mrs. Which. My battered and well-worn paperback copy of Madeleine L’Engle’s original novel is in the foreground.

There were a few bright spots in the film. Young actress Storm Reid was superb in the role of Meg Murray. She perfectly captured the awkwardness and inner conflict of L’Engle’s Meg. The rest of the casting decisions ranged from so-so to disastrous. The worst-cast character in the film was Mrs. Which, portrayed with mannequinesque stiffness by Oprah Winfrey. She seemed fearful that her gold-sequined makeup might crack if she made a facial expression.

After watching the movie, I picked up L’Engle’s original novel and I was pleased to discover that I could still imagine the characters and scenes with my own imagination — the movie hadn’t ruined the book for me. Perhaps it’s because the movie departs so freely from the original that the book and the movie don’t seem like the same story.

While reading A Wrinkle in Time (a well-worn 1976 Dell Laurel Leaf paperback edition), I took note of some of the biblical themes that had been deleted from the movie script:

Page 66: There’s a scene in which Mrs. Whatsit sings a hymn of praise to God, drawn from Isaiah 42; L’Engle writes that the song stirs in Meg “a pulse of joy such as she had never known before.” A beautiful passage in the book, deleted from the film.

Pages 84-85: The three Mrs. W’s tell Meg and her companions that spiritual warfare is raging in the universe, and there are many warriors fighting on God’s side. Meg’s friend Calvin asks, “Who have our fighters been?” “Oh, you must know them, dear,” Mrs. Whatsit replies. And Mrs. Who adds, “And the light shineth in darkness; and the darkness comprehended it not.” Then Meg’s little brother Charles Wallace exclaims, “Jesus! Why of course, Jesus!” But you won’t hear the name of Jesus mentioned in the movie.

Page 157: L’Engle’s reference to Romans 8:28 (“And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose”) has been cut.

Page 173: Calvin’s realization that the three Mrs. W’s are angels has been cut. And as you watch the movie, it’s clear that these three beings could not possibly be angels. For example, Mrs. Whatsit is largely played for comic relief. In one scene in the movie, she rather stupidly and insensitively kicks Meg in the ribs to see if Meg is okay, something L’Engle’s original Mrs. Whatsit would never do. By going for a cheap laugh, the filmmakers violated the character.

Since the three magical Mrs. W’s in the movie are clearly not angels, as the author intended them to be, they seem to be witches in the minds of the filmmakers. The three Mrs. W’s never quote Scripture, as in L’Engle’s novel. Twice, however, they quote a 13th-century Muslim mystic named Rumi. Also worth noting: the Mrs. W’s in the movie never tell Meg to have faith in God, as they do in the book; instead, they urge her to have faith “in who you are.”

The worst betrayal of the book by the Disney filmmakers was the elimination of the core theme of the book, found in Chapter 12: The Foolish and the Weak. In that chapter, Meg faces a lonely decision: Will she take the supreme risk of going alone to Camazotz to save her little brother, Charles Wallace?

On page 182, as Meg wrestles with her decision, Mrs. Who quotes from 1 Corinthians 1: “But God hath chosen the foolish things of the world to confound the wise; and God hath chosen the weak things of the world to confound the things which are mighty; And base things of the world, and things which are despised, hath God chosen, yea, and things which are not, to bring to nought things that are.”

That’s a powerful moment in the book. It’s a nonexistent moment in the movie. In fact, Meg doesn’t wrestle with the decision at all in the movie — she simply acts on impulse. The filmmakers seemed blind to the moral vision of L’Engle’s original story.

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The original cover of A Wrinkle in Time. This is the edition I discovered in 1962 in the library of my elementary school.

The story of A Wrinkle in Time turns on this great truth in 1 Corinthians 1. It’s the same truth that forms the foundation of Tolkien’s The Lord of the Rings, C. S. Lewis’s Chronicles of Narnia, and I would humbly add, my own Timebenders series, beginning with Battle Before Time. Madeleine L’Engle states it explicitly, quoting the passage. A Wrinkle in Time is fundamentally about the biblical truth that God has chosen the foolish things to confound the wise, the weak things to confound the mighty. This is a powerful, life-changing truth. It changed my life when I first read A Wrinkle in Time when I was nine years old.

The Disney filmmakers chopped this truth out of the story with a meat cleaver. Without this central truth to build their story on, the filmmakers got lost. The movie is rife with contradictions and inconsistencies. At one point, for example, Mrs. Which tells Meg that she and the other Mrs. W’s cannot go with her to Camazotz because “we can only tesser where we find light, for we are light. Camazotz is all darkness.”

Then, literally moments later, they all tesser to Camazotz, including the three Mrs. W’s — the very place Mrs. Which just said they cannot go. And Camazotz is not all darkness, for they are arrive in a brightly lit field of wheat. The contradiction is one of many that are never explained.

There are no such inconsistencies in the original book. L’Engle had the story figured out, and it all revolved around her moral and Christian vision. When the filmmakers discarded L’Engle’s vision, they didn’t realize they were unraveling the story, just as pulling at a hanging bit of yarn can unravel a sweater.

If there is one good thing that could come from Disney’s A Wrinkle in Time (and I can only think of one), it is that it may prompt some viewers to read the infinitely superior original book by Madeleine L’Engle. If you’ve seen the movie but you’ve never read the book, you don’t know the story of A Wrinkle in Time.

Do yourself a favor. Treat yourself to the original. The movie will only disappoint you. The book will touch your soul and change your life.

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Note: You may also enjoy my op-ed piece on Walt Disney’s impact on the American space program. You’ll find it at the FoxNews.com website: https://www.foxnews.com/opinion/walt-disney-deserves-credit-for-our-progress-on-the-moon-and-mars-not-just-mickey-mouse.

And don’t miss my interviews with Christian romance writer Robin Lee Hatcher (author of Who I Am With You and An Idaho Christmas: Past and Present), and Christian science fiction writer Kerry Nietz (author of Amish Vampires in Space and Fraught). Visit my website at Writing in Overdrive. See you there!
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Note: Battle Before Time, the first book in my newly revised and updated Timebenders series for young readers, has just been released in paperback. Click this link to learn more.

And if you’d like to learn more about how to write faster, more freely, and more brilliantly than you ever thought possible, read my book Writing In Overdrive, available in paperback and ebook editions at Amazon.com. —J.D.

 

Jim Denney also blogs at Writing in Overdrive and Walt’s Disneyland. 

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This Too Shall Pass by Vicki Hinze

I spotted the quote above on a meme.  It was the perfect meme for me at that moment. Seeing it wasn’t a coincidence. It was evidence that when we most need guidance it comes to us in often unusual ways.  We must just notice and focus long enough to recognize what we’re noticing as guidance.

That isn’t always easy.  Because when we are troubled, we tend to see things through the prism of whatever it is that is troubling us.  If we’re having a trust crisis, we notice trust issues.  If we’re having a kid challenge, we notice kid challenges.  If we’re having an issue on a false accusation—against us or someone we care about—we notice everything related to false accusations.

That’s human.  But it is also a problem.  Because if we’re focused on the problem, we are not focused on resolving the problem.

That makes it imperative that we recognize the problem, then switch our focus to what we can do to resolve it.  Noticing the problem in others, so that we better understand the complexities of the problem is important.  Don’t get me wrong.  You must come to understand what’s wrong before you can hope to make things right.  The problem is, we often notice what’s wrong and let what we notice drag us into a pit of despair, focusing solely on what’s wrong.  We never get to the, “Okay, this is the problem. I get it.  Now, how can I fix it?”

The purpose of understanding is complete. But you must make a conscious effort to release the notice and switch your focus to solutions.  Some get stuck in the notice pit.  Why?

Many reasons. But some really common ones are: 

We have to do something.  Something more than gripe about the unfairness, the injustice, the challenge, and asking, “Why me?” 

We’re exhausted and weary to the bone of all the bad things going on and we just can’t find the energy to deal with one more thing.  Yet if we don’t, we’re going to keep dealing with this thing until we do resolve it.  

Have you ever gone to bed at night and something weighing on your mind just keeps replaying and replaying and you can’t shut it off?  You watch the time tick off on the clock knowing you must let go and yet your mind won’t shut down?  That’s the absence of a resolution and what it does to us.

We don’t want to change anything. We want some nebulous something to change this thing for us.  The fact is, there’s no use in scanning the classifieds for a white knight.  They’re all booked elsewhere.  If we want to resolve a challenge in our life, we must make the effort to resolve it.

On that, may I suggest hitting your knees first and not as a last resort?  I am a simple woman.  I don’t claim to have all the answers to all the questions in life, but I do know this: God does know the answers, and seeking his counsel is the smartest thing seekers can do.  And the sooner we do it, the sooner we get to resolutions.

It is a fact that brainwave patterns change during prayer.  That means the way we are thinking changes.  We don’t feel it’s us alone against the world.  We don’t feel we’re the only person on the planet facing this specific challenge.  If God is guiding us—through thoughts, signs, messengers in the form of friends or family or strangers on the street, or notice—then an answer to our challenge exists. And we are not facing it alone. We are not the only one facing it.

There is power in knowing that.  Power in engaging with the most sympathetic of ears. With the most compassionate of hearts.  With the most understanding and greatest in wisdom.

Regardless of what we’re facing and how challenging it is, we know that circumstances last for a season.  It might be a long or short season, and it might be painful and test us into better knowing who we are and where we stand or sit.  It might be uncomfortable and cause us different challenges that we do not want to visit even though we know we must.  But it is just a season.  And while it might pass with the elegance and ease of a kidney stone, it will pass.

There’s strength and hope in that certainty. Discoveries to be made.  About ourselves and about others.  About human nature and about humanity.  

Knowledge is always beneficial and perhaps it’s more valuable if gaining it isn’t easy but fought hard for, enduring that inelegance. Maybe that battle assures us that the knowledge and insights we gain are important.  Worth remembering.

Undoubtedly, the knowledge and insights stay with us, and we bring it forward in other situations for the rest of our lives. Perhaps in ways that spares us from other hard seasons and their kidney stones.

Of this I am certain:  When you’ve been through a hard season and emerge wiser for the experience, you gain a new and deeper appreciation for other seasons. For ones of hope and joy and affirmations of the good in people and in life.  

You then understand the saying about beauty being in the eye of the beholder.  Little looks beautiful when you’re in a kidney-stone season.  But when you’re not, beauty manifests in many things.

Mmm, thinking. . .  Years ago I wrote a story about a man standing beside a pond and barn. He was mourning the death of his son. He saw dark things like the cracks between the slats in the wooden barn.  Dark and murky water.  

In the story, there was a little girl at that same pond.  She had learned to ride a two-wheel bike and was elated.  Joyful.  Thrilled at the sense of freedom.  

Same pond. Same time-frame. Same story.  Just seen through two different sets of eyes, from two in different seasons.

I wrote then:  “There is nothing so arrogant as sunshine to one who is grieving.”

Mindset.  How we see what we see.  And a fitting reminder of the big truth about seasons.

They pass.

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Does Religious Liberty Still Exist? by Vicki Hinze

WHY CHRISTIANS CAN’T SIT THIS ONE OUT

This article could be about many topics. Today it’s about politics and religious liberty. Both drastically impact our lives, like it or not, and that’s why we can’t afford to sit either out.

Many Christians feel that we’re Constitutionally guaranteed the freedom of religion and that ends debate.  While it’s true Americans have the guarantee, the truth is, religious and other freedoms are under attack and have been for many years. So what’s different?  Why now must we pay closer attention and use our voices?

Rather than get into a long detailed discussion, let me pose a few questions that will make the reason clear:

Are you aware:

1. Judicial nominee faces Senate scrutiny over Knights of Columbus membership?

Washington D.C., Dec 21, 2018 / 02:00 pm (CNA).- A judicial nominee faced questions from Senators this month about whether membership in the Knights of Columbus might impede his ability to judge federal cases fairly. The Knights of Columbus say that no candidate for public office should have to defend his membership in a Catholic service organization.

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This raises concerns across the spectrum of what will be deemed unacceptable or inappropriate religious ties–this time and next.

  1. Many notable leaders explicitly state that Christianity is under attack?

Evangelist Franklin Graham said he believes Christianity has been attacked and marginalized by “anti-Christ” media and a liberal government and that it is time for Christians to become more active in politics.

Read the article

  1. Some Christians are praying for President Trump to fail because he doesn’t meet their standards of what a Christian should be?

I am not going to include the written statements I have seen on that subject.  First, we’re not to judge.  Secondly, we’re instructed to pray for our civil authorities.  Here is an article on that:

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/acts-of-faith/wp/2017/01/20/you-should-pray-for-donald-trump-no-matter-how-you-voted/?noredirect=on&utm_term=.017adfbaa93b

Numerous religious leaders have spoken to how much the current president is doing to support religious freedom.  On that, I have strong (and many) opinions.  But my opinions are insignificant.  What is significant is that if our president fails, we lose.   If we lose, America loses.

We all know history has been being rewritten. That faith and its rightful place in our nation is under duress. Many attempt to marginalize it, many attempt to eradicate it.

I’m reminded of a story about Cuba.  When it was taken over by Castro.  People there didn’t think he’d take their businesses. He did.  They didn’t think he’d take their homes.  He did.  They didn’t think they’d live isolated in a country where they had no voice and could pay the steepest of penalties for simply speaking what they saw is truth. They did and have.

It happened there.  It’s happened in many countries around the world.  At a time when there is talk of a state banning the bible (see links below), of people of faith not being fit to serve in political office, of socialism, which is a repeatedly failed pathway to communism that often bans religion, being pushed in schools and universities, we must each make the call.  Do we sit on the sidelines and watch the erosion or do we engage, get involved and walk the walk as well as talk the talk?

That is a decision each person of faith must make. There is no judgment on anyone regardless of their decision.  Nor is there absolution for watching religious freedom evaporate and then claiming unawareness or disbelief that it happened.

Let this serve as a warning.  The attempt is being made.  Whether or not you permit it to continue is up to you.

Links:

http://joemiller.us/2018/04/warning-state-ban-bible-sales/.  Some dispute this, but it bans books that interfere with the “conversion therapy” on genders.  Ban any work that involves “sexual orientation change.”

https://radio.foxnews.com/2018/04/24/could-california-ban-the-bible/

http://www.thefinaledition.com/article/bible-to-be-banned-in-arizona-under-state-law-forbidding-ethnic-studies.html

The point is only this:  There is dispute on the intention of the cited.  The dispute is not my point.  It is this:  Why in a country where we have religious liberty and it is NOT to be infringed upon, must we be concerned the Bible will be banned?

WHY AM I WRITING ABOUT THIS TODAY?

At the end of last week, a group of students went to DC for the pro-life march.  The following day, they visited the Lincoln Memorial.  While there a native American man playing a drum was observed by the students.  That man later claimed to media outlets that the students slurred him, intimidated him, and he was concerned for his safety.

The media ran with that story.  The students were doxxed online, threatened by “adults”, and school officials threatened to suspend them for their alleged actions.

After being publicly reamed and shamed, raw footage of the purported incident was released.  I watched it.  I saw the drummer get very close to a student–who blinked frequently at being so close to the drumstick.  He stood, smiling, and didn’t utter a word. On watching, I honestly believed the boy was just enjoying the drumming and observing.  At no time did even his expression reflect ill-will.  He didn’t move.  Just stood watching.

Later, it was revealed that this drummer was an activist and had been involved in similar situations before.  If you want more information on that, I’ll leave you to it.

An attorney stepped forward to defend the students at no charge.  The school shifted position and urged people to stand up for the students.  That set off a firestorm on social media under the hashtag .#ExposeChristianSchools, where some were trying to paint them as horrible institutions.

Many stepped forward to defend the students, and yet they were harmed and under threat for something that didn’t happen.  The turmoil in their lives, the dangers heaped on them by those who didn’t wait for the facts before creating havoc, was clear.

That was one reason.  The firestorm against Christians Schools was another reason.  And finally, just thinking back over the past couple of weeks to the things that are irrefutably anti-Christian was the final straw.

Watch the footage.  Read the media reports that haven’t been deleted or amended.  Look at the social media posts and tweets.

The alarms, for me, blared.  We’d better stop sitting on the sidelines and step up.  We’d better stand with the leaders who stand with us.  Pray for them.  Support them.  Because if we don’t, they will lose, and if they lose, we lose.  Religious liberty will be a fading memory.  I–we–can’t let that happen.

Note:  Check “Comments” for further updates.

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Looking Forward to That Day by Jim Denney

Opinion by Jim Denney, author of Answers to Satisfy the Soul

I once interviewed supermodel Kim Alexis at her home in Laguna Hills, California. Kim met me at the door, all smiles and warm California hospitality. She wore blue jeans, her hair was up in a pony-tail, and she wore little make-up. She quickly put me at ease and we talked about her childhood, her modeling and acting career, and her deep Christian faith.

kimalexisKim is also an athlete and a former marathon runner, and she told me an amazing story about her running coach, a man named Hank. It was Hank who persuaded Kim to enter her first marathon in Jacksonville, Florida. He ran beside her the entire race, holding her hand as they crossed the finish line. 

Hank and Kim had known each other for about ten years when Hank was diagnosed with cancer. He underwent treatment and the cancer went into remission for a time, but it eventually returned.

The last time Kim saw Hank, she and her husband Ron were in Florida for a charity event. They met Hank and his wife Jody for dinner. “At one point,” Kim told me, “Hank leaned over and said, ‘Kim, it’s all through me.’ That’s all he said about the cancer. It was like he wanted me to know it was serious, but he refused to dwell on the negative. The next moment, he was talking and joking like he didn’t have a care in the world.”

I asked Kim how old Hank was at the time.

“Fifty,” she said. “He looked healthy. But over the next few months, the cancer just ravaged him. His weight dropped to ninety pounds and he couldn’t even walk. But he never believed he was going to die. I called Hank and Jody a number of times — they lived in Arkansas — and he’d always say, ‘I can’t wait to beat this thing so I can get out and run again.’ “

Not long after one of Kim’s phone conversations with Hank, she was in a Los Angeles studio, recording radio commercials. “A studio sound booth is very quiet,” she told me, “like a prayer chapel. I had about twenty scripts to read, and while I was recording the spots, I suddenly had the strangest feeling. I had a strong impression that Hank was in the sound booth with me, standing behind me. The feeling was so strong I turned around to see if he was there.”

I asked, “Was it just a feeling that someone was in the booth with you? Or was it specifically Hank?”

“Oh, definitely Hank,” she replied. “I knew it was him. I sensed his presence for ten, maybe fifteen minutes. The taping took about an hour, and as soon as I got out of the booth, I called my husband. I said, ‘Ron, is there something going on with Hank? I just had the strangest feeling about him.’ He said, ‘Jody just called. Hank died about an hour ago.’ And that was just when I had sensed his presence. I don’t know how these things work, but I believe he came to tell me good-bye, because we’d been such good friends.”

Kim’s experience is not scientific proof of the reality of the soul, the immortality of the spirit. But it’s difficult to discount or dismiss such an incident. This story affirms the words of Ecclesiastes 12:7, “And the dust returns to the earth as it was, and the spirit returns to God who gave it.”

A day is coming, and it’s not far off for any of us, when this perishable body will put on the imperishable, and this mortal body will put on immortality.  On that day, death will be swallowed up in victory.

I’m looking forward to that day. Are you?

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Note: You may also enjoy my op-ed piece on Walt Disney’s impact on the American space program. You’ll find it at the FoxNews.com website: https://www.foxnews.com/opinion/walt-disney-deserves-credit-for-our-progress-on-the-moon-and-mars-not-just-mickey-mouse.

And don’t miss my interviews with Christian romance writer Robin Lee Hatcher (author of Who I Am With You and An Idaho Christmas: Past and Present), and Christian science fiction writer Kerry Nietz (author of Amish Vampires in Space and Fraught). Visit my website at Writing in Overdrive. See you there!
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Note: Battle Before Time, the first book in my newly revised and updated Timebenders series for young readers, has just been released in paperback. Click this link to learn more.

And if you’d like to learn more about how to write faster, more freely, and more brilliantly than you ever thought possible, read my book Writing In Overdrive, available in paperback and ebook editions at Amazon.com. —J.D.

 

Jim Denney also blogs at Writing in Overdrive and Walt’s Disneyland. 

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The Wedding Shop

I recently read The Wedding Shop by Rachel Hauck and wanted to share my thoughts on the book with you.

This book tells the story of two different women. One woman, Cora, lives in the 1930s and runs an esteemed wedding shop in Tennessee. Brides from miles around flock to this shop because it is simply the best. Cora hopes that one day she will be the bride, and she is certain that the captain she has been seeing will be her groom. But he is the captain of a river boat, and she only gets to see him when he happens to be in town. Often they go months without seeing one another. Meanwhile, her good friend is there by her side, when her beau is not.

Present day, Haley, who is a former Air Force Captain, has returned to her home town in Tennessee. Her best friend recently passed away, and Haley also went through a bad break up. These two events have caused Haley to feel a bit lost. To everyone’s dismay, Haley decides to reopen the old wedding shop.

This book was such a treasure to read. I really enjoyed the way the author intertwined to the two stories and the two eras. And the book had a lot of twists which kept me on the edge of my seat, waiting to see the outcome for the main characters.

I enjoy books that can take us away from the troubles of daily life for a bit. But on the other hand, I also appreciate it when those books make us ponder real life. Hopefully this can then help us learn a few valuable lessons along the way. This book had both aspects that I was looking for – a light, easy read which also made me think. Through this book we consider the fact that anyone is susceptible to sin. Sometimes it is knowingly, and sometimes we are naive to all the circumstances. When we realize this, it helps us to not be so quick to judge others. This book also touches on forgiveness of others and ourselves, the grace of God, and extending mercy to those around us. In the world we live in where everyone seems to be angry about something, I think we all could use a bit more forgiveness, grace, and mercy.

I definitely enjoyed and recommend this book. It was both entertaining and enlightening. Happy Reading!

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Tums in My Pocket by Julie Arduini

I love how God uses the daily things to teach, challenge, and inspire me. Last week of all the things to give me an a-ha moment, it was a packet of Tums.

Yep. Tums.

My guess is I needed them because of holiday eating that I’m still trying to get under control. But on that day I knew I’d be traveling most of the day and feared I’d have heartburn. I threw a small packet of the chalky relief into my pocket and went about my day.

Hours later, the heartburn flared.

Ugh. It was the last thing I wanted to deal with. It was such a busy day. I pushed through the agenda with a fiery chest wishing there was relief.

It took hours for me to remember the healing was right there in my pocket and had been all along. I had Tums in my pocket the entire time.

At first I laughed at myself, and then I was frustrated. I could have saved so much of the day pushing through had I accessed the Tums the moment I felt the heartburn start.

Then, the Jesus nudge whispered to my heart, no longer feeling on fire.

“Imagine how I feel when you’re struggling for a solution and I’ve been in your pocket the entire time, just waiting to help?”

Yeah. That.

How many times have I ran first to my husband to vent, or created a prayer chain on messenger, or made a beeline for the cupboard where those chocolate mint cookies offered me nothing but more heartburn and a bigger waistline?

I hate to confess that, but it’s true. There are so many times I’ve needed rescue, answers, healing, and provision and every time I had the Answer in my pocket and went about it as if no help was available.

In my reading of late, every theme that I’ve walked away with is He is present. He is not only there in the situation I’m struggling with, He’s ahead of me, already there before it happens, and already at the place where there’s resolution. He cares. He is with me. Always.

The praise in that moment was it wasn’t condemnation, and that’s how I knew it was the Lord. It was an a-ha, “you’re right, Jesus,” experience where I am praying to have a faster reaction time.

To stop before I run to anyone and anything and access the Answer. The Healer. My Provider. My Savior. My Friend.

The Tums in my pocket, if you will.

I haven’t been perfect in that pursuit. Our daughter has health challenges that takes my observation and then the wisdom and discernment to know how best to treat her. I get so wrapped in that cycle I forget to pray. The “prayer warrior” women message to stand in the gap and I forget to pray for my own child.

Ugh.

But.

He is a Way-Maker, and I shake off my missteps and keep on keeping on.

I encourage you to do the same.

He is Our Tums in the Pocket and so much more.

May we access Him first in our circumstances.

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From Thankfulness to Joy by Nancy J. Farrier

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Here we are starting a whole new year. A year full or expectation and hope. A time when some choose to make resolutions and often break them before the end of the first week. That used to be me. I was not at all good at resolutions so I started off the year with discouragement.

 

Some of you may remember from last year that I mentioned I don’t do resolutions. Instead, I pray about choosing a word for the year, a word that will change my life for the better and make me a better person.

 

Last year, my word was Thankfulness. With the changes I faced in the coming year – changes I didn’t want – I had no idea how to be thankful, but I learned. Sometimes being thankful proved almost impossible. Still, with God’s help, I learned to give thanks no matter what. A great lesson to learn.

 

This year, I wanted an easier word. Something that came more naturally to me. A word that didn’t require work or change. Ha! That didn’t happen.

 

When I prayed, I kept coming back to the word joy. Joy. Did you know you can give thanks without feeling joy? Well, I could. I may have learned to give thanks, but that is as far as it went. Now I felt the nudge that I needed to add joy to my thankfulness.

 

Thus began a search of scriptures to see what the Bible has to say about joy. Many times joy is associated with music and worship. I began to put on music while cooking or doing dishes. Not rap or heavy metal for me. I put on a playlist of my favorite worship music and sing along, harmonizing and enjoying the chance to praise God.

 

I am also reminded of the acrostic my daughters learned in Sunday School. As I ponder the acrostic, I realize the perfect truth of it. I will apply this to my life this year and see how God changes my heart.

 

J – Jesus – Always put Jesus first. When I find myself without joy, I can stop and consider what Jesus would want me to do. How would He react to the situation? How would He see this and how can I do likewise? Seeing through His eyes get my focus off self and in an outward healthy direction.

 

O – Others – Looking to Jesus also helps me focus on others before myself. Is there someone I can help in some way? Maybe by a prayer, an encouraging note or some more visible need that I can meet. There is no greater joy than doing something for Jesus by helping someone He brings to mind.

 

Y – Yourself – Because I am human I will make sure my needs are met. What I need to avoid is making self the focus before anything else. By keeping this acrostic in order – J – O – Y – I will find balance and bring joy to my life.

 

Will this be an easy task? I think not. That’s why I have all year to practice. This is better than a resolution, which once broken, is usually tossed by the wayside. If I get out of step with JOY I can simply start again when I realize my mistake.

 

I wish you all a year of Thankfulness and Joy.

 

Restore to me the joy of your salvation, and uphold me by Your generous Spirit. Ps. 51:12

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