Value, Perspective, and Jesus by Julie Arduini

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It was this time four years ago we got serious and started looking for what I called “our forever home.” It took until late summer with a lot of home tours and a failed (but blessed) attempt, but as I look around, it was worth the wait and all in God’s timing.

When we first looked at what is now our home, I wasn’t that impressed. The biggest problem was it wasn’t the house that had fallen through days before. It was in a suburb I had vowed I would never, ever live in because the residents had a reputation of being snobby. I walked through certain I’d never visit that development again.

That is, until the next week when my husband asked me to return with a different set of eyes. I surrendered the house we weren’t meant to have, pushed aside my vow, and walked through.

It not only had everything the other house did, it had more. For less.

Things got serious and once our offer was accepted, there was one item the owners kept stating. They wanted us to understand the floor to ceiling bookcase in the family room was not staying.

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This is our fireplace. On the right side was a huge bookcase we had different perspective of than the owners.

We thought back to our tours and remembered. For us, it was a huge piece up against a beautiful stone fireplace. The bookcase was so big that it overshadowed how gorgeous the fireplace was. To us, the bookcase was something of an eyesore.

To the sellers, it was of tremendous value.

I don’t know why that bookcase came to mind this week, but as soon as it did, this thought came to me as well: We will never be that bookcase to Jesus.

For us, that tall thing was about perspective. One family loved it, we didn’t.

To Jesus, His perspective, His PROMISE is that we are all of deep, great, unmeasurable value to Him. How do I know? He died for us. He took the cross for us. All for love. All for us.

Even if to someone else we seem like an eyesore, a nuisance even, we are valuable to Christ.

Even if we feel the worst about ourselves, nothing changes as far as Jesus is concerned. If you don’t think you’re worth anything, keep in mind the most valuable thing we have on earth is what heaven has for pavement.

No matter what your past or present, know you mean everything to Jesus. Don’t receive the negative from others. It’s a perspective, and often what we perceive isn’t always reality.

You are everything.

I hope that encourages you today!

 

 

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When You’re Seeking Requited Love by Hannah Alexander

Have you ever read a novel with a good romance woven through the pages? It’s the kind of novel I like to write. I discovered when I first began writing decades ago that I didn’t possess the imagination that some writers are blessed with to write a pure romance. I admire those writers. My stories come with additional plot lines because I cannot find a way to keep the hero and heroine suffering through the pain of unrequited love for 350 pages.

If you have ever suffered through unrequited love, maybe you’ll understand what I’m saying.

When Mel and I met and started dating many years ago, he was a young doctor who had immersed his whole life into medicine, foregoing a social life. I, on the other hand, had searched for a real, abiding, solid love–not just romance, but love–for most of my teen years and adult life, and found that unrequited love is not romantic, it’s painful and lonely. And therefore I had  begun writing my own love stories long before Mel came on the scene.

Mel was working as an ER physician in a small-town emergency department far from any access to women his own age who were also single Christians. He prayed one night, “Lord, I’m bored and I’m lonely. Would you please help me?” Very soon after, he gave notice at his place of employment so he could look for a job in a larger town where he might meet someone to share his life with. That was when he was recruited to work in the ER in my hometown. My pastor met him, introduced him to me, and the rest is history.  Now Mel likes to tell people, “Since meeting Cheryl, I’ve never been bored or lonely. This isn’t just a marriage, it’s an adventure.”

If you’re in a good marriage, count yourself highly blessed. I always hated dating. There’s always the uncomfortable feeling that either the person you’re with cares more for you than you do for them, or you fall head over heels for this person and are afraid your affections will not be returned.

Don’t get me wrong. The dance of romance, the give and take and flirting and play of a solid marriage can keep that marriage fun and interesting. But the bottom line is always knowing you’re loved.

Those 14 months dating Mel, when he’d never actually been “in love” before, and didn’t know what to expect, were torture to me. I was especially displeased with my pastor when he had the nerve to invite Mel and me and another single woman (!!) to his and his wife’s home for dinner–not his sweet wife’s idea. Still, Mel wasn’t interested in the other woman, and we continued our growing friendship in fits and starts as I wondered and doubted and begged God to put me out of my misery. You see, I’d been through this before. I knew how badly it could end. Mel did not.

I, of course, was in love within the first month. I knew I’d found a rare treasure–a Christian man who respected me and my body. We connected on many levels, spoke the same language, but I was so much more experienced in the trials and disappointments of romance. I wanted it done. I didn’t want to play games, even though I knew that this dating ritual was vital to build a stronger relationship if and when we were to move forward to the next step. I just didn’t like it.

Obviously, our period of indecision ended at last. Mel sort-of proposed (before he ever told me he loved me.) I responded. (“I’m not marrying a man who doesn’t love me.”) He thought about it, decided he finally knew what love was, and that he loved me. At last, after all those months of waiting, he spoke the words, “I love you.” And I thought I’d better cherish that moment because I would probably never hear him say that again.

Was I ever wrong! He says it every day. His love language is words of affirmation, and he speaks them often.

But whew! Do you see what I mean? Dating someone when you’re falling in love is like a freefall. You never know if your chute will open and carry you to safety, or if you’ll hit ground at a high rate of speed in an emotional crash and burn. Speaking as someone who has suffered from more than one broken heart, I don’t want to ever go through that again. I’ll write about it, but I’ve lived it enough to last a lifetime.

I have friends who have chosen the single life because they know the pain of unrequited love. If you are happily married and know some single people, reach out to them. They can become wonderful friends. If you have friends who are in unhappy marriages, be there for them. You can be a solid support for those who have experienced the crash and burn and damage of unrequited love.

If you have found requited love, cherish it, and let your love know how you feel. You can never be married too long to say the words, “I love you.”

 

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A Change of Thinking by Tara Randel

When January rolls around, many find it a time to think about making resolutions. Some start off with a list and the burning desire to carry through with personal life changes, no matter the obstacles. Others decide it’s not worth their time to even try anything new. I’m not a big fan of resolutions. If I want to change something in my life, I don’t wait until the first of the year, but I get that a needed push in the right direction can be valuable. In light of a message I heard in church this weekend, and it being the resolution time of year, I had to sit back and think about this comment.

What consumes your mind controls your life.

Have you ever given this any thought? We’re bombarded by so many things that claim our time; family, work, obligations, entertainment, just to name a few. I’ll bet every one reading this post could sit down and make a list of those things that vie for our attention. We might actually be surprised by the things that fill our thoughts if we’re honest with ourselves. So how do we take all of the ‘stuff’ that clutters our minds to decide what is worthwhile or not?

 Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.  Phil 4: 8

How often do we really consider this passage?

True. Noble. Right. Pure. Lovely. Admirable. Excellent. Praise worthy. Are these words part of our vocabulary? Acts we strive for in everyday living? Or are they lofty goals, meant for that Christian down the street who does a better job navigating this life than I do?

As I considered these words, I thought about our Lord, who not only exemplifies these words, but lived them daily. Jesus is the example of living a life that is focused on the Father.

Jesus said, “When you have lifted up the Son of Man, then you will know that I am he and that I do nothing on my own but speak just what the Father has taught me. John 8:28

To gain revelation on how we can emulate Jesus’ life, we must read the Bible. And it’s in those times that we mediate upon His Word that we can understand how we are to walk in ways that will honor Him.

There are so many beautiful scriptures we can focus our minds on. I’ve written out passages that have special meaning to me and pasted them to my bathroom mirror or on the refrigerator. As we let the verses that touch our hearts work into our spirit, we begin to focus, consume us, if you will, to move into a closer walk with God. I don’t find this the least bit daunting, as a yearly resolution might be. Instead I find it exciting and empowering. I don’t have all the answers, so I take God’s help whenever He offers it!

The rest of the Philippians scripture then goes on to say,  Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me—put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you. Phil 4:9

Put into practice.

A tall order, but I believe we’re up to it. I may not be a big resolution maker, but a reminder of where my thoughts should dwell is always welcome.

Look for my new release, His One and Only Bride, now available.

“I_m alive. We_re together. That_s all I could ask for.”

Tara Randel is an award-winning, USA Today bestselling author of fifteen novels. Family values, a bit of mystery and, of course, love and romance, are her favorite themes, because she believes love is the greatest gift of all. Look for her next Harlequin Heartwarming romance, HIS ONE AND ONLY BRIDE, available now.  Visit Tara at www.tararandel.com. Like her on Facebook at http://www.facebook.com/TaraRandelBooks. Sign up for Tara’s Newsletter and receive a link to download a free digital book.

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The Right Word

By Marilyn Turk

Writers are always searching for the right word, that word that captures the truest meaning of the moment in our stories. We try to abstain from the “weasel” words, the weak words that are commonplace like “just,” “some,” “most,” etc., and strive to find more accurate words to use. Writers are accused of being lazy and uncreative when they use clichés such as “dead as a doornail,” “thick as thieves,” or most common expressions people use. We creative thinkers should be able to craft new, unique ways of saying things that haven’t been used before.

In my last post, I mentioned the task of coming up with New Year’s goals. I also touched on the subject of choosing a certain word to focus on for 2018. Selecting that word can be a challenge, as there are so many words to choose from. However, in an effort to better myself, I looked at what I need more of, or what characteristic I would like demonstrate instead of some I displayed last year. Unfortunately, there are more than one. Then I found the one word that encapsulates many desirable traits, and if controlled by that word, can affect many other traits.

That word is LOVE.

What does that mean? Ancient Greeks believed there were eight different types of love. The Bible speaks of four types: Eros –  refers to sexual love, Storge – Family love, Philia – “brotherly” love, as in love for friends. Then there’s Agape love, the highest form, which is perfect, unconditional, and unselfish love like the love God has for us.

So what kind of love encompasses the traits I need to have toward others? Well, once again the Bible tells us what kind of love we should have. We are told to love one another in John 13:34. The Greek word used in this verse was agape love. So how do we do that?

I found my answer in 1 Corinthians 13, commonly referred to as the “love” chapter in the Bible. It says, “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.  It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.” (1 Cor. 13:4-7 NIV)

All the things I need more of – patience, kindness, humility, respect for others, forgiveness, joy, positivity, perseverance, endurance, unselfishness, peace – is covered in that definition of love.

So my word for 2018 is LOVE, and I pray I can represent it in all ways. Do you have a word for the new year?

 

 

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Another step on our journey

Please excuse my late post! I had it mostly planned, but four trips to the VA with my dear hubby in the past week sort of took over my brain. The good news is that David is doing well after his lung cancer surgery and treatment. More recovery and treatment to come, but we’re praising the Lord for progress. Now I can get back to my writing responsibilities.

In my last post of 2017, I invited you to join me on a journey to learn more about Herman Melville and his magnum opus, Moby Dick. Here’s the next installment, taken from a lesson I taught my freshman composition students when I was a college professor. This is the introduction to an informative research paper. Many of my students had never written a research paper, so my purpose was to help them organize their paper with a sort of road map in the first paragraph. It needed to have an attention-getting device, a thesis statement, and a plan of development. By following my model and sticking to their plan of development, students could stay on course and not wander off track as they completed their papers on the author of their choice.

Enlightened individuals have always sought to increase their knowledge of far off places. Before our modern age of information, in which we can instantly discover some of the most obscure intelligence on just about anything, scholars and other curious people depended on experienced, well-informed writers to educate them about people of distant lands. One such writer is Herman Melville, a nineteenth century visionary writer having experience as a whaler in the Pacific South Seas, wrote shocking, realistic novels about seafaring life, informing his own generation of faraway worlds they did not know.

Two novels that display Melville’s broad understanding of his subject matter are White Jacket, based on his experiences aboard the Naval frigate United States, and Typee, based on his service as a cabin boy on the whaling ship Acushnet. Because he grew up in a well-to-do family, Melville’s early life gave no hint of the future adventures that would inform his work; however, financial disaster struck when he was only twelve. His father died, leaving the family in “genteel poverty,” thereby cutting short the future author’s educational opportunities. From then on, he essentially educated himself through an extraordinary variety of career choices – bank clerk, sales clerk, school teacher, whaler, and, of course, writer – some of which made appearances in his most successful stories. He was encouraged in his writing by such illustrious authors as Ralph Waldo Emerson and Nathaniel Hawthorne, to the latter of whom he dedicated his greatest novel, Moby Dick. Unfortunately for Melville, his early writing success could not be sustained during his lifetime (his later works were panned or ignored by critics), and the author died in poverty and obscurity. Subsequent generations of lovers of literature, however, have discovered his true literary genius. That the thundering, passionate, mysterious, and compelling novel Moby Dick is now standard reading in high school and college English courses (not to mention the myriad of books and motion pictures based on it) points to Melville’s enduring influence on American literature.

What do you think? Can you see each part of the introductory paragraph? Can you see how this provides a road map for a student writing an informative paper? I’m no longer teaching those college classes, but many of my students reported success from using my model. What more could a teacher ask?

Next, I will explore some of the themes I discovered in Moby Dick and how they influenced my master’s thesis, Ahab’s Bride. I hope you enjoy the next phase of my journey.

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What Lies Ahead…

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Even though it is mid-January and the New Year is underway, the rest of the year stretches out before us with endless possibilities.

As a grandmother, I can only imagine the possibilities of fun times ahead for me and my granddaughters.

As a Christian, I want to fill 2018 with God, drawing nearer to him each day, and trusting him with every mountain and valley that stretches out before me.

As a wife, I want to let my husband know how special he is to me every chance I can. Our time together has been amazing so far and I’m looking forward to what lies ahead for us as well.

As an author, my future holds several new releases for 2018 and hopefully many more possibilities to come.

As a human being, there are so many things I wish for in 2018. Peace, the cure for cancer. A child’s hurting to go away.

Most of these things I can control. I can spend more time with my grandchildren, tell my husband I love him every chance I get, stay focused on my writing more, and spend more time with God, drawing on His strength. And through prayer to Him, I can lift up those things that I would like to see changed and turn them over to Him.

So what about you? What lies ahead for you in 2018? What would you like to see changed this year?

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Heart Of Texas Blurb:

 

Laney Winters gets the biggest shock of her life when she learns she’s pregnant…on the same day she finds her husband in bed with his secretary. With her blissful life exposed as fraud, and her husband wanting nothing to do with raising a child, Laney faces divorce and her greatest fear–moving back home to live with her two eccentric old-maid aunts. Hiding the demise of her marriage and helping to manage the family diner should be uneventful, but a new man in town has the gossips speculating. Laney’s two aunts create an exciting mystery around the stranger, and Laney is sucked into an entertaining game of “Save Jake Montgomery from Aunt Thelma.” When her aunts’ latest victim turns out to be the town’s new family doctor, Laney must entrust him with her secrets, and along the way, discover that when your life flips upside down it’s God’s way of giving you a different perspective…and a fresh start.

 

Buy Links:

 

Amazon:

https://www.amazon.com/Heart-Texas-Mary-Alford-ebook/dp/B078TP6HPC/ref=sr_1_12?ie=UTF8&qid=1516629046&sr=8-12&keywords=mary+alford

Barnes and Noble:

https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/heart-of-texas-mary-alford/1127766285?ean=9781522300120

Pelican Book Group:

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All the best..

Mary Alford

http://www.maryalford.net

 

 

 

 

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Loving Books

By Nancy J. Farrier

 

I love books. I love the feel of them, the smell of them. I love to read books. Almost all genres appeal to me.

 

When I visit a library, especially an older library, that first deep breath is full of the aroma of paper and the distinctive scent of books. Old bookstores are the same way. A road trip just to visit bookstores and libraries would be a dream trip.

 

My fascination includes older texts. Books written and published long ago. That’s why the day my aunt gave me a 200-year-old book remains fresh in my mind. My daughter and I had gone to visit my elderly aunt. We were sitting in her living room visiting when she told me she had something to show me. My cousin left the room and came back with a box that holds a ream of printer paper, which she set on my lap.

 

Nestled inside the box, the oversized book had a stained cover. I could tell the pages were fragile and carefully opened the book. My aunt said, “We thought you might know what this is.” My daughter leaned close to see.

 

When I realized what the box contained, I gave an audible gasp. I stared down at the illustrated copy of Foxe’s Book of Martyrs, printed in 1813. The illustrations were very detailed and the pages were all water stained, but intact. The binding and cover had seen a lot of wear.

 

My cousin told me they found the book in a garage they were cleaning out and didn’t recognize the author or the title. My aunt gave me the book to keep. What a wonderful gift to receive.

 

It’s hard to imagine where this old book has been. I wondered where it’s traveled and who the owners might have been. Someone must have treasured the tome since the pages are still in readable. I am very careful to be gentle when I look at the book.

 

Foxe’s Book of Martyrs isn’t my only old book, but is perhaps the oldest I have. I wonder about the books being printed today. Will they last for two hundred years? I hope those in the future will have the same love of books I do. I hope they treasure that bit of the past and wonder about the people who wrote or illustrated the books. I hope people will still love the written word.

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Who Are Your Inklings?

“Is there any pleasure on earth as great as a circle of Christian friends by a good fire?” 
— C. S. Lewis

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Interior of the Eagle and Child. Photo by Tom Murphy VII

The Inklings were C.S. Lewis’s closest friends and toughest critics. During the time of his greatest productivity as an author, Lewis met with his circle of Christian friends every week. The Inklings — an informal discussion group whose members were associated with Oxford University in England — met for nearly twenty years, from the early 1930s through the late 1940s. Some were writers, all were enthusiastic about literature, and more than a few were deeply involved in the fantasy genre.

The Inklings usually met in Lewis’s rooms at Magdalen College or at a pub called The  Eagle and Child (often referred to as The Bird and Baby). In addition to Lewis, regular members of the Inklings included J.R.R. Tolkien (author of The Lord of the Rings), poet-philosopher Owen Barfield (who was instrumental in Lewis’s conversion from atheism to Christianity), Shakespeare scholar Hugo Dyson (also influential in Lewis’s conversion), poet-novelist Charles Williams (author of War in Heaven), Lewis’s elder brother Warren “Warnie” Lewis, children’s author Roger Lancelyn Green (King Arthur and His Knights of the Round Table), Dean of Divinity Adam Fox, physician Robert Havard (affectionately known as “the useless quack” or U.Q.), scholar J. A. W. Bennett, historian Lord David Cecil, and Chaucer scholar Nevill Coghill. A number of visitors also joined the group from time to time.

The group had no rules, no leaders, and no formal agendas. Meetings were conducted ad hoc, but the writers in the group frequently read from their novels-in-progress. The Inklings members were the privileged first audience for such works as The Lord of the Rings, Lewis’s Out of the Silent Planet and The Screwtape Letters, and Williams’s All Hallows’ Eve. Laughter was a major component of every meeting, and the Inklings sometimes competed against each other to see who could read the longest (without laughing) from the atrocious prose of Amanda McKittrick Ros.

(In case you’re curious, here’s a sample — the opening sentence from Amanda McKittrick Ros’s Delina Delaney (1898): “Have you ever visited that portion of Erin’s plot that offers its sympathetic soil for the minute survey and scrutinous examination of those in political power, whose decision has wisely been the means before now of converting the stern and prejudiced, and reaching the hand of slight aid to share its strength in augmenting its agricultural richness?” Yes, that’s one sentence.)

It’s amazing to realize how many important and enduring works of literature were produced by that small circle of writers and scholars. Maybe the reason for that can be found in the power of such groups to keep writers focused on their goals. What is the secret behind such groups that enables individuals to stay motivated and focused on their goals for months or years? The answer: Accountability.

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Exterior of the Eagle and Child. Photo by Jacob Lundberg.

This dynamic property called accountability is the state of being answerable to another person or group of people. The concept of accountability groups can be traced back to the “Twelve-Step” programs of Alcoholics Anonymous (AA). The person who is enslaved by addiction allows others in the group hold him accountable and help him to keep his commitment. Through that commitment, the addict achieves his goal of recovery from addiction.

Novelist William C. Hammond has called the Twelve Steps “the most successful program known for changing alcoholics.” And the key to the effectiveness of AA and the Twelve Steps is accountability.

What do you want to accomplish for God? Who have you allowed to hold you accountable? Who are your Inklings?

“We were no mutual admiration society: praise for good work was unstinted, but censure for bad work — or even not-so-good work — was often brutally frank. To read to the Inklings was a formidable ordeal.”
— Warren Lewis

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Note: Battle Before Time, the first book in my newly revised and updated Timebenders series for young readers, has just been released in paperback. Click this link to learn more.

And if you’d like to learn more about how to write faster, more freely, and more brilliantly than you ever thought possible, read my book Writing In Overdrive, available in paperback and ebook editions at Amazon.com. —J.D.

 

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Winter Homecoming, Inspired by Real Life Heroine

Do you enjoy stories which are inspired by real people?

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Winter Homecoming was inspired by a real life twentieth century heroine in my hometown. She was called the “Angel in Snowshoes.” To read about Dr. Kate Newcomb, drop by my previous blog post. http://www.writerspace.com/the-angel-in-snowshoes/

Here’s more about my story~

Catching a freight train out of Chicago is no way to spend Christmas Day.

The Depression has cost Will Gustafson his classy wife, executive job and high society life. Now he’s heading home to the northwoods to face deserved “I told you so’s.” On the freight train a homeless little boy attaches himself to Will like a lost puppy. On the day ”after Christmas in her Model T, Cass Newton picks up Will and the boy and takes them home. Is she crazy? But a new widow, she needs a handyman to help her weather the winter in her isolated cabin. She’s concealed her “delicate” condition from everyone but can’t deceive Will.  He fights his growing attraction to this good but stubborn woman—so unlike the wife who divorced him. The three become an unlikely “family.” Yet what will happen when the snow melts and their secrets are revealed?

Right now I am living in the wintry northwoods. I’m just glad I have a good furnace. I love to sit by the fire but glad I don’t have to feed it 24/7 like my characters, Will and Cass. Hope you’re all keeping warm this bizarre winter!–Lyn

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Better Late Than Never–Happy New Year!!

Since I write historical fiction, I thought I’d share a little history about New Year’s Eve. I’m writing this because I happened to be cleaning my dining room on New Year’s Eve Day—not for any big party, but just because it was dusty and needed to be cleaned. On the wall is a framed collage of old postcards, calling cards and decorative figures that had been in a very old scrapbook belonging to a relative. One of the postcards is a New Year’s greeting and the postmark on the back is from 1897. Back in those days, people sent written greetings, but times have changed and now we send an email or take to Facebook to wish friends Happy New Year.

We still sing Auld Lang Syne on New Year’s Eve. The words roughly translate to ‘days gone by.’ The poet Robert Burns is credited with adapting and partially rewriting it in the late 18th century. The song became a holiday classic when Guy Lombardo and the Royal Canadians played it during a radio broadcast in 1929, although it had been sung for many years before that date.

And supposedly folks have been making New Year’s resolutions for about 4,000 years. I wonder if they were at all like me. Back when I made a resolution, I couldn’t even remember what it was by the following New Year’s Eve. Hope none of you fall into the same category as me.

That huge ball in Times Square was first dropped back in 1904 when the New York Times newspaper relocated to what was then known as Longacre Square and convinced the city to rename the neighborhood in its honor. At the end of the year, the owner of the Times threw a huge party with elaborate fireworks. When the city banned fireworks in 1907, an electrician devised a wood and iron ball that weighed 700 pounds and was illuminated with 100 light bulbs. The ball was dropped from a flagpole at midnight and has been dropping ever since—but no longer lit with light bulbs and no longer dropped from a flagpole.

There are also traditional foods for New Year’s celebrations. In Spain people quickly down twelve grapes to symbolize their hopes for the months ahead. In other places legumes are eaten because they are thought to resemble coins and bring financial success. Pork is eaten because pigs are said to root forward and represent progress. In other places ring-shaped cakes and pastries are devoured signifying that the year has come full circle.

Though we may send our greetings by email or cook our traditional foods on an electric stove rather than over an open fire, many New Year’s traditions remain the same. At midnight we say farewell to the old year and welcome the new.

So even though we’re several weeks into the New Year, I want to wish you the peace and joy of our Lord. May you be filled with His abundant love throughout the remainder of the year.

~Judy

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How I Was Adopted by Three Cats by Margaret Daley

How I Was Adopted by Three Cats

by Margaret Daley

All my life I had dogs as pets. Although I liked cats, I never thought I would have a cat–let alone 3 but that is what I have now. Our dog died of old age and left my husband and me without a pet. I wasn’t eager to go out and get another pet right away. That didn’t make any difference. The first cat–Ringo– was around nine months old when he came around our house. I couldn’t resist him. He was funny, pure white with one blue eye and one green eye (called odd eyes). He has never met a stranger. He is my greeter.

Okay we ended up with our first cat because I couldn’t see letting him roam around and fend for himself. That was going to be it. Then my son asked me to take a stray cat he’d found because he had a pit bull dog and couldn’t risk the kitten with the dog. We ended up with a second cat–Peppers or as I call her Peppy. She looks like salt and pepper–more pepper. She is the smallest of my cats–only weighing 6 or 7 pounds whereas Ringo weighs up to 18 pounds. She is my cat. If she had her way, she would sit on my lap all day and watch me try to write–very distracting. But I have to admit Peppy is a bit neurotic.

Now our third cat I had absolutely said we could not take in because we already had two cats that were picky about other animals. I didn’t see how it would work. But my husband made the mistake of making eye contact with a dirty, messy two month kitten who was whining at the back door of his business. He couldn’t turn her away. Charlie has become the one who makes us laugh the most. She gets into everything and knows where everything belongs in the house. This cat growls like a dog when someone comes to the front door and will hide from anyone who comes to visit.

So here I am with three cats who adopted a lady who was never going to have cats. Have you been adopted by an animal?

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You’re Beautiful by Julie Arduini

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We’ve all heard the saying about taking lemons and making lemonade. I had no idea last year when both our kids were struggling with “life’s curveballs” that from some of those experiences would be a new release.

Our daughter is in junior high now, and those are tough years even if everything goes right. Unfortunately, not everything was right and it made a difficult school year brutal. She’s overcome a lot of health issues, delays, and hard stuff with her trademark smile. Last year, that grin disappeared.

It was heartbreaking.

We talked a lot, prayed more, and cried together. One of the things she talked about was she wished there was a way she could help girls so they would never have hurt feelings. We kept the chat going and she started a storyline. I’ve told many that Hannah has helped me plot my contemporary romances as much as any adult has. When I saw a plot forming, I threw out an idea.

“Do you want to write a book? Because this is good. If you keep plotting and help me with the characters, I’ll work to get it published.”

Not only did she plot what is now You’re Beautiful, she plotted a series. You’re Amazing and You’re Brilliant will be the next releases in the Surrendering Stinkin’ Thinkin’ series. She created a group of friends that go to a new mentoring group at their church comprised of women from a recent college graduate to a pastor’s wife. Each book has one girl and one of the mentors with an issue where they have believed a lie about themselves. The chapters rotate between the two so that girls can relate to the friend, and women can relate to the mentor. We found in those that were our first readers, they loved both age groups, no matter what the reader’s age was.

Here’s You’re Beautiful:

Hayley Atkinson withdraws from her friends and new opportunities with the new mentoring group, Linked, after she is told a lie that she believes is true about herself. Sabrina Wayson is a mentor in Linked who feels she can’t help encourage girls because she’s struggling as much as they are. Can they surrender the lies and find freedom?

Even the cover design is Hannah’s vision. I gave her a mock-up with stock photos containing people and she felt animated pictures would be better. She truly did her work with this.

I’m thankful to say this year is much improved, but we’re committed to writing the rest of the series. When I’m not writing, I’m often mentoring to girls of all ages, and the lies we believe can limit us from so much. Our hearts are to encourage girls from around Hannah’s age to even 100 years old to find freedom through surrender in Christ.

To learn more about You’re Beautiful, it’s on Amazon.

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Human Trafficking: What You Need to Know and Why You Need to Know It by Vicki Hinze

By Presidential Proclamation, our monthly observance is on Human-Trafficking and Human-Rights Abuse. I want to share a bit about human-trafficking because there’s so much on it in the news right now—and likely will be in the near future.

How bad is it?

  • At $32 Billion a year, the human-trafficking industry has passed up the illegal sale of arms, and it’s growing.
  • Trafficking occurs in all 50 states.
  • An estimated 4.5 million trafficked persons endure sexual exploitation.

There’s more to know. It’s uncomfortable, but keep reading…

In 2010, my husband and I went to south Texas. When we were returning home, we left very early to miss heavy traffic in Houston. If you’re familiar with that route, you know traffic governs what time many get on the road. Anyway, it was predawn. We stopped at a convenience store for gas, and I noticed a sign on the store’s front window. It was directing people who were victims of human trafficking to call this number. Or if anyone was spotted who appeared to be a victim of trafficking, you could report it to this same number.

That sign sent chills up and down my spine. That was the first mention of human-trafficking in the United States I’d seen. Until that moment in time, in my mind, trafficking was something that happened far way in distant lands. Later that morning, we stopped again, and again I saw a sign about trafficking on the store’s front window. That chill stayed with me the rest of the trip.

I decided to look into the situation and see what in the world was going on. To be honest, I had hoped to put my mind at ease. But that isn’t what happened.

I learned that trafficking happened here. A lot. That some saw it as a more profitable trade than selling drugs. Drugs, they could sell once. But people could be sold over and over and over. I read about cases where ordinary women doing ordinary things were abuducted and vanished. Lost to trafficking. Things like pumping gas, walking to their cars in shopping mall parking garages or lots, and broken down with a flat tire on the side of the highway. Everyday situations we all easily see ourselves in and could be in on any given day.

So rather than setting my mind at ease, I became more disturbed. So much so that I set aside the book I was working on and started a new one that addressed human-trafficking. If I, a news hound, had been unaware of all this, I felt certain others were unaware of it, too. We needed to change that. Deadly Ties was born.

A year later, the book was released and I began hearing from readers the same shock I had experienced on discovering trafficking was happening in the United States. That there were routes where these imprisoned victims were forced to walk through the Canadian wilderness, driven along the I-10 corrider in trucks and vehicles, being moved from place to place. Some are sold for the expected purpose, but others are sold to “entertain” by fighting to the death against other imprisoned victims. Under constant death threats and intense observations, some are forced to work at outside jobs and to turn over all they earn to their captors.

In the news lately, we’re hearing more and more about children being taken (or sold) and abused, even murdered and offered as sacrifices by cults. We’re hearing stories of organs being trafficked, and all manner of evil things.

I hope that this news doesn’t shock you. That you too have seen the news articles and are aware of the atrocities being committed. Bluntly put, we are failing to protect our children, and we honestly need to do a better job for them. For all victims.

If you are shocked, I hope your reaction will be to look into trafficking. The numbers are staggering. I read an article a few days ago about about 10,000 children being missing, so be emotionally prepared for what you discover.

Here’s a little more information to help prepare you for what you’ll find. (Many thanks to Ark of Hope for Children Organization for sharing!)

  • In 2012 the (UNODC) United Nations Office on Drugs and Crime reports the percentage of child victims had risen in a 3-year span from 20 per cent to 27 percent.
  • Of every three child victims, two are girls and one is a boy.
  • Gender and age profile of victims detected globally: 59% Women – 14% Men – 17% Girls and 10% were Boys.
  • 600,000 to 800,000 women, children and men are bought and sold across international borders every year and exploited for forced labor or commercial sex (U.S. Government)
  • When internal trafficking victims are added to the estimates, the number of victims annually is in the range of 2 to 4 million.
  • 50% of those victims are estimated to be children.
  • It is estimated that 76 percent of transactions for sex with underage girls start on the Internet.
  • 2 million children are subjected to prostitution in the global commercial sex trade (UNICEF),
  • There are 20.9 Million victims of Trafficking World wide as of 2012.
  • 1.5 Million victims in the United States.

So what is the impact?

“Human trafficking has surpassed the illegal sale of arms and in the next few years, will surpass the sale of illegal drugs. Drugs are used once and they are gone. Victims of child trafficking can be used and abused over and over. Again, as a $32 billion-a-year industry, human trafficking is on the rise and it happens in all 50 states (U.S. Government). While

“4.5 Million of trafficked persons are sexually exploited, be aware that up to 300,000 Americans under 18 are lured into the commercial sex trade every year. From 14,500 – 17,500 of those victims are trafficked annually into the United States.”

 

There is hope. President Trump and Attorney General Jeff Sessions have invested in stopping trafficking. In the past year, there have been over 6,000 arrests. There is so much more to be done, and to aid in the effort, the President started a new program called HERO Child-Rescue Corps Program.

In this new HERO Child-Rescue Corps Program veterans with specialized skills will be working on child rescue.  

 

This from the HERO website:

The Human Exploitation Rescue Operative (HERO) Child-Rescue Corps is a program developed by U.S. Immigration and Customs Enforcement’s (ICE) Homeland Security Investigations (HSI) and U.S. Special Operations Command (SOCOM) in conjunction with the National Association to Protect Children.

The HERO Child-Rescue Corps Program is designed for wounded, injured and ill Special Operations Forces to receive training in high-tech computer forensics and law enforcement skills, to assist federal agents in the fight against online child sexual exploitation. Upon successful completion of the program HERO interns will have the knowledge, skills and experience to apply for careers with federal, state and local police agencies, and other organizations, in the field of computer forensics.

Learn more on ICE HEROS (from US Immigration and Customs Enforcement @ https://www.ice.gov/hero):

 

What can we do?

Too often, we think we’re just one person. What can we do? The answer is more than we think. When we set our collective minds to it, we can move mountains. We all know that. Just as individuals we know that once you become aware of a problem such as this, thoughts of it never leave you.

The process of awareness has been a long and difficult one. The idea of trafficking is so repugnant to us, so morally reprehensible, that we shun it. We have difficulty wrapping our minds, much less our hearts, around it. I know this. I too experienced it. But shunning does nothing to help the victims or to stop the abuse much less to solve the problem.

Which is why I am so grateful to our president for bringing trafficking to the foreground and declaring January an Awareness month. There are organizations dedicated to rescuing these children and they have enjoyed some success. We need to support them. There are people tirelessly working the issue. We’re grateful for them. Yet the problem is huge, and more people are needed to join in the fight.

While no one can do everything, everyone can do something. Things like these:

We can insist that the legal penalties for engaging in trafficking are so severe that those who would engage don’t.

We can, as a civilized society, refuse to accept that this problem is just something that occurs in modern society. If we object strongly enough, it won’t.

We can pray. For the victims, for those rescued who must heal and recover, for the rescuers, and, yes, for those engaging in the illicit activity, that their hearts and minds might be turned and they’ll stop.

And we can be aware enough that if we see something that doesn’t sit right, we report it.

As I said, when we make up our minds and choose to act, we can move mountains. And I hope we will. The victims—women, men and children (boys, girls and infants)—are counting on us…

 

Please, read and share this article with as many as you can to increase awareness.

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Welcome Guest Author Patricia Bradley

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We are so happy to have Patricia Bradley with us today.

Thank you so much for inviting me on your blog!

I’m often asked why I became a writer and did I always want to write? I was a reader first, then when I turned 35 I had trouble sleeping. I would go to bed and toss and turn. One night as I stared at the ceiling, a man appeared (in my mind) and he stood at a window with belching smoke stacks in the background. He turned and looked at me and said, “This wasn’t the way my life was supposed to turn out.” He went on to tell me a lot about his life and that’s when I wondered if I could write his story. I bought a Writers Digest magazine and started learning the craft of writing. I started out with short stories and my very first one was published by Woman’s World. I thought I had it made and would soon have a book released. Thirty-two years later, I did.

I started writing Christian fiction when I couldn’t find any romantic suspense in the general market that didn’t embarrass me or make me cringe. Then after I read Kristin Heitzman’s Free Fall, and saw how well she blended in God’s word, I wanted to do the same.

I’ve learned so much along the way and am still learning. Just this month I’m taking two courses online—Passive Voice and What do your Characters Fear. There’s always so much to learn.

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Several of my books are on sale in January and February, 2018. My first book, Shadows of the Past is free as an e-book, and the second book in my Memphis Cold Case Novels—Justice Buried is only $1.99 as an e-book. You can find the buy links here.

blurb

In an effort to get her security consulting business off the ground, Kelsey Allen has been spending a lot of time up in the air, rappelling down buildings and climbing through windows to show business owners their vulnerabilities to thieves. When she is hired to pose as a conservator at the Pink Palace Museum in order to test their security weaknesses after some artifacts go missing, she’s ecstatic. But when her investigative focus turns from theft to murder, Kelsey knows she’s out of her league–and possibly in the cross hairs. When blast-from-the-past Detective Brad Hollister is called in to investigate, Kelsey may find that he’s the biggest security threat yet . . . to her heart.

Justice Betrayed

 

Right now I’m working on the third book in the Memphis Cold Case Novels—Justice Betrayed. It’s my Elvis book—I mean you can’t have a Memphis book without Elvis! In it, Elvis impersonators are being murdered. You can preorder it!

Blurb

It’s Elvis Week in Memphis, and homicide Detective Rachel Sloan isn’t sure her day could get any stranger when aging Elvis impersonator Vic Vegas asks to see her. But when he produces a photo of her murdered mother with four Elvis impersonators–one of whom had also been murdered soon after the photo was taken–she’s forced to reevaluate. Is there some connection between the two unsolved cases? And could the recent break-in at Vic’s home be tied to his obsession with finding his friend’s killer? When yet another person in the photo is murdered, Rachel suddenly has her hands full investigating three cases. Lieutenant Boone Callahan offers his help, but their checkered romantic past threatens to get in the way. Can they solve the cases before the murderer makes Rachel victim number four?

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I love connecting with readers on my blog every Tuesday where I have a Mystery Question for them to solve: http://www.patriciabradleyauthor.com/blog

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The Path Taken

By Marilyn Turk

Two roads diverged in a wood and I –

I took the one less traveled by

And it has made all the difference. – Robert Frost

 

Are you tired of hearing about New Year’s goals or words for 2018?

Seems like the topic has been prolific for the past week or so. Some people knew what their goals or words were by the end of 2017, while others, like me, eased into the new year carefully, with the remnants of the previous year still hanging on.

Before I was ready to go forward, I had to look backwards. I needed to look at what I did last year and what I didn’t do. As the idiom goes, “Hindsight is 20/20,” which means it’s easier to see more clearly the events of the past, what went right or what went wrong, than it is when you’re in the middle of a situation.

But sometimes we have to look back even farther than one year to see where we’ve been and how we arrived at where we are. When we do that, we realize we’ve been on a journey of some type based on the decisions we made.

It is encouraging for me to know that I have made forward progress, regardless of the setbacks I had. As a writer, those setbacks can come in the form of rejection, low sales or bad reviews. But much as it hurts when those negative things happen, we can’t stay there. We have to get up and get going, whether it means starting over or altering our course. For a writer, that could mean sending a manuscript to someone else or revising a manuscript or working on a totally new one.

So the first thing I needed to recognize as I moved into this new year is what path I’m on. Would I be writing novels or novellas, plays, Bible studies, blogs or nonfiction books? Once I determined that, I could break down the goals into units and break down the units into time periods.

What I’ve learned is that God chose this path for me, and I’m trusting Him to lead me along the way, shedding enough light as I take each step to get me to the next place. He knows what plans He has for me (Jeremiah 29:11), and I don’t. The past has shown where his hand led me as I achieved some goals I planned and others I had never conceived before. Sure, doubts plagued me from time to time and tried to thwart my progress, but I know where those doubts came from, and they weren’t from God. My focus can’t be on my own ability. God will use me despite my ability if I’m just willing to follow his lead.

To follow, I must leave the past behind. As Paul said in Philippians 3:13-14, “Brothers and sisters, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus.

So, do you know what path you’re on or do you need to take a different one?

 

 

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