I Heard the Scream Before it Came (by Hannah Alexander)

Monsters and snakes

You know how, when you’re not watching, something might just sneak up on you?

These are metal images of the Western Diamondback Rattler and a Gila Monster. Both are venomous, and therefore not to be messed around with. One needs to watch where one walks when in the Southwestern part of our country. But a certain someone whose name I will not mention was paying more attention to everything but the sidewalk, and when I tried to gently guide him (or maybe her) away from the scary-looking snake, I somehow inadvertently drew attention TO the snake, which looked very realistic.

Other sightseers were ambling around looking at the western town, and therefore the scream drew considerable attention when my companion nearly stepped on top of the rattler.

I laughed. Others laughed. My companion laughed, eventually, but not until ensuring that this was not, indeed, a living rattler.

How many times have we stumbled onto something dangerous when we weren’t paying attention? I mean, really, how can we be on guard 24/7? I can’t. But there are times when it is vital to be extra watchful. Maybe you don’t have a home where snakes can find a way to crawl up from beneath the house, so you don’t have to be as cautious at home. Or maybe you live in an area (Missouri) where 70% of homes have brown recluse spiders residing in dark places.

I have to be particularly watchful when hiking here in Wyoming. I’ve discovered that even in the winter, I have just to be as watchful, if not more so. Think frostbite–or freezing to death. Or falling through a 15 foot snowdrift. But snow won’t jump out and bite you. You go to it, so if you’re injured by it, you can only blame yourself.

In the summer, I’ve heard that some of the most aggressive animals here are badgers. One of them attacked a friend’s tire while she was hiding in the cab of her truck, and it waited for her to come out for over an hour. She waited it out. There are also the usual bear–grizzly and black–mountain lion, rattlesnakes, aggressive bison, moose, maybe a wolf or two. Actually, though, having hiked for decades, I found that the most aggressive animal for me was an armadillo in Missouri, which rushed my hiking buddy one day in a terrified effort to get away from us–scary, but it was not actually attacking, just doing the knee-jerk thing. Most animals have the same reaction, except for that badger, which is truly aggressive. Others will avoid humans if possible as long as we don’t crowd them and get their neck-hairs up.

Here in our town we have to be especially cautious because we don’t want to hit the hundreds of deer roaming the streets. Which concerns me because two instances within ten minutes this morning told me that the most dangerous animals around here are humanoid, not deer.

One car pulled out right in front of me, forcing me to stand on my brakes to avoid a collision. That was a half-block from the police department. Another stopped at a 4-way stop and just seemed to park there for a few minutes. Clueless drivers are some of the most dangerous animals in the world. We don’t have a lot of traffic here. Rawlins is the 12th largest town in Wyoming, and the population is around 10,000. Not a lot of traffic anywhere in the state. And yet my husband sees victims of traffic accidents on every ER shift. So many drivers are clueless. They drive the interstate when conditions are deadly, with slush-filled lanes of traffic and humongous semi trucks and RVs sliding all over the road. It only took one 30-vehicle pile-up for me to find a two-lane route to avoid that deadly interstate traffic. However, most of my friends have to face that kind of crazy traffic every time they leave the house.

How do you avoid automobile accidents, which causes more deaths by the year? Move to Wyoming and stay off interstate highways. If you don’t want to do that, you need to be on high alert at all times. Be less aggressive. Keep at least one car length per 10 mph. between you and the car in front of you. Drive as if you’re trying to keep an egg from rolling off the dash. Leave your temper at home. Avoid aggressive drivers, and remember that leaving home earlier will get you where you’re going more safely. Defensive driving really is a thing. It’s a good thing. Keep your mirrors adjusted and know what’s around you at all times. And even then, know that there are clueless drivers out there just waiting to bash your bumper.

I know I’m nagging, but I have personally experienced continuous pain for 13 years after one clueless driver rear-ended us on a highway. We were stopped for an accident ahead of us. She was driving 55-60 mph., according to the state trooper, who told us this as we were lying in the median in the rain, awaiting ambulance transfer to the trauma center.

The hospital can’t automatically fix you. They didn’t fix me. I have endured the tragic death of  4 beloved teenagers in my family–and nearly lost more–because of reckless driving. Last year someone was killed by a grizzly up near Jackson Hole, Wyoming. That had repercussions throughout the state, us being so in touch with one another. But that was one death last year. I know for a fact that far more people died from auto accidents in Wyoming than died of any and all kinds of animal attack–and man, do we EVER have the animals here!

So what do you say? Would you please, for the sake of your loved ones, keep a closer watch on other drivers? And on your own driving? Like a rattlesnake, a nasty auto accident can slip up on you and change your life forever. It will change the lives of your loved ones, as well. It can have repercussions you would not believe. Do it for those you love.

 

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The Least of These By Nancy J. Farrier

I breathed deep, taking in the fresh desert scent as my feet crunched along the hard-packed dirt track. The rain three days ago washed everything, and the fall air brushed against me with a welcome crispness after the summer heat. The beauty and vastness of the desert never failed to calm me and make me thankful.

Something moved in the dirt ahead. Just a hint of movement. I slowed, watching for what caught my eye. And stopped. 

A tiny lizard peered up at me from the sand, his head tilted at an angle, his body so still only the blink of his eye let me know he was alive. I waited for him to scurry away. Lizards never stayed still long when I passed by. This one didn’t move.

I took a step closer. Another step. I could almost feel the tension in his small body, but he didn’t move. I took another step and knelt down. He was little, only about three inches from the tip of his nose to the end of his tail. He scrabbled his front feet like he wanted to run but something held him in place.

Bending down, I noted one of his back legs buried in the sand. The hard-packed sand. The poor thing must be terrified, but he couldn’t go anywhere.  He stayed frozen in place as I gently nudged his leg to see if it would come free of the dirt. It didn’t. I couldn’t pull or the fragile appendage would break.

I began to dig through the sand a couple of inches from the lizard’s leg. His wide-eyed gaze stayed glued to me. For the next several minutes I loosened the dirt, getting closer to the trapped leg. I realized by now that at least half of his leg had sunk into the roadway, probably after the heavy rain. He’d gotten stuck and the sand hardened around him. He’d been here at least two or three days. I was amazed he hadn’t been killed.

The sand crumbled bit-by-bit and finally his leg slid free and seemed intact and unbroken.  I expected him to scurry away, but he didn’t. He moved his leg. Stared up at me. Waited. 

As gently as possible I ran the tip of my finger down his head. He tilted the slightest bit toward me as if saying, “Thank you,” and moved in fits and starts to the brush at the side of the trail. I went on my way thankful for the chance to help him.

I realized, after the fact, that maybe I should have taken a picture, or done a video of him as I freed him, but my main concern had been to help this little creature who would otherwise die. I wasn’t digging in the dirt for my benefit but for his.

Over the next weeks I thought a lot about Matthew 25, where Jesus talked about “the least of these” and how when we help even the person who matters little it is the same as helping Jesus Himself. I realize a lizard is not the “least” He was referring to, but that moment started me thinking. Who is the leastthat I’m supposed to help? Who is God asking me to help that I’m walking past without noticing? Who is trapped and unable to get free on their own?

Is it the person in the parking lot struggling to load something heavy in a car by themselves? Is it the person in the pew near me sitting alone? Is it the homeless person I pass on the sidewalk? Is it the child who annoys me with their behavior that demands attention? Is it the pregnant woman with no one to help her? Is it the former serviceman who struggles to find their place in life? Is it the adolescent being forced to consider a life in trafficking? Is it the offensive person who covers up their need for a friend with brashness?

Helping someone can be as simple giving an encouraging word, or that assistance can be more complicated. Giving a smile or a word of encouragement is easy enough, but God may be asking me to consider doing more. Maybe the “least” this time is something more long term and emotionally draining. Yet, when I consider that I’m doing it for Jesus, the cost is not worth considering. 

If I will kneel down and dig in the dirt for a lizard, I will kneel down and dig in the dirt for the person Jesus asks me to help. Who is “the least of these” to me.

Who is “the least of these” to you?

Will you join me and kneel down to help? 

…Assuredly, I say to you, inasmuch as you did it to one of the least of these My brethren, you did it to Me.(Matt. 25:40 NKJV)

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Why Not Write?

Opinion by Jim Denney

“You have two choices in life. You either die or do something with your time. You’re going to be doing something — why not write?” —James Lee Burke

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Author Louis Auchincloss, recipient of the 2005 National Medal of Arts, with President George W. Bush and Laura Bush. White House photo, public domain.

Louis Auchincloss had a long career as a successful lawyer, yet he managed to maintain a simultaneous career as a successful novelist. His literary output was impressive — thirty-six novels (including The Rector of Justin and House of Five Talents), plus thirteen nonfiction books. His titles topped the bestseller lists and he was awarded the 2005 National Book Award and was nominated for the Pulitzer Prize. In an interview with George Plimpton, Auchincloss said:

Lots of writers have to have whole days or nights to get ready to write; they like to be by a fire, with absolute quiet, with their slippers on and a pipe or something, and then they’re ready to go. They can’t believe you can use five minutes here, ten minutes there, fifteen minutes at another time. Yet it’s only a question of training to learn that trick. …

I can pick up in the middle of a sentence and then go on. I wrote at night; sometimes I wrote at the office and then practiced law at home. My wife and I never went away on weekends. I wouldn’t recommend that anyone else try this method, but it worked for me.

Louis Auchincloss shredded every writer’s favorite excuse for procrastinating: “If I could only find the time to write….” Successful writers don’t find time. They make time. The problem most writers have is not that they don’t have time, but that they don’t make good use of the time they do have.

Here are two ideas for making the most of your writing time:

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Anne Lamott in San Francisco, 2013, photo by Zboralski, licensed under the Creative Commons Attribution-Share Alike 3.0 Unported license.

Tackle your tasks “bird by bird.”

In Bird by Bird, Anne Lamott tells the story behind the intriguing title of her book on creativity. When her older brother was ten years old, he tried to write a report on birds — an assignment he’d been given three months earlier. He had spent those three months procrastinating, and the assignment was due the next day.

Frozen with panic, almost in tears, he was unable to begin. He had paper and pencils and books on birds, but the sheer size of the task had him petrified.

Lamott recalls how her father wisely sat down beside her brother, put his strong arm around the boy’s shoulder, and calmly said, “Bird by bird, buddy. Just take it bird by bird.”

Anne Lamott never forgot that advice, and it served her well throughout her writing career. “Impossible” tasks become achievable when we break them down into smaller goals, and we achieve each goal little by little, “bird by bird.”

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Meg Wolitzer, photo by Avery Jensen, licensed under the Creative Commons Attribution-Share Alike 4.0 International license.

Try Meg Wolitzer’s eighty-page plan.

My friend Sibella Giorello (author of the Raleigh Harmon series) tipped me to this idea. Meg Wolitzer is a novelist and the author of The Wife, The Uncoupling, and The Interestings. In an interview with The Daily Beast, Wolitzer described her process for conceiving and writing her novels.

“I sort of follow an eighty page plan,” she said. “I write eighty pages without worrying about what I’m doing, or what anyone will think of it, or even what it is, exactly. And when I’m done with those eighty pages, I print them out and have a look at what I’ve got, as opposed to what I fantasized I’d have. Then I make drastic changes. Eighty pages is enough pages for a writer to feel she’s accomplished something, but it’s not so many pages that, if she decides to put aside the book, she’ll feel as if she’s wasted her life.”

Meg Wolitzer’s eighty-page plan is the perfect middle path for writers who don’t want to map out their novels in advance, but worry that writing purely by the seat-of-the-pants could leave them stranded and blocked. If you can write four pages a day, you can knock out eighty pages in less than three weeks. That’s a modest commitment of time, but it just might free up your creativity so that you can finally write that long-delayed bestseller.

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Note: Don’t miss my interviews with Christian romance writer Robin Lee Hatcher (author of Who I Am With You and An Idaho Christmas: Past and Present), and Christian science fiction writer Kerry Nietz (author of Amish Vampires in Space and Fraught). Visit my website at Writing in Overdrive. See you there!

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Note: Battle Before Time, the first book in my newly revised and updated Timebenders series for young readers, has been released in paperback. Click this link to learn more.

And if you’d like to learn more about how to write faster, more freely, and more brilliantly than you ever thought possible, read my book Writing In Overdrive, available in paperback and ebook editions at Amazon.com. —J.D.

 

Jim Denney also blogs at Writing in Overdrive and Walt’s Disneyland

 

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Review: The Pilgrim’s Progress Movie

One perk of writing/blogging is that publishers and agencies find me and ask if I’ll take a look/listen/watch at their product and share my thoughts. Over the years I’ve read amazing books, some not-so-amazing. I’ve enjoyed uplifting music, and watched a variety of movies.

This time around, I was able to preview the animated movie coming to theaters across the country for two days only, The Pilgrim’s Progress. Based on the classic by John Bunyon, the movie follows Christian’s journey after he finds a book Faithful leaves behind, in search of the Celestial City.

Pilgrim’s Progress is probably the only allegory I’ve been able to understand and appreciate, so I really looked forward to this movie, and it did not disappoint. I was ready for the quality to be sub-par given it isn’t a Disney/Pixar film. Guess what? The colors were beautiful. The features I saw in background images, on the characters, in the surroundings were top-notch. The imagery matches the quality you would see in any animated movie.

The story also does the book justice. I thought it beautifully depicts the journey we go through as we seek a relationship with Christ. There are those who are excited to join us, only to turn at the first hint of adversity. Our fears overwhelm us. Temptation comes at every turn. The paths that look so pretty and easy are usually full of regret. I can’t say enough about how I was able to reflect on my own faith and how accurate the movie was. It really was moving.

As of this writing, I haven’t seen the rating or age range they are hoping to reach. I will say that I would not recommend this for young children. The evil represented is scary. I tried to think if my first-grader nephew would be able to watch, and I think he could, and I think he’d understand Christian’s journey. There are humorous parts for all ages to giggle at, and we did. But definitely take their sensitivity into mind as there are demons at work and their agenda is very clear.

The Pilgrim’s Progress will be available at theaters nationwide April 18 and 20. I think watching this is a wonderful way to celebrate Easter, and I suggest getting a group together. I think you will leave the theater uplifted, inspired, and hopefully on a journey of your own.

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Managing Master Manipulators

Sadly, the church has its share of manipulative people.  I’m reading the book “Under the Banner of Heaven” which is about a religious “Mormon” sociopath who killed his baby niece, his sister-in-law and his brother under the guise that he was “doing God’s will.” Years later, he still believed he’d done the work of God and had no remorse for the murders.  (I guess he missed that part of the commandments that read, “That Shall Not Kill.”)

The church is not immune to these types of people who wield Scripture as a weapon to get people to act the way they want.  Case in point, recently a young lawyer was told by a defendant that she was doing Satan’s work by being in the law.  He told her the Bible says we are to settle things amongst each other and she must have a demon in her to be in her field.  Only this defendant hadn’t settled things amongst the others — that’s why he was in court.  He wanted the other party to do his will (not God’s) and when the client didn’t comply, he went after the lawyer’s weak spot. (Questioning her very vocation!)

0As Christians, we want to do what is right, what is holy.  So we are very susceptible to someone who questions our actions.  We want to make sure that we are right with the Lord and there is no truth in their words.  Our “weakness” in wanting to appear godly can cripple us in the hands of the wrong leaders. That is why we are called to be as wise as serpents.

The wonderful thing about the Bible is everything can be tested against Scripture.  In this case, nothing in the defendant’s words showed any fruits of the spirit.  There was no love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness or self-control in the man’s words.  There were harsh accusations and vile name-calling — and because that is so out-of-the-ordinary in the church, often, these types are believed — without any corresponding evidence. People can question their own motives. Because why would anyone say this person is demonic if there wasn’t something there?

As our world gets more self-absorbed and dysfunctional, I ask that you please judge anyone on the basis of their character — not the character assassination of someone who doesn’t want to remedy the situation. Anyone with a godly motive wants someone to be restored to the church in full and will do anything to help them get there.  Good people are not interested in destroying someone’s character to “win.”

If you know someone who makes you question your motives, check yourself against Scripture and be sure you don’t get involved in destroying someone’s character on the basis of a false accusation.  After hearing this story, I read this verse:

The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.” John 10:10

Anyone with a godly motive should want you to have life and have it to the full.  They shouldn’t want to destroy you under the guise of “doing God’s work.” Be wary of this kind of manipulation.  It is like yeast in the dough and it will permeate every part of the Body of Christ.

 

 

 

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The Power of Shame by Vicki Hinze

Vicki Hinze, the power of shame

 

Merriam-Webster defines shame like this:

Shame.  (Noun.)

  • “A painful emotion caused by consciousness of guilt, shortcoming or impropriety. 
  • “The susceptibility to such emotion.”
  • “A condition of humiliating disgrace or disrepute.”
  • “Something that brings censure or reproach. Something to be regretted.”

Shame.  (Verb.)

  • “To bring shame, to disgrace.”
  • “To put to shame by outdoing.”
  • “To cause to feel shame.”
  • “To force by causing to feel guilty.”

We’ve all felt it. We’ve all induced it in others, and likely far more often in ourselves. Shame.  

Some might say there’s too much of it, and perhaps for some there is, and others could (and often do) say with the condition of things, particularly in the public square, there should be more.  They’re both right…and wrong.

We’re not one-size fits all. Haven’t ever been, won’t ever be. As much as some want to homogenize us and stuff us into a specific box to make their control of us easier, it’ll never work.  Why? Because we’re all hand-crafted originals with specific strengths and weaknesses and each of us are different levels of enlightenment.  In other words, we aren’t clones.  I’m not even sure clones could be homogenized and boxed in a one-size fits all package.

Is shame then useless? A bad thing? 

Actually, it’s like most other things:  helpful if not inappropriately used or implemented. A clear understanding of shame can spare worst hurts on future events we’ll eventually encounter.

An example.

As a child, I of course knew never to steal.  It was wrong. It was an offense to the person you steal from, to your parents, family, and in a huge way, to yourself.  In stealing you prove you can’t be trusted. You aren’t honest. You do not respect what belongs to you or to others.

My mother and I went to the grocery store.  I really wanted a piece of bubble gum.  There was a huge jar of it in bright yellow wrappers on the counter.  I asked, and my mother said no.  So, long story short, I took the gum.

Later, my mother saw me chewing the gum.  She got that face.  You know the one I mean.  The You are in deep and serious troubleface. I figured I’d get restriction for sure, but I never could have expected what she did do—and it was a thousand times worse.

She hauled me back to the store where I had to admit to the owner what I’d done, pay him for the gum, and give back the unchewed second piece I’d taken.  

The owner took the money and the returned gum.  He was sober and serious, of course, but the disappointment in his eyes is what I remember most all these years later.  He said, “I trust we won’t have to worry about you stealing again.” 

You know how you think, “I wish the floor would open and swallow me?” That was me, right then.  I was humiliated, embarrassed, mortified, and ashamed.  If disgrace could kill, I’d have been DOA that very second.

On the walk home, I took a typically immature response. I was angry with God, who was supposed to be merciful, because I didn’t die of shame and melt through the floor and escape. No, I had to live with the consequences of my actions. That took a little longer to accept—it was all on me. But I was afforded the opportunity to become well acquainted with the concept of personal responsibility when my dad got home from work and we had a kitchen table conference.  Translated: we had a deep and serious discussion about my transgression.

All these years later, I don’t recall whether or not there was restriction, though I’m supposing there was.  But boy do I remember that discussion and the disappointment in my dad that his daughter was a thief. 

I also recall apologizing to my folks and promising I wouldn’t steal again.  After that day and evening, I knew that promise would be one easy to keep. I neverwanted to experience anything like this again!

Now, some of you might think that my folks overreacted to a kid stealing a couple pieces of gum. They didn’t.  In that discussion, I had to see this event from the store owner’s eyes. Customers robbing him blind. Him trying to make a living and feed his family (who happened to live directly across the street from us)!  I had to see this from my mother’s eyes.  The humiliation she suffered in dragging a child she was raising back to a store to confess. Had she been a lousy mom? What hadn’t she done that she should have?  My dad’s eyes.  I work so hard to provide and come home to this? And my own.  Lord, I guess I had to go through all this to get the message to never touch things that don’t belong to me again.  

The lesson wasn’t easy. It was devastating.  It was all the things Merriam-Webster describes.  On steroids.  Because while I was a kid, I did know better, and I deliberately and willfully did what I wanted to do anyway.

But I learned a lot of lessons that day that have served me well in the whole of my life.  And as hard a lesson as that was, it was magnificent, too.  Many times in the intervening years, I’ve had situations arise to tempt me.  Being given too much change at the check-out.  Leaving the store and finding an item still in the cart.  Do you think even for a second, I hesitate to go back?  Not for a nanosecond.  

I learned more subtle lessons, too.  About not putting expectations on other people’s wallets. About doing things in ways that don’t injure personal pride.  About reserving judgment on other kids and other parents.  We truly don’t know what others’ lives are really like.  No matter how much we think we do.  We don’t know what lessons are being taught or learned.

The principles apply to the smallest of thing, like the chewing gum, and to the greatest things, like national immigration.

People storming our border do not respect our laws, our land, or our ownership.  That’s a problem. It’s not doing things the right way.  Doing things the right way assures us individuals are more apt to be productive citizens. In storming borders, they are not invited guests. We didn’t send for them. They are invading, forcing themselves upon us. Same principle at work.

I realize that truth won’t be popular with some, but like it or not, truth is truth.  Consider a perspective shift, see the situation through different eyes. We have been paying the countries these folks are coming from foreign aid to help them take care of their own people at home.  They take the money, keep the money, and many of the people come here anyway.  And here, they are fed, housed, and subsidized, so we’re paying for their aid a second time. Why should we pay for them twice? We reach out in good faith to aid, but twice?  That’s not sensible…or fair to the people of our own country who would benefit from a little aid but can’t get it because it’s going to uninvited guests.

Why is there no shame on that?  

I’m guessing when they were kids, their folks didn’t drag them back to the store to pay for the gum and make them give the gum back.

Yes, it was a hard, uncomfortable lesson.  But it was well worth learning…

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Where are the Grownups?

Opinion by Jim Denney

When I was a child, I thought grownups had everything figured out. I looked at the example of my parents, and I assumed that all grownups were wise, knowledgeable, and sensible. Now that I’m a grownup, I know better.

I watch the news and see the squabbling, pettiness, selfishness, dishonesty, and corruption among our so-called “leaders” and I wonder why I ever wanted to grow up. I see far more wisdom and maturity in my children and grandchildren than I see in most of the people who are running our world.

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The National Debt Clock one block away from Times Square in New York City, April 2012. Today the national debt stands at more than $22 trillion. (Photo by Valugi, used under the Creative Commons Attribution-Share Alike 3.0 Unported license.)

There’s a deadly axe poised over the throat of our nation. Our leaders know it. They are saying nothing and doing nothing about it. That axe is the national debt.

When Admiral Mike Mullen was Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff, he repeatedly warned us that the national debt is “the greatest threat to our national security.” And former Defense Secretary James Mattis, during his 2017 confirmation hearing, agreed and added, “I consider it an abrogation of our generation’s responsibility to transfer a debt of this size to our children.”

Despite these warnings, our nation’s leaders are spending lavishly today while passing the bill to our children and grandchildren. This is generational theft, the parents stealing from their own offspring.

Both political parties are to blame. Both houses of Congress are to blame. All recent occupants of the White House are to blame. The news media are to blame. And We the People are to blame. Our leaders know that voters like to get “free stuff” from the government, and we don’t care who pays for it — even if we pass the bill to our children and grandchildren.

So our leaders battle each other for power and partisan advantage and do nothing to solve the great existential crisis of our time. Terrorists and other nations can’t destroy America — but our own leaders can. And they are. While they battle for political turf, the debt crisis threatens to collapse the world economy. Our so-called “leaders,” our “grownups,” are like children bickering over who gets to sit in the deck chairs on the Titanic.

What a contrast between the “leadership” we see all around us and authentic biblical leadership as described in Ray Stedman on Leadership. Ray was the pastor of Peninsula Bible Church in California for four decades. I began working as Ray’s writing partner in 1992, the final year of his life. He was a leader of great character and integrity — and this book contains his wisest insights on leadership from a biblical perspective. For more than twenty-five years, I’ve been privileged to work with transcripts and recordings of his sermons, helping to turn them into books. I think Ray Stedman on Leadership may be my favorite among the twenty-five books I’ve worked on with Ray. Here’s an excerpt from that book:

“The Leader in Conflict” by Ray Stedman

Ray Stedman on Leadership - ExtWhen I was training for the ministry, I traveled for several months as an assistant to Dr. Harry A. Ironside, pastor of the Moody Church in Chicago. I once heard Dr. Ironside relate an experience from his early life. His mother took him to a church meeting. During the meeting, conflict erupted between two Christian men. The situation became so heated that the men nearly came to blows. One man stood and shouted, “I don’t care what you do — I insist on my rights!”

An older man, who was partially deaf, leaned forward in his chair, cupped his ear, and said, “What did you say, brother? You demand your rights, do you? Brother, if you had your rights, you’d be in hell. The Lord Jesus didn’t come to get His rights — He came to get His wrongs, and He got them.”

The angry fellow blushed and tugged at his collar. “Brother,” he said, “you’re right. I’ve been foolish and selfish. I apologize. Settle the matter as you think best.”

Soon, there was perfect agreement where there had once been bitter conflict. Why? Because a man who had initially reacted in the flesh was reminded of what it means to have the mind of Christ. That reminder changed his heart — and resolved the conflict.

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Ray Stedman on Leadership:
40 Lessons from an Influential Mentor

by Ray Stedman with Jim Denney;
foreword by Charles R. Swindoll

available at your local Christian bookstore, at Barnes and Noble, at Amazon.com, and at Christianbook.com. Trade paperback and ebook formats.

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Thirsting for God

In case you missed my last post, you can read it HERE. Just to recap, I recently deleted a few apps from my phone that I felt were taking up too much of my time.

There were a few things that caused me to do this. One of which was the following incident. A couple of weeks ago, my husband and I were in the post office. It was very quiet, with only one person in line ahead of us. This meant that there wasn’t a long wait. Despite the fact that there wasn’t a long wait, that one person ahead of us scrolled through his Facebook feed while standing in line. What’s worse is that he even continued to scroll when he was up at the counter! My husband and I were shocked. And I was actually quite sad seeing how the world is really getting to be too addicted to devices.

It also made me wonder if I was much better and/or could I possibly get to be that bad if I continued like I was. I often checked my phone throughout the day, feeling as though it was important to read my emails and keep up with my small social media following. I felt like my loved ones needed me to be available at all times. However, I also felt as though my phone was becoming a crutch in my life.

Another reason why I deleted the apps on my phone is because I felt they were hindering my spiritual growth. The theme I am focusing on this year is to SEEK God. The word SEEK is proactive. I have to do something to find what I am looking for. And how could I do that when I was wasting precious time on things that didn’t matter?

The Bible has tons of verses on seeking God. Here are just a few:

  • You will seek me and find me, when you seek me with all your heart. – Jeremiah 29:13
  • But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you. – Matthew 6:33
  • Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. – Matthew 7:7
  • You have said, “Seek my face.” My heart says to you, “Your face, Lord, do I seek.” – Psalm 27:8
  • And those who know your name put their trust in you, for you, O Lord, have not forsaken those who seek you. – Psalm 9:10
  • Seek the Lord while he may be found; call upon him while he is near. – Isaiah 55:6

So what have I learned over the past two weeks since I started this journey?

  • My family and friends are doing just fine, even though I don’t respond as quickly to them on email and social media.
  • I am seeing more of the world around me. For example, I used to read in the car when my husband and I were on a somewhat lengthy drive. But now I am looking at the scenery around us.
  • I feel as though I have more mental clarity now. It’s as though a fog is beginning to lift.
  • I am more in tune with the Lord and I feel like I see and hear Him more than ever. I spend more time reading my Bible and in His presence.
  • I am more present and have more patience with my loved ones.
  • I have more time for important things on my plate, such as writing my next book.

As I continue wandering through the desert, I find God’s love in unexpected places. I know this change was something the Lord prompted. I feel it deep in my heart. And I am looking forward to what He plans on revealing to me in the weeks and months ahead!

(Photo by Nicole Kotschate.)

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Consider it Pure Joy…

There seems to be a theory that authors — especially big-name authors — are blessed beyond measure and often the subject of envy.  I think this could be true for anyone who is successful in their field.  The truth is so much deeper.  Whenever someone achieves some kind of fame or worldly greatness, something in the rest of their life is probably falling apart.  We only see the sparkly part.

Nothing in life comes without struggle. When I was writing a book with Carrie McDonnall about her tragic circumstances in Iraq, she was just a young woman.  She’d gone to Iraq with her new groom to work as missionaries and help the country after the fall of Saddam. Her husband and everyone else in the car with her was killed.  Carrie was shot (26 times if I remember correctly) by masked men who surrounded her car.  She miraculously survived thanks to the quick work of kind Iraquis.  But no one else in the car did — including her husband David and three other missionaries.

download-1While we were writing the book, Carrie talked about going through the airport security.  Because she was so riddled with shrapnel in her body, she couldn’t go through a normal metal detector.  She said as she got a special pat-down, “You never know what people are carrying.”

That really stayed with me because it’s so true how easy it is to judge someone in a moment — when they could have the weight of the world on their hands.  Carrie looked like some young, beautiful woman going on vacation.  In fact, she was on her way to tell the harrowing story of losing her husband and friends to terror in horrifying detail.

When I worked on Carrie’s story, I was young and innocent.  I thought the world was rainbows and gumdrops, but her story changed me in such a profound way.  It forced me to face the fact that there is true evil in the world. But it also reminded me that’s why we’re here.  To be beacons of light in a fallen world.  To extend grace where there is none.  To understand others rather than judge them.

Before you look at anyone’s life in awe, remember Carrie’s words, “You never know what people are carrying.”

Struggle refines us.  It makes us better and our lights shine brighter.  If we focus on Him. But it’s never fun, is it?

“Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.” James 1:2-4

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Strawberry Season by Tara Randel

It’s strawberry season here in Florida. Spring comes early and, with it, celebrations featuring the delicious red berry. We have two weeks dedicated to the Florida Strawberry Festival, which includes carnival rides, food galore and awesome musical acts. This year, the berries are so juicy and sweet, every night I have a bowl of cut-up berries, whipped cream and granola sprinkled on top. What a great way to usher in spring!

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Here are a few recipes to get you in the mood for spring and a way to celebrate strawberry season with us.

 

Strawberry Cobbler

Ingredients

1/2 cup white sugar

1 tablespoon cornstarch

1 cup water

3 cups strawberries, hulled

2 tablespoons butter, diced

1 cup all-purpose flour

1 tablespoon sugar

1 1/2 teaspoons baking powder

1/2 teaspoon salt

3 tablespoons butter

1/2 cup heavy whipping cream

Directions

  • Prep 15 m
  • Cook 35 m
  • Ready In 50 m
  1. Preheat oven to 400 degrees F (205 degrees C). Butter a 2-quart baking dish.
  2. Combine sugar, cornstarch, and water. Cook over medium heat, stirring constantly, until thick and hot. Stir in strawberries, and remove from heat. Pour mixture into the baking dish, and dot with 2 tablespoons butter.
  3. Sift together the flour, sugar, baking powder, and salt. Cut in 3 tablespoons butter. Stir in cream. Mixture should be fairly soft. Spoon on top of berries.
  4. Bake for 25 minutes in the preheated oven, or until biscuit is golden brown and filling is bubbly.

 

Strawberry Spinach Salad

Ingredients

For the vinaigrette:

1/4 cup fresh lime juice (just from about 4 small limes)

1 teaspoon sesame oil

1 1/2 teaspoons honey (agave nectar or maple syrup if vegan)

1 teaspoon apple cider vinegar

1/8 teaspoon ginger

pinch of salt, to taste

2 bunches fresh spinach- chopped, washed, dried

1 pint strawberries, halved

Directions

  • Prep 20 m
  • Ready In 40 m
  1. To make dressing: Add lime juice, honey, apple cider vinegar, ginger and a pinch of salt to a medium bowl. Whisk together until well combined, about 20-30 seconds. Set aside.
  2. In a salad bowl, combine the spinach and strawberries. Drizzle with dressing, toss lightly and serve.

 

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Put Off Procrastination Till Tomorrow

Opinion by Jim Denney

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Ray Bradbury (photo: Alan Light)

In March 2007, our family went to a library event in Duarte, east of Pasadena, to hear Ray Bradbury speak. He shared his views on writing, science, and culture. He spoke about working with film director John Huston — and he even performed a dead-on impression of Huston’s deep, sepulchral voice: “Now, Ray, how would you like to write the screenplay for Moby Dick?”

I had spoken with Ray on the phone before, but this was the first time I had met him in person. After Ray’s talk, our family went up to meet him. I mentioned a book on Walt Disney I had co-written with my friend Pat Williams, the founder of the Orlando Magic. Ray recalled his interview with Pat for the Disney book.

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Walt Disney

“Oh, that’s a wonderful book,” he said. “Let me tell you how I met Walt Disney.” I already knew the story — but what a privilege to hear it from Ray himself!

“It was Christmastime,” he told me, “and I was shopping at Macy’s in Beverly Hills. I saw a man walking toward me carrying an armload of Christmas presents, and I said, ‘That’s him! That’s Walt Disney!’

“I rushed up to him and said, ‘Mr. Disney?’ He said, ‘Yes?’ I said, ‘I’m Ray Bradbury, and I love your movies.’ He said, ‘Oh, Ray Bradbury! I know your books.’ I said, ‘Oh, thank God!’ He said, ‘Why?’ I said, ‘Because I’d love to take you to lunch sometime.’ And Walt said, ‘Tomorrow?’

“Isn’t that beautiful? ‘Tomorrow?’ Not next month, not ‘someday soon’ — tomorrow. That’s the way Walt lived his life. He was spontaneous. He didn’t hesitate, he didn’t procrastinate, he seized the moment.”

AutographedMartianChronThen Ray signed my copy of The Martian Chronicles and I was happy.

There’s great wisdom in the story Ray Bradbury told me that night. This is how you and I should live our lives and write our dreams: Don’t hesitate. Don’t procrastinate. Seize every moment. As Picasso once said, “Only put off until tomorrow what you are willing to die having left undone.”

How much of our lives do we fritter away by procrastinating? How many books, stories, essays, and songs will we leave unwritten because we failed to seize every moment of our lives?

Life is short. We haven’t a moment to lose. 

“Procrastination is something best put off until tomorrow.” —Gerald Vaughan

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00-PatWms-CharacterCarvedInStone2Just released: My new book with Orlando Magic founder Pat Williams, Character Carved in Stone. Overlooking the Hudson River on the campus of the United States Military Academy at West Point are 12 granite benches, each inscribed with a word representing a key leadership virtue: Compassion, Courage, Dedication, Determination, Dignity, Discipline, Integrity, Loyalty, Perseverance, Responsibility, Service, and Trust. These benches remind cadets of the qualities that lead to victory and success, not just on the battlefield, but in all of life. In Character Carved in Stone, Pat Williams shows us how to develop these 12 essential virtues in ourselves, our children, our teams, our students, and our churches. Foreword by Coach Mike Krzyzewski.

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Note: Battle Before Time, the first book in my newly revised and updated Timebenders series for young readers, has just been released in paperback. Click this link to learn more.

And if you’d like to learn more about how to write faster, more freely, and more brilliantly than you ever thought possible, read my book Writing In Overdrive, available in paperback and ebook editions at Amazon.com. —J.D.

 

Jim Denney also blogs at Writing in Overdrive and Walt’s Disneyland

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The Power of Fiction by Kristin Billerbeck

Yesterday, on a writers’ loop, we discussed the first “real” novel that we ever connected with while in our youth.  Something beyond Dr. Suess. It’s a great question and one that can tell you so much about a person.  What books do they connect with and why?

Now there are always people who consider fiction “lies” and can’t get past that to find the lessons in other people’s experiences, but I was never one of those people. I always connected with the parables of Jesus for precisely that reason — it SHOWED me the lesson in action and what a beautiful gift.  To allow someone else to deal with life’s ugly lessons while you can learn by observing.

The first real novel that spoke to me and changed the course of my life, was basic.  So very basic.  “Pride and Prejudice” — I mean what a blasé answer from a romance writer.  But what spoke to me was that Elizabeth Bennet was smart.  She wasn’t a simpering heroine who did what was expected of her.  She had quite a snarky spunk to her. (I definitely identified with that.)

Jane Austen wrote a scathing review of the injustice for women in her era.  Only men could inherit property. That meant if you didn’t have a brother, you were in big trouble unless you could marry well.

Later, from the classics, I learned that you could attack any injustice in life through the pen.  Thomas Hardy would teach me about the Pharisees in “Tess of the D’urbervilles” and Dostoevsky would show me that we are all the prodigal son in “Crime and Punishment.”  Tolstoy would teach me that great heroines like “Anna Karenina” are supporting characters to someone coming to Christ (the narrator.)

Fiction allows authors to make great injustices in the world, right again.  While I will never be Austen or Tolstoy, I do hope that my writing corrects some of the injustices in the world and gives readers hope.  What was your first “real” book?

 

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Don’t Speak For Me by Nancy J. Farrier

I rarely speak out on any controversial issue, but there is one where I always feel targeted. The proponents of the issue act like they speak for me, but they don’t. This issue is on abortion, specifically when they talk about doing an abortion to save the life of the mother, or if something is wrong with the baby. Below are my thoughts.

Don’t speak for me—You weren’t there.

You weren’t there when I found out there was something wrong with my baby. When in the crush of fear and despair, my doctor and medical professionals assured me this could be taken care of by abortion. When they pressured me to get further testing to see just what was wrong—tests which could endanger my, child—and then I could make a more informed decision.

You weren’t there when I wept before the Lord and lifted up my baby to Him. When I never once doubted Psalm 139:13-16, that God was forming this baby in my womb and His ways are always perfect. When I never for a moment considered abortion as an option.

You weren’t there when I struggled with sickness and weakness for the whole pregnancy. When I went from being pretty athletic to pushing myself to walk two hundred yards to the mailbox. When I lost weight during the pregnancy instead of gaining. When I suffered from one infection after another, draining me physically and emotionally. When I wept, concerned that my sickness was harming my child, this gift from God.

You weren’t there when every other time I went to the doctor he had some dire news to give me. Something more that was wrong with the baby. Down’s syndrome. Kidney failure. Low birth weight. Problems with the amniotic fluid. When the doctor yelled at me—something to the effect that – “How can you expect me to save you if you won’t do what I want?” He wanted me to “terminate the pregnancy.”

You weren’t there when, at the six-month mark, the baby quit moving much at all. When I had to find child care and drive ninety minutes to the hospital two to three times a week to have them check that the baby was still alive. Then drive ninety minutes back home, often so exhausted I didn’t know how I would be able to fix supper for my husband and four children let alone do all the other necessities that come with a family.

You weren’t there when I would have to count the baby’s movements for a period of time and lie down if the count wasn’t high enough. When I would force myself to eat food I didn’t want. When I would place my hands over the baby and pray so hard, often crying, begging God for His will for my child.

You weren’t there when they decided time was close enough they would induce labor because the pregnancy was having so many problems. When I tried to argue but didn’t have the strength or the will to fight any more.

You weren’t there the night before I went to the hospital. When I fixed my favorite meal. When I watched my other children and could barely swallow anything fearing what would happen the next day. When I wondered if I would even be able to embrace these precious children again, to tell them I loved them one more time, to feel their arms around my neck. When my heart grieved as I trusted God.

You weren’t there when my husband and I drove to the hospital. When I was almost too tired to hold up my head. When I looked at him and thought this would be the last time we would ride in the car together. When I wondered how he would manage with a newborn and four children. When I knew he was strong enough, and God is faithful and trustworthy.

You weren’t there when I had no regrets about the pregnancy. When I accepted I would give my life for this child and do so gladly. My only regret—that I wouldn’t be there to hold this baby, to take care of my other children. When I loved them all more than life itself.

You weren’t there when the time came for delivery. When the birthing room was so crowded with medical equipment and medical professionals that not one more would fit through the door. When the whole room seemed to pause as my baby made an entrance into the world.

You weren’t there to see my little girl draw her first breath, fist raised in the air. To see the awe on the doctor’s face, on the other medical professionals as they all realized my daughter was perfect, small but perfect. As they wheeled their equipment out murmuring among themselves in tones of amazement.

You weren’t there to see my little girl grow into a caring, compassionate young woman. To see her off on mission trips. To see her act and sing in a college musical. To hear her in the college choir, or to hear her sing with the church worship team.

You weren’t there to see her walk forward to receive her diploma as she graduated magna cum laude with a degree in plant sciences. When she got her dream job in a prestigious garden. 

You weren’t there—So don’t speak for me.

I’ve been there and will speak for the unborn, for those you cast off as less than or as worthless. I will speak for those mothers who face this choice with bravery. Mothers who have sacrificed their lives for their child. Mothers whose babies only lived a few hours, but they treasured that time. Mothers who chose to give birth to and raise a special needs child.

Don’t speak for me.

You weren’t there.

I was.

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Leaders are Accountable to God

Ray Stedmanby Ray Stedman,
introduced by Jim Denney
from Ray Stedman on Leadership,
new from Discovery House Publishers

Ray Stedman was the pastor of Peninsula Bible Church in Palo Alto, California, for four decades, from 1950 until his retirement in 1990. I began working as Ray’s writing partner in 1992, the final year of his life. He was a faithful expositor of the Scriptures and a leader of character and integrity. For more than twenty-five years, I’ve been privileged to work with transcripts and recordings of his sermons, helping to turn them into books with the help and blessing of Ray’s widow, Elaine Stedman. I think this latest book, Ray Stedman on Leadership, may be my favorite among the twenty-five books I’ve worked on with Ray and Discovery House Publishers. Here’s an excerpt:

“Leaders are Accountable to God” from Ray Stedman on Leadership

My mentor, Dr. H. A. Ironside, told of an experience he had at a restaurant. His meal had just been set before him when a man walked up to his table and said, “Do you mind if I sit down with you?”

“Not at all,” Dr. Ironside said.

The stranger seated himself across the table and Dr. Ironside bowed his head and said a silent word of thanks to the Lord.

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The man said, “Do you have a headache?”

“No, I feel fine.”

“Is something wrong with your food?”

“No. Why do you ask?”

“I saw you with your head down and I thought there must be something wrong.”

“No, I always give thanks to God before I eat.”

“Oh,” the stranger said, “you’re one of those, are you? I never give thanks. I earn my money by the sweat of my brow and I don’t need to thank anybody. I just start right in!”

“Ah,” Dr. Ironside said, “you’re like my dog. He does that, too.”

Human beings who will not give thanks to God are like irrational animals. They lose a bit of their humanity. Even godless people have a duty to worship God. Their unbelief is no excuse, because God’s eternal power and divine character can be clearly seen in nature. Paul in Philippians 2:10 tells us that “at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth” — and those who refuse to willingly bow the knee to Him in this life will bow to Him on the Day of Judgment.

We are all accountable to God, and leaders are doubly accountable. Hebrews 13:17 reminds us that leaders must one day give an account to God for their actions, words, and decisions as leaders. So let’s decide now to live the kind of lives we will not be ashamed to give an account for. Let us be leaders who practice godliness — God-like-ness — so that we can stand before God and hear Him say, “Well done, good and faithful servant.”

“Here is a trustworthy saying: Whoever aspires to be an overseer desires a noble task. Now the overseer is to be above reproach, faithful to his wife, temperate, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach, not given to drunkenness, not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a lover of money.” —1 Timothy 3:1-3


Note from Jim Denney: While working on Ray Stedman on Leadership, I spent many rewarding hours reading Ray’s other books—Body Life, Adventuring Through the Bible, God’s Unfinished Book, Psalms: Folk Songs of Faith, and more. From them, I distilled Ray’s most practical and penetrating leadership wisdom into forty daily readings. Each entry is followed by a set of discussion and reflection questions, making this an ideal study book for a church board or committee, home Bible study, adult Sunday school class, Christian business, mission team, or any other setting where biblical leadership plays a key role.


Ray Stedman on Leadership - InteriorRay Stedman on Leadership:
40 Lessons from an Influential Mentor

by Ray Stedman with Jim Denney;
foreword by Charles R. Swindoll

available at your local Christian bookstore, at Barnes and Noble, at Amazon.com, and at Christianbook.com. Trade paperback and ebook formats.

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Fasting Can Quench Your Thirst

When we think of fasting, we usually think of food. However, fasting can be from any number of things. I recently heard about someone who did a twenty-one day fast from negativity and complaining. I also heard about another person who fasted from watching the news. Is there anything in your life that you feel is a distraction or possibly even destructive? You might consider fasting from it.

I was feeling discouraged this week because (1) I haven’t made as much progress as I would have liked on my goals for the year, and (2) I haven’t made much progress on my goals for Lent either. (See my post regarding Lent here.) I have been making some progress. Just not as much as I would like. So I made a bold move yesterday. I deleted some apps from my iPhone that tend to take up some of my time. I will be fasting from those things over the next three weeks. And I am putting it in writing here in order to hold myself accountable.

Years ago I used to love hours of peace and quiet. I could take a four hour drive, by myself, without even turning on the radio. My mother would ask me if I got bored. I told her that it was glorious – just me and God.

Then in May of 2012 I purchased my first smartphone. And everything pretty much went downhill after that. If I am just sitting and waiting, I feel the need to do something to pass the time. I will check email, social media sites, or play a game. At times I almost feel desperate as I search for anything to satisfy a deep thirst within me. However, I always walk away feeling even thirstier than before.

The truth is that God is the only one who can satisfy that deep thirst within. So I am now on a quest. Like someone wandering through the desert, I don’t want just an oasis anymore. I want The Living Water! So over the next few weeks I will be putting aside some things that I feel are holding me back. In their place, I will be seeking God. I know He will meet me in the desert. I can’t wait to see what He has in store!

(Photo by kiko costa.)

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