Nora’s Review of… THE PRINTED LETTER BOOKSHOP by Katherine Reay

 

The Printed Letter Book Shop

By Katherine Reay

Publisher:  Thomas Nelson – Harper Collins

Release Date May 14, 2019

ISBN# 978-0785222002

336 Pages

 

 

REVIEW: All bookish people will love this story. It’s fun, intriguing, has a mystery and a splash of romance. It takes place in The Printed Letter Book Shop a place I’d love to hang out in and work at. The author does a brilliant job of placing readers inside the shop as the customer and then as an employee/owner of the store.

Maddie is the founder and creator of the shop, Janet was an artist and put up inviting window and end cap displays. Claire was great at running the business end of things. Madeline (Maddie’s name sake) just inherited this special book store that the community embraced and adored. They didn’t want to see it close.

I love that the author invites the reader into this special place and the reader is also on the receiving end of book recommendations, where they describe books, give quotes from books and talk about books Maddie has recommended to the three people who run the book store, Janet, Claire and Madeline. Each list was personally handpicked by Maddie herself and given to each of them after her death by her attorney Greg Frankel.

Quote from book, Madeline says, …”I remember Aunt Maddie saying you could lose yourself in a book and, paradoxically, find yourself as well.”

Madeline was a lawyer in a prestigious firm and worked hard to hopefully make partner. She didn’t want anything to do with this book business. It was her Aunt’s thing. But Madeline’s life takes a sharp turn into an unexpected zone and she finds herself getting to know her Aunt Maddie and her family in ways she never thought possible. It changes the way she looked at her Aunt, parents and herself. She begins to question what’s important in life.

All three women realize that The Printed Letter Bookshopis more than a book store it’s a place where they can bloom and grow in friendship and in healing for themselves and the community. Things change for these three women as their friendship develops and they start to trust each other.

I had a hard time getting into this book at first because it seemed slow and it started off at a funeral. The author shows the funeral from all three women’s perspective Janet, Claire and then Madeline. It was a little confusing until I got my bearings as to who was who and how it related to the scheme of things. The author clearly labels the chapters, so you know who is talking.

At the surface I thought maybe this story was just going to be pure fluff and fun being in the book store sharing favorite books and book quotes but once I got my bearings the author takes readers deep.

I was amazed at what each character had to deal with and how natural the spiritual thread was intertwined throughout the trials, healing and forgiveness. It choked me up in parts.  The author naturally lets the light shine in the dark places. Showing that sometimes it’s harder to forgive yourself and at other times it’s harder to forgive what’s been done to you. These ladies give each other the grace to take one step at a time as they recapture their lives, their hopes, dreams, worth and loves.

I highly recommend this book as a book club pick. It’s a rich story with characters you care about and all the things we love about books. This was the first novel I’ve read by this author it won’t be the last. This books a keeper.

Disclosure of Material Connection: I received a complimentary copy of this book from the Publisher. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255 “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising”

Nora St. Laurent

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Tips for a Refreshing Summer Vacation

Summertime is a popular time of year to take vacations. We look forward to our trip for many months. But even though vacations are a pleasant experience, they can be stressful as well. Here are some tips that might help make your summer vacation a refreshing trip.

Research your options before committing to a particular establishment. Most people choose hotels to stay in. Hotels are convenient because they might have free breakfast, a pool, cleaning staff, etc. However, you might also want to consider renting a house or a cabin. This will give you and your family a nice private space to enjoy one another’s company. It adds a bit of a personal touch to your vacation. Home/cabin renting is especially popular in the Smoky Mountains. And the prices are usually not much more than what you would pay for a hotel.

Pack your Bible. On our recent vacation I didn’t read my Bible every morning, like I normally do at home. And I could feel it! I felt a bit out of sorts. When I finally pulled my Bible out of my suitcase to read it one morning, it made a big difference in my day.

Make the drive fun. If you are driving, like we did, do something fun in the car. It keeps the drive from getting to be too boring. One idea to break up the monotony is to count the number of churches you see along the way. This is something I did on our recent trip to the mountains. It was neat to see all the different churches and I even took pictures of some. On one particular trip, it got dark along way, so we had a good time looking for lightening bugs.

When I was a child we used to play a game where one person thought of a certain item that you might find in a particular room in a house. They would say to the other people in the car something like, “I’m thinking of something that starts with a ‘B’ in the kitchen.” Then all the other players would take turns guessing what it was. Whoever figured it out first would then have a turn at stumping the group. On one particular trip my father had us all guessing for a very long time before someone finally said the word “breadbox!”

Plan regular stops to stretch your legs. It is amazing what a short walk can do to revive yourself when you have been in a vehicle for many hours.

Carry plenty of water. When you’re on the road, it can be easy to neglect important daily habits, such as drinking water. So pack water in the car to ensure you have it on hand. If you are flying, you could pack water in your suitcase or buy a case when you get there. Of course you can buy a bottle of water almost anywhere. But buying one bottle at a time will obviously cost more money.

Be flexible. Whether you are traveling with members of your household, extended family, children, and/or pets, things can get stressful. Not everyone will have the same likes or interests, which is ok. But try to respect each other’s wants and needs. My friend Lorraine recently told me about something she and her family and friends had done once on a vacation. There were four people in her group and they each picked out one activity that they wanted to do.

Work together. A coworker of mine told me about a method she used when traveling with a large group. They stayed in a large cabin and had over a dozen adults and children. They made a schedule for which adults would be responsible for cooking each meal for the group. I thought this was a fabulous idea.

Be present. We all have mobile devices that distract us. We might be tempted to check our work email, Facebook, or any other all too convenient app. But try to lay your devices down as much as possible. Be fully present and engaged with your loved ones. Let your presence be a present.

And of course, take plenty of pictures and have lots of fun! If you have any tips, please share in the comments!

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Rejoice Always by Julie Arduini

I’m a Bible study girl. My bookshelves are full of completed studies where I’ve poured over verses and learned new insights from an unchanging God. What I love is often I can find free online studies where videos are offered for the duration of the study. Sometimes I join the online community, and sometimes I branch off and form my own

This summer I’m going solo, and the study is Max Lucado’s Anxious for Nothing. If you haven’t picked up Max’s vast collection of works, put that on your summer bucket list and get at it. He is a natural storyteller with such wisdom and grace. Whether through word or video, he has the look of someone that you’d strike up a conversation with at the coffee shop and leave knowing you met a new friend.

I picked up the book thinking anxiety is something I’ve had here and there with hormonal issues, and a loved one definitely struggles, so why not read it? It didn’t take long before I realized as I read anxiety has been a rock in my shoe that I’ve walked so long with, I didn’t even notice.

Now I’m aware, and like you, there are some what if situations just dancing around me, threatening to steal my peace. What might throw me off might not you, but here are common things:

-Finances

-Health

-Relationships

I’m painting with a broad brush, but our area idled an automotive plant that employed thousands. Now the local newspaper is shutting down There are so many people looking for work. Trying to pay their bills.

There are also people going to the doctor or visiting nursing homes. ER visits. Unexpected surgeries.

Relationships? Anxiety over whether that one is “the one.” Stress when the marriage isn’t working. Devastation over an affair. Grief learning a new normal without a spouse.

It’s a tornado of situations that kick up a lot of what if’s that keep our pharmacies in business.

I’m no different and I thought what I would share here is how present God is. How specific. Not only in the study am I reading about Philippians 4:4-6, but it’s popping up everywhere. Pastors mentioning it in sermons. Reading it in devotions. Friends drop it in their conversation.

The words for this week come from verse four. “Rejoice in the Lord always.”

Rejoice is a ten-point vocab word. You can’t be blah when it’s time to rejoice. It requires action and emotion. Intentionality. Always? That’s pretty specific as well. Not when we feel like it. Not just when the news is good. Always.

When the job is gone. The marriage is over. The word cancer is mentioned. College is off the table.

Trust me, I know it sounds cliche, and I’ve struggled . But He is faithful. Any hard thing He’s allowed only strengthened me and prepared me to help someone down the road going through the same thing.

So if you’re struggling, I hope this post encourages you. God’s got you. I promise!

I don’t think it’s too late to join the Anxious for Nothing Study. Check it out!

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A Wild Ride (by Hannah Alexander)

I like to be in control when I’m in a car. All the time. When I’m riding with someone in a car and they slam their brakes too sharply or get too close to the bumper of the car ahead, I slam my imaginary brake on the passenger side. This is why I typically do the driving, because my braking foot takes a beating when I’m the passenger.

You might say, “Poor Mel.” And you would be right. When we travel, I’m usually the driver. He’s more laid back than I am, and he actually likes being the passenger. He makes life and death decisions at work, and letting me drive takes the stress away–especially if it’ll keep me from riding my imaginary brake.

I think I tend to do that with God, too. You know, grip the reins of my life too tightly and make my own decisions without waiting on God to control. If you do this, then you’ll probably understand that this kind of behavior can land you into trouble. Why do some of us have to learn this lesson the hard way?Recently, however, I received a God-breathed gift of learning to allow someone else to drive. Our pastor made this possible with a mountain-edge trail and two ATVs.

Anyone who knows me would think I could tackle a rocky ATV trail with great enthusiasm. After all, we had gone on other rides with these friends and had an amazing time, and when I’m with Mel I feel fearless. This time, however, it was scary. I mean, there was a water-engorged rushing mountain creek maybe 200 feet below a cliff-edge trail covered with rocks of man sizes, from fist-sized to tire-sized. We had to climb to the top of the mountain before we could fly down the other side through mud-and-snow-piled curves. I simply could not do it. I don’t have the strength in my shoulders to push the accelerator and hold onto the handlebars.

So following our good and trusted friends–and of course using them as guinea pigs to see if they fell off the cliff first–I latched onto Mel and begged him to drive.

Kind of like releasing my own will and doing only God’s, I trusted only in holding on tightly and at times spelling the word h-y-p-e-r-v-e-n-t-i-l-a-t-e over and over again, sometimes closing my eyes, often trying not to scream. When I realized that no one could hear me over the sound of the engines, I learned that I could even scream on occasion without alarming anyone.

It’s that way for me when I let go of my own will and allow myself to be subject to God’s, instead. It occurred to me in my panicked brain at one point that this wild ride–which some daredevil riders told us to take–was a good picture of the Christian life. We followed our pastor and his wonderful wife, and I trusted Mel’s strength and God’s grace and mercy to keep us on the trail.

After a few wrong turns–after which we were forced to turn around on a very tight trail–we found the actual trail at the top of the mountain, and the rocks disappeared and the mud began!

Oh, the joy of being on the mountain top with snow and mud flying in every direction, the pine scent and the views of other mountain tops in the distance, and no cliff beckoning our ATV to tumble down. YeeHaw!

Isn’t it like that at times in our Christian walk? God calls us to something frightening, daunting, or at least a little nerve-wracking, and we actually do His will and follow? Have you felt that rush lately? I want to do this more often!

We are attempting to do that more often out here in the wilds of Wyoming, where everyone lives a little more on the wild side. I would love to hear if you’ve taken a step you wouldn’t ordinarily have taken, and stepped more fully into God’s will, even if it was daunting. Or even if you’ve had an adventure recently that was also on the wild side.

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A Friendly Perspective by Tara Randel

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This past weekend was a long holiday, the perfect time to get together with family and friends. I met up with local writer friends for a long overdue lunch date. With deadlines, health issues and a full-time job, we haven’t seen each other as often as we used to. Just a few years ago we got together several times a week to work on projects. We discussed what was happening with our children, we held brainstorming sessions and enjoyed coffee breaks. We were a constant presence in each other’s lives. Although it was gradual, it felt like we grew apart overnight.

Life changes. It’s sad that we aren’t there for each other as often as we used to be. Even though the bond is still strong between us, we’ve accepted the fact that we have a more distant relationship. But when the opportunity arises to see each other, we grab it. We chat and laugh, acting as though we just saw each other yesterday. Then we promise to meet again soon, looking forward to our next visit.

On Sunday, two members of my church, who have moved away to pursue their dreams, happened to be home for the weekend. One is hoping to succeed as a professional dancer, the other is in Bible college. It was a jam-packed service as these young people filled us in on the up and downs of their experiences. These are true long-distance relationships, but it reminded me of how God keeps us connected, to old friends or with those who go off to places we might never step, in order to fulfill the desires God has placed in their hearts.

My point?

People come and go. We can see so much of what the Lord is doing in His kingdom by treasuring the relationships that have been so important to us and by seeing what others are accomplishing because they listened to the call of God. And while we might miss times spent with good friends, watching those who are working toward their goals is encouraging. It takes the sting out of missing our buddies. One thing is sure, God has a plan and we go through seasons in life with different people. I’ve learned to embrace new and old relationships, bittersweet as they may be.

In two weeks, I’ll be headed to New York City for the Romance Writers of America annual conference. I’ll be traveling with a good friend, someone who has been there for me though good times and bad. We just spent yesterday going over our schedule, trying to fit excitement into every spare minute so we can visit landmarks we’ve talked about seeing for years. Once at the conference, I’ll see fellow authors I only see at this conference, along with my agent and editor. Plus, I’ll meet people while I’m there, proving that we can always expect new friendships while still maintaining old friendships, and we become better people because of it.

I’ll have pictures next time. This was taken at the Literacy signing at a past conference.

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Take the time to embrace those who have impacted your life, but be ready to meet folks who will add something totally different to how you view life. It’s a roller coaster ride, but I wouldn’t have it any other way.

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Tara Randel is an award-winning, USA Today bestselling author. Family values, a bit of mystery and of course, love and romance, are her favorite themes, because she believes love is the greatest gift of all. Look for her next Harlequin Heartwarming romance, Trusting Her Heart, available August 2019.  Visit Tara at www.tararandel.com. Like her on Facebook at http://www.facebook.com/TaraRandelBooks. Sign up for Tara’s Newsletter and receive a link to download a free digital book.

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When the Pressure’s On, Stay Loose

by Jim Denney, adapted from
ANSWERS TO SATISFY THE SOUL:
Clear, Straight Answers to 20 of Life’s Most Perplexing Questions

Bob Griese quarterbacked the Miami Dolphins to three consecutive Super Bowl appearances, including two victories (VII and VIII), and an undefeated season in 1972. Twenty-five years later, Bob’s son, Brian Griese, led the Michigan Wolverines to an undefeated season and a win over Washington State in the Rose Bowl. Today, Brian is a color commentator for ESPN College Football. I interviewed Bob and Brian just a few months after Brian’s Rose Bowl win. 

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L to R: Brian Griese, Jim Denney, Bob Griese, in North Carolina

We sat in the study of Bob’s golf villa in the Blue Ridge Mountains of North Carolina. As we talked, Bob and Brian told me about the father-son discussion they had in a Pasadena restaurant, just a few days before the Rose Bowl.

Bob told his son that day, “There’s no pressure on you. You’ve gotten to where you want to be. Now just go out there and have fun.”

“I’m gonna have fun, Pops,” Brian replied, “but I’m also gonna win the Rose Bowl.”

“I wanted Brian to stay loose,” Bob told me. “I didn’t want him feeling a lot of extra pressure just because it was a big bowl game. I told him to approach the Rose Bowl like any other game of the season. If he did that, I knew he’d be okay. I said, ‘The Rose Bowl is just a football field like any other. It’s a hundred yards long and fifty yards wide. You don’t have to throw the ball any different than you’ve been throwing all year.’”

Brian took his old man’s advice. He stayed loose. He had fun. And despite throwing an early interception, Brian led the Wolverines to a 21-16 comeback victory over Washington State. It was Michigan’s first national title in fifty years. Brian went on to succeed the fabled John Elway as starting quarterback of the Denver Broncos.

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Bob Griese, quarterback, Purdue University, in 1967. Photo: public domain.

Brian always had the most fun when things were tough. “Sometimes I set up to throw,” he told me, “and all of a sudden this big lineman’s paw comes outta nowhere and rakes across my facemask. Right then, the pressure is intense and I have to make some crucial decisions. The pocket is collapsing, and the defensive line is charging—but that’s what makes it fun.

“One time we were losing to Ohio State. I subbed in after our starting quarterback was hurt. I knew the Ohio State defense was tough, but over-anxious. They were thinking, Griese is just a backup quarterback. We’ll chew him up and spit him out. I mean, they would have loved to get in there and bury me. So I thought, Fine, let’s have some fun with this.

“Anytime a defensive lineman or a linebacker blitzes, he comes at you so fast that any little move you make, man, he’s going to fly right past you—and it makes them look terrible. And it’s funny! I’d say to them, ‘Hey, you’ve got to learn to lay back, man, because you’ll never get me that way.’ And they’d say, ‘I’ll get you next time, Griese! Next time I’m coming from your back side!’ But they didn’t get me. I just kept having fun with them, and by the end of the game, we’d won it.

“There was a game against Iowa in Michigan Stadium, and I really struggled in the first half. I threw three interceptions, and Iowa got two touchdowns off those interceptions. At halftime, we were down 21 to 7. When we came out to play the second half, Coach Carr took me aside and said, ‘This team is depending on you, Brian. They’re looking to you for leadership. So have fun out there—but bring us back.’ So we went out there and had some fun. First thing we did, we went right down the field, a 67-yard, eight-play drive that ended in a touchdown. After that, I was fine. And we won the game.

“To win, you have to be confident—and confidence comes from not taking things too seriously. When I play football, I know I can play this game. I never think, What if I make a mistake? I look at it this way: It’s just a game. I’m going to go out and have fun. That takes the pressure off. Sure, you’ve gotta be serious about winning, and your teammates have to know you’re serious—but at the same time, you have to have fun in order to be cool and calm and not get rattled in the pressure situations.”

That’s great advice for any endeavor—whether in sports or writing or the performing arts or business or ministry. Yes, approach what you do with a serious desire to compete, to do your best, to excel. But don’t forget to have fun. When the pressure is on, when the pocket is collapsing and your opponent is blitzing you, don’t panic. Instead, loft a quick prayer for wisdom and boldness—then enjoy the adventure. 

If you have fun at what you do, you can’t help but succeed. True success means accepting the challenge God has called you to and joyfully living the adventure of faith.

“Do you not know that in a race all the runners run, but only one receives the prize? So run that you may obtain it.” 1 Corinthians 9:24

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Answers-SoulANSWERS TO
SATISFY THE SOUL:
Clear, Straight Answers to 20 of Life’s Most Perplexing Questions
by Jim Denney 

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What a Birthday–243 Years by Yvonne Lehman

 

What a Birthday! 243 years.

(No, not mine!) our beloved country – America!

Wonderful to celebrate in the back yard with family members, eating BBQ, hot dogs, corn on the cob, slaw, watermelon and topping it off with banana splits and games – while 2-year-old Rory waves the flag.

 

 

God bless America!

He has!

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INDEPENDENCE DAY! by Vicki Hinze

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Vicki Hinze

Independence Day is on the near horizon. On Monday, we’ll gather with family and friends and neighbors. We’ll picnic and grill. We’ll watch fireworks explode, maybe shoot off some ourselves, and celebrate the day off work. But do we and our kids know what exactly we’re celebrating?

Recently, I watched man-on-the-street interviews on a college campus. Asked who America fought for its independence, only one person of those asked could answer correctly. Only one.

This was admittedly shocking, but then in many institutions, the study of American history is an elective. The study of civics is elected. How can students grow to informed citizens when they have no idea about their roots, the country’s fabric, or the way the government works?

Realizing the deficiencies should concern us all. And it should set us all to thinking. Noted philosopher, Socrates, considered independence the ability “to find yourself, think for yourself.” Elbert Hubbard said, “Freedom cannot be bestowed—it must be achieved.” Both make valid points that are worth some thought this Independence Day.

In America, thanks to the efforts of our forefathers who established this nation and all who have sacrificed so it endured, everyone in America is born free. Everyone has rights that protect his or her freedom. But in everyday, practical life, whether or not one remains free is up to the individual.

Freedom and independence are Linked

One can’t be truly free while being dependent on another. Whether you rely on an individual or an entity to, say, house and clothe and feed you or to pay your dental bills, once you are reliant you are no longer self-sustaining or self-reliant or independent. You are no longer free.

Costs of Dependence

With dependence comes costs. You rely on and are subject to the terms and conditions of being reliant. There are rules you are required to follow to be given what you need.

You can do this. You can’t do that. You must fit within these perimeters. If you do fit, you get what you need. If you do not fit, you don’t. That’s not freedom.

Embracing those “requirement” rules results in an absence of freedom. And that absence, if embraced, takes people to a place where it’s like stepping on a treadmill and, once on it, one can never step off.

Perhaps that truth is the root of the saying, “There’s no such thing as a free lunch.”

An example. You collect a check from the government each month. You can’t work. If you work, you lose the check and the medical benefits that come with it.

You’re dependent, subject to the rules for getting the check, but once you step on that treadmill, you’re stuck on it with no way off. If you work, you lose what you have. If you don’t, you’re stuck where you are for the duration. It’s a lose/lose situation.

That isn’t independence or freedom. That limits you and what you’re able to do and to achieve. Freedom, on the other hand, limits us only by our imaginations and our willingness to make efforts and take risks.

How Rare is Independence?

Personal freedom and independence isn’t a new concept, but in the world, for people to be free is rare. Most citizens of the world live under heavy restrictions.

 

  • Only 14% of the world’s people have access to a free press
  • Only 30% have religious freedom
    •  According to Religion News, 5.3 billion people live under harsh religious restrictions. Retaining your right to choose your religion and whether or not you practice it, requires independence.
    • The majority of the world’s women live oppressed
      • Restrictions on women. In many nations/countries women do not have the same rights as men.  In many nations/countries:
        • Women can’t be educated
        • Women can’t drive
        • Women can’t go out on the street unescorted
        • Women can’t work
        • Women can’t choose their own clothes
        • Women can’t choose their own path in life
        • Women can’t choose their own spouse, or whether or not to have a spouse
  • If women step out of their designated role and rebel against the rules imposed on them, they’re beaten and/or arrested and, in cases, executed—even if/when expecting a baby.
  • In some countries, who you become and where you become it are dictated to you by others.
    • The governments decide where you live, where you or your children go to school, what jobs you may apply for, where you are assigned to work, what you are permitted to study and where, and such personal decisions as how many children you are permitted to have.

 

Founded on an idea, America has none of these restrictions. Its republic is and since inception has been reliant on its people to value their freedom, liberty, and independence. Americans must respect and desire freedom and independence and value personal liberty—and be willing to fight to preserve their rights.

canstockphoto6890178Benjamin Franklin, a founding father and patriot, once responded to a woman named Mrs. Powel, asking what the founding fathers had created—a republic or a monarchy. “A republic,” Franklin said, “if you can keep it.”

The founders knew that independence and freedom didn’t just depend on creating that republic but also on maintaining it. Constantly guarding and protecting it. That due diligence is the responsibility of each and every individual in each and every generation.

It alone warrants American History and Civics being mandatory studies for all students. To do your due diligence, understanding the rare privilege and rights you have and knowing how your republic works is essential.

Use It or Lose It

If you enjoy choosing your life, your school, your work and want to continue to make those choices yourself, then defend your freedom and embrace your independence. Be self-reliant.

If you enjoy choosing your faith or the absence of it, defining yourself and what is important to you, deciding the kind of life you want to live and the kind of person you want to be, then take to heart the words of Steve Jobs: “Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions drown out your own inner voice.”

If you enjoy speaking your mind, voicing your opinions, expressing yourself, then defend your freedom and independence.

The Bill of Rights is the heart of individual liberty, personal freedom. To, as Socrates said, think for yourself and as Hubbard said, achieve freedom.

Freedom, like independence, isn’t a one-shot-and-you’re-done deal. Both freedom and independence must be guarded and maintained. Otherwise, those who seek power will seize both. Evidence of that reveals itself clearly in World History (which our students aren’t required to study, either).

Throughout history, when one seeks to control the masses, the first thing that must be squelched to successfully “transform” and bring everyone under One’s control is any freedom of choice. Get rid of God and substitute the government in His place. Remove the ability of people to defend themselves, to oppose being seized. Force people into relying on government, and then begin nudging the public to fall in line with One’s desires by making not falling into line painful.

High costs, hunger, restrictions; demeaning, ridiculing, demonizing—any and all that can be done to control people and their actions, behavior, conduct.

Historically, there is always a high-intensity move to control thought. This is how you should feel about this and that, and if you don’t, you’re abnormal, radical or racist. You’re … choose your own awful adjective. All of that isn’t about being fair or just or right, it’s about controlling others.

The natural inclination, for Americans especially, is to consider that type of manipulation unthinkable. It couldn’t happen here, some say. But the truth is it can, does, and is happening here. America only works if its people engage and stay engaged in its own affairs.

Many citizens of other nations have considered them losing control of their own lives unthinkable. But when we look at what actually happened to them, we see they did lose control—and many lost it by making the same mistake: They became apathetic, self-absorbed, wrapped up in their personal lives and they tuned-out on their own national interests.

Leaders seized that opportunity, seized power and control, and filled that power vacuum. Then came the nudging, which was inaccurately deemed to be misunderstandings. Surely Castro, for example, wouldn’t take away people’s private homes and businesses. But he did. And once he did, it was too late. The people had already lost too much and had nothing left with which to fight for themselves. That’s the cost of apathy and the cost of denial.

Who and Why We Are

This Independence Day, we need to remember who we are and why we are.

We need to remember that we are first and foremost Americans. Far too often, we think of ourselves as Republican, Democrat, or Independent. That’s a divide-and-conquer strategy politicians use to get elected. It is not an American First strategy.

This country was founded by those who wanted to be free to choose, free to pursue their own visions for their lives, free to worship as they desired without fear of retribution or execution. Pull out a copy of the Constitution and read it. A copy of the Bill of Rights. The Declaration of Independence. Get acquainted, reacquainted and connected.

Your independence is not something to take for granted. If you do so, know that you do so at your own peril. Look around at how women fare in most of the world today. Is that what you want for yourself? For your daughters and granddaughters?

Americans are so accustomed to exercising their own will that they’ve lost sight of the concept of not having that right or privilege. They’ve fallen to PC police in a way that would stun those who came before us. Do what I want done, the way I want it done. Think what I tell you to think or forget tolerance. I’ll shout you down, demonize you until you fear opening your mouth about anything. I’ll own you.

Is that what Americans want?

I seriously doubt it. But if they don’t want it, then they can’t do the same thing those before us did with apathy and denial and expect a different result. History will repeat itself.

Independence. Remember what it costs, and choose what it means to you.

If you fail to, you risk waking up and finding your independence and liberty and freedom is gone—a faded memory.

America, the idea, was not established for that. Founders didn’t pledge their lives, treasure and sacred honor for that. All who have sacrificed and shed blood to keep Americans free didn’t sacrifice for freedom to become a faded memory.

They did their part to establish and maintain freedom for this nation’s people. Not select people in it. Not its government. Its people.

The question on minds this Independence Day is, Will we?

 

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Did You Know: On the Declaration of Independence

In 1776, the Second Continental Congress met in Philadelphia. On July 2nd, twelve of the thirteen colonies voted to adopt the motion put forth by Richard Henry Lee for Independence. Thomas Jefferson drafted the statement. Two more days passed with debate and revisions—86 changes—before, on July 4th, the Congress adopted the Declaration of Independence.

 

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Freedom

Happy Independence Day! Today in the United States of America we celebrate the birth of our country in 1776. Although our country’s initial freedom occurred over two centuries ago, today our freedom is just as significant as it was 243 years ago. The people of this country still have many liberties that are not found across the globe. For example, we have the freedom to worship in church and we have the freedom to vote.

What is freedom? According to Merriam-Webster it means the absence of necessity, coercion, or constraint in choice or action; Liberation from slavery or restraint or from the power of another; The quality or state of being exempt or released usually from something onerous; Unrestricted use; Etc.

But when I think about freedom, I also think about Christ. For those who believe and accept Jesus into their lives, they have the ultimate freedom. Freedom from sin, freedom from death, freedom from the chains of the enemy. We were once enslaved to our flesh and sinful nature. But our old selves died on the cross with Jesus, and we became new creatures.

There are many Bible verses that talk about this freedom we possess. Here are just a few:

  • For freedom Christ has set us free; stand firm therefore, and do not submit again to a yoke of slavery. – Galatians 5:1 ESV
  • Now the Lord is the Spirit, and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom. – 2 Corinthians 3:17 ESV
  • So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed. – John 8:36 ESV
  • And you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free. – John 8:32 ESV
  • For you were called to freedom, brothers. Only do not use your freedom as an opportunity for the flesh, but through love serve one another. – Galatians 5:13 ESV

Reflecting on how we have been set free makes me feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders. What an awesome gift we have! But that’s not all. Notice above that one of the definitions of freedom was unrestricted use. As Christians we also have unrestricted access to our Father. We can call on Him at any moment of any day, and He will always answer. How amazing that we can go to Him in prayer at any given time!

No matter what country you live in, I hope you will take a moment today to thank God for your true freedom through Jesus!

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Growing Wild

I am pleased to announce that we have gone green. Or organic. Or wild. I am not a professional gardener, so I am not sure of the precise term.

What I mean is that we have converted the big flower garden in our backyard to a wildflower garden.

For years, we tried to maintain a conventional flower garden, but we found it too expensive to keep buying new flowering plants. It seems that most of what we planted died and had to be replaced.

This was especially true of flowers labeled “annual,” which we took to mean that, once planted, they would regrow every year (since “annual” means “every year”). But this was not the case. These flowers would do alright the first year—especially if we poured some water on them from time to time. This seemed to help them grow for some reason, even though there are no nutrients in water. But, in subsequent years, they would not regrow. It became too expensive to keep buying new plants every year.

Next we tried to turn the garden into a rock garden. We scattered pebbles and even good-sized stones throughout the garden. These didn’t die, but they grew very, very slowly. In fact, the growth was imperceptible. After several years, none had grown into rocks.

So we bought a book called An Amateur’s Guide to Wildflowers. Now, whenever a plant starts growing naturally in our garden, we pull out the Guide and try to identify it. We then put a stake into the soil beside it, identifying the species. The wildflower garden is doing extremely well. We already have flourishing beds of taraxacum officinale (dandelion), ambrosia artemisiifolia (ragweed), sonchus oleraceus (sowthistle), digitaria sanguinalis (crabgrass), rhus radicans (poison ivy), and amaranthus retroflexus (pigweed).

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Happy 4th of July!

The Fourth has always been a fun time for our family.  From the time my kids were little, we would go to their Grandma’s house in Sacramento, ride our bikes and park under the huge fireworks display in California’s capital city. It was quite a sensory overload and I’m sure we may have scarred one or two kids.

As the kids grew up, the siblings would go off together with their friends and celebrate on the top of Hunter’s Point.  It’s a scenic place that overlooks the entire Bay Area from downtown San Jose all the way to the Bay Bridge in San Francisco.  They go up there with a bunch of glow sticks and flashlights to watch the fireworks.  I loved how they made it their own holiday and carried on the family tradition.

This year my second son is deployed with the Marines.  He won’t be here for fireworks,  and shouts of “Murica!” but I’m not going to let that stop me from rolling out the hot dogs and donning my American flag clothes!  (My sons like to compete as to who can have more America wear each year.)IMG_3770

I feel so blessed to be born in America.  I can read my Bible freely and attend church without fear.  That’s the best tradition — dressing up like a flag just adds to the celebration! I hope your family has their own traditions and you enjoy your freedoms this week.

 

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The Nemesis by Nancy J. Farrier

The cylindropuntia bigelovii, or teddy bear cholla, sometimes called a jumping cactus, is my nemesis on my walks. Those little segment that glow with an iridescent radiance in the early morning and look very cuddly, are in fact spiny beasts that hide and giggle with glee when they can attach themselves to your foot or leg. Well—maybe they don’t giggle audibly, but I think they do gloat a little.

Once a cholla segment touches your shoe, the spines go through like they’re swimming through butter and pierce your foot. At that point, there is no walking on until you get to a place to sit down and remove your shoe. The pain is intense enough that you stop right there and do your best to remove the critter. I carry a knife with me at all times when I’m hiking in the desert. I know other people who carry a comb to get underneath the segment and pop it out of the shoe or skin. Tweezers are helpful to have on hand too.

I have to admit—sometimes I grumble about the cholla in my shoe/foot. Or, worse, in my dog’s foot or leg. I wonder why these cacti are even out there. Imagine my surprise when I walked by a cylindorpuntia bigelovii (I love that name. lol) and there were tiny pink things among the spines. 

Watching the ground for wayward segments, I moved closer until I could see they were small flowers amid the stickers. Fairly pretty flowers. I took some pictures and went on my way pondering the lesson learned. Even my nemesis had a redeeming value. Hmmmm. There’s a point to consider.

When I read, or write, a book, the best antagonist is not just a horrible person. They usually have a redeeming trait. For instance, I recently read The Marsh King’s Daughterby Karen Dionne, a psychological suspense. The father in the story does horrific acts and is an antagonist you want to hate. But, in the midst of the story, he also has moments of tenderness, which makes him a multi-dimensional character, giving you conflicting emotions when you think about him.

In life, I have come across people who were difficult to be around for one reason or another. Seeing that tiny flower on a prickly plant reminds me that even the prickliest person has a redeeming quality or part of them. That quality may only show up for brief moments and you have to be watching to see the flash of beauty. 

Whether a prickly plant, a book character or a real person, I have now learned to watch for the beauty among the spines. I find if I’m looking for the positive instead of focusing on the negative I find those bits of redeeming value much easier. When I am honest, I realize God looked down on my prickly, spiny persona and saw something He loved. I need to do the same to others.

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How to Turn Dreams Into Reality

by Jim Denney, adapted from
ANSWERS TO SATISFY THE SOUL:
Clear, Straight Answers to 20 of Life’s Most Perplexing Questions

In April 1914, when C. S. Lewis was fifteen-and-a-half, he went with his father and brother to the Belfast home of Joseph and Mary Greeves. Their youngest son, Arthur, was three years older than Lewis. Years earlier, a doctor had misdiagnosed Arthur with a “weak heart.” As a result, Mary Greeves coddled Arthur and made him spend most of his days in bed as a semi-invalid. 

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“The Searcher,” a statue in Belfast, Northern Ireland, by Ross Wilson, depicting C. S. Lewis looking into a wardrobe. Photo by “Genvessel,” used under the Creative Commons Attribution 2.0 Generic license.

Lewis went to Arthur’s room and found the young man reading. The book in Arthur’s hands was Myths of the Norsemen by Hélène Adeline Guerber—one of Lewis’s own favorites. Lewis and Arthur bonded over their shared love of Norse eddas and sagas. For the rest of his life, C. S. Lewis regarded Arthur Greeves as his closest friend, next to his brother Warren. Both dreamed of being writers, and they exchanged many letters filled with literary ideas, plans, and opinions.

Greeves and Lewis lived very different lives. Greeves was spoiled and pampered by a worrying mother. Lewis had lived a very hard life since age nine, when his mother died. That’s when his father shipped him off to the Wynyard School in Watford, England—a place Lewis remembered as a house of horrors and punishments, ruled by a brutal man who was later arrested for the cruelties he inflicted on the boys at Wynyard. Perhaps the hardships in his life motivated Lewis to focus intensely on his career goals.

Arthur dreamed of being published and shared many story ideas with Lewis, who repeatedly told him he had a great talent for writing. Yet Arthur never seemed to finish anything he started, and he never managed to get published. Again and again, Lewis coaxed Arthur to finish his stories and submit them for publication.

“You have plenty of imagination,” Lewis wrote Arthur in 1916, “and what you want is practice, practice, practice. It doesn’t matter what we write . . . so long as we write continually as well as we can. I feel that every time I write a page either of prose or of verse, with real effort, even if it’s thrown into the fire the next minute, I am so much further on.”

Three years later, when Lewis was discharged after serving in World War I, he again wrote to Arthur, urging him, “Do get on with the writing: as you said yourself, it at least needs no physical energy and I am sure you only need to stick at it.”

In time, C. S. Lewis became one of the best-loved authors of the twentieth century, famed especially for Mere Christianity and The Chronicles of Narnia. But Arthur lived his entire life without being published.

Lewis devoted himself to a focused, daily regimen of writing. Arthur wrote only when he felt “inspired.” Writing for publication is a dream for many people like Arthur. But the dream only becomes a reality if you stick to it, focus, and never give up.

 

Fear of the Blank Screen

Many writers, when they face the blank screen of their computer, see something baleful, glaring, and hostile, like this distorted image. To achieve your writing dreams, you have to look the blank screen in its single eye, you have to begin writing, you have to keep writing, and you have to persevere until the work is finished. Original photo by Andrew PMK, altered by Jim Denney, used under the Creative Commons Attribution-Share Alike 3.0 Unported license.

The world is full of people who dream of writing that novel or building that dream house or starting a business or launching a singing career. “Sure, I could do that,” they say, “and someday I just might.” But they never do and they never will. They keep their dreams in a shoebox, tied up with string, shoved under the bed—because they lack the courage to put their dreams to the test.

When I first decided to take the plunge into fulltime freelance writing, I knew it would mean no more regular paychecks, no employer-paid health insurance, no retirement plan, no paid vacation. I talked to a couple of other writers who had each been in the business for ten years or more, seeking their advice.

One told me, “You happened to call me just as I’m quitting the freelance life and taking a job with a publishing house. Jim, I just couldn’t take it anymore. My advice to you is this: Don’t even think of fulltime freelance writing unless you have at least a year’s worth of living expenses saved up.” 

The other writer I talked to had more than five million copies of his various books in print—and he did all his writing in his spare time. From 9 to 5, he headed up a nonprofit organization. He told me, “Don’t quit your day job. Do your writing evenings and weekends, and make sure you have a regular paycheck.” Not much encouragement there, either.

I corresponded by email with a Hugo- and Nebula-winning science fiction writer, one of the top names in the field, and he told me how the bank had repossessed his house during his first couple of years as a fulltime writer. So he couldn’t offer much encouragement—but he wished me luck.

What should I do? Should I listen to those veteran writers who advised me (with excellent justification) not to even consider such a foolish move? Or should I pursue my dream? I knew I had the discipline and experience to be a writer. I had already had a few books published while writing part-time. So I took the plunge.

And it was tough—incredibly tough. Worse than I imagined it would be. If I had it to do over again, I would do everything differently. But I survived and eventually thrived as a writer.

The key to success in writing or any other endeavor is focus. You have to focus on the work at hand, regardless of distractions and interruptions. You have to focus on moving forward, no matter what obstacles are in your way. You have to focus on your goals, despite rejections and setbacks.

Richard Hooker spent seven years writing his Korean War comedy novel M*A*S*H. It was rejected by twenty-one publishers before William Morrow & Co. published it. The book became an immediate bestseller and spun off a hugely successful movie and TV series—but it wouldn’t have happened without intense focus and dogged perseverance.

Mystery writer Donald Westlake used to paper the walls of his apartment with rejection slips. The day he sold his first story to a magazine, he celebrated by ripping those rejection slips off the wall—all 204 of them. He became one of the most successful writers in America—but he never would have gotten anywhere without an intense focus on his dreams.

So what are your dreams for the future? What is God calling you to do with your life? It might be a novel or a nonfiction book, or a new church or an after-school program for kids, or a run for public office, or a new business on the Internet. All you have to do is focus on the dream God has given you, work hard at it every day, and persevere, persevere, persevere. 

For how long?

As long is it takes for that dream to come true.

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Answers-SoulANSWERS TO
SATISFY THE SOUL:
Clear, Straight Answers to 20 of Life’s Most Perplexing Questions
by Jim Denney 

(Kindle Edition: $2.99)

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Jack Canfield, author of Dare to Win and the Chicken Soup for the Soul series

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John C. Maxwell, author of The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership

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Nora’s Review of… BECOMING US by Robin Jones Gunn

 

 

Becoming Us

By Robin Jones Gunn

(Book 1 – Haven Makers series)

Publisher: Multnomah

Release Date: May 7, 2019

ISBN# 978-0735290754

320 Pages

Topics:  Friendship, Sisters, Domestic Life, Infertility, relationships,

 

About the Book:  From the author of the best-selling Christy Miller and Sisterchicks series comes a refreshing novel that celebrates the gift of friendship.

Five young women, including beloved Gunn characters Christy Miller and Sierra Jensen, gather for a simple Christmas party and soon become unlikely best friends. Told from the viewpoint of Emily, a timid young mom going through a difficult season of life, the regular gatherings provide the much-needed community she’s longed for. As the women begin sharing their life stories in Becoming Us they are endeared to each other and find ways to challenge, encourage, and help each other become the nurturing mothers they wished they’d had when they were growing up. They see themselves as Haven Makers and unite to be remembered for what they do and not for what was done to them.

 

Nora’s Review:  This author brilliantly blends together fun, realistic situations with characters I instantly cared for, intermingled with a natural spiritual thread – it’s a winning combination. Emily’s family is looking for a fresh start in California. It’s a chance to make decisions without either of their families breathing down their necks. Life has thrown them for a loop. They are hurt, weary and seek a new perspective on how to do family and life. Emily and Trevor’s twelve-year-old daughter Audra loves California and quickly makes friends. Trevor works at a car dealership his family owns and Emily works at a coffee shop.

 

Emily gets invited to a Christian woman’s book club of sorts. She goes but is very guarded about what she shares. She doesn’t want to get close to this small group of women because she might be moving back to North Carolina if things didn’t turn around soon for Trevor at the dealership. Things weren’t going according to the plan.

 

This author has a gift of making readers feel part of this group who admits they struggle as they do their best to walk out being a wife, mom and Christ follower; it’s not easy. They call themselves The Daughters of Eve. Emily was amazed and refreshed to meet a group of real, ladies accepting her with open arms, filled with love and grace. She could finally breath, (not having to live up to relatives’ expectations, and dealing with their manipulative ways.) Emily was encouraged to see wisdom blossom in her friends, husband and daughter as they seek insight, healing and understanding of themselves, God and others through prayer.

Family can be complicated, messy and a struggle. I enjoyed reading about these ladies doing life together through tears, laughter, love and grace all gifts given from old dear friends one to another. Blessings and lessons are scattered throughout the novel as they usually are in this authors’ books.

 

Themes talked about in this novel are marriage, parenthood, family, forgiveness, hope, God’s mysterious timing and ways are so much bigger than us. I liked that this author naturally points readers closer to God in each season of life discussed. I was encouraged and inspired, by the characters just as I was when I read the SisterChick novel. I highly recommend this story for a wonderful read and one that would be great for your next book club pick with discussion questions at the end of the book.

 

Disclosure of Material Connection: I received a complimentary copy of this book from the Publisher/BookLook.  I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255 “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising”

 

Nora St. Laurent
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Midyear Reflection

Reflection is one of my favorite things to do around the beginning of the year. I like to look back on the year that has ended to see the wonderful events that sprinkled the year. This could include accomplishments, fun things I did with my family, or blessings from God. And I also like to look at the year in front of me, deciding what I want to focus on in my spiritual walk, what goals I have, and in what areas I hope to grow.

I recently listened to an episode of The Next Right Thing podcast in which the host, Emily P. Freeman, talks about how she likes to take time for reflection at the end of every season. So at the end of May, August, November, and February, she will look over the past three months. I loved the idea of having several reflections throughout the year. This might be an opportunity to see what’s working, what’s not working, what changes you might need to make, and so on. But I decided to tweak it just a bit to do a midyear reflection instead of the seasonal reflections. And since we are already at the end of June, halfway through 2019, this is the perfect time to do just that.

I have a journal that I try to write in each day. It is mainly a gratitude journal. Each evening I like to write down at least five things that I am thankful for. Often times what I choose to jot down are events that occurred in that given day. It could be something seemingly small, but meaningful to me, such as when my husband empties the dishwasher, mows the lawn, or any other number of things that he does around the house. They are things that can easily be taken for granted, so I find that writing them down nurtures gratitude. I also might write down big events, such as my niece’s wedding which occurred last month. Keeping a gratitude journal is a helpful way for me to see the blessings that filled each day. And this is what I used when going through my Midyear Reflection.

If you don’t have a journal like this, you could look through things like emails, text messages, photos on your phone, etc. If you routinely read your Bible, you could also look through it to help you remember what you have been learning in your studies. And of course you could always use your memory to recall different events that occurred over the past several months. In the podcast I mentioned, Emily stated that her resources for her March-May reflection included her to-do lists, quotes she jotted down, photos, current events, and work / life milestones.

I actually enjoyed taking the time to look back over the things that filled my days during the first six months of this year. And I learned a few things along the way. Here are just a few things that I learned from my midyear reflection:

1 – In the day-to-day grind, it might feel like you are getting nowhere. But when you look back, you will see that you were really taking baby steps and just didn’t realize it. For example, I felt perhaps I was not changing in my spiritual walk. But looking back on the events of the past few months, I can see how I have grown in this area.

2 – When you stick with something, it pays off. In our society, we expect instant results. But that is not how God designed the world. When we plant seeds, they take months to harvest. The same is true for many things in life. When you start an exercise plan, it takes time to see results. In the same way, when you begin spending time with God, you might not feel like a new creature on day one. But over several months time, you will see that you have been transformed.

3 – When you pray, you can be certain that God hears every word. Looking back on my prayers from the past few months, I can see how God has answered me. His answer might not always look the way I imagined it would, but that doesn’t mean He didn’t answer.

4 – Some things in our lives are joyful, other things are unpleasant, and then there are things which are actually both joyful and unpleasant. That surprised me, but it’s true. There were events that occurred over the past months which brought smiles and stress, at the same time.

5 – When we are present in life and intentionally look for God everywhere, we will find Him. One example happened at a funeral we attended recently, which was held in a very old church. As we waited for the service to start, I picked up an old hymnal and opened it up to a random page. I knew God was speaking to me with the hymn that I stumbled upon. It was one that I had never heard before, but the words held a lot of meaning for me. I continued to flip through the book and came across some old hymns I recognized. And then I discovered one called Tell Me the Story of Jesus, which I had heard on a modern Christmas record by Kim Walker-Smith. Prior to flipping through this hymnal, I didn’t realize it was an old hymn.

These are just a few things that I learned from my midyear reflection. Will you join me and do a midyear reflection as well? If you decide to, then please let me know how it went. I’d love to hear about it!

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