The Stars Above!

If you’ve ever gone camping then you know how relaxing it is to sit around a campfire and gaze up at the stars above. It makes you realize how our God placed each star in place to give light and they all declare His majesty.

Psalm 19:1 says, The heavens declare the glory of God; the skies proclaim the work of his hands.    

Psalm 147:4 says, He determines the number of the stars and calls them each by name.

Can you imagine the Creator of everything naming each star? What a comforting thought that is. He knows His creation so personally that each star is important to Him. . .and so are we.

Recently our good friends came down to spend a few days camping on our property. My husband and I live out in the country on 70 acres. They brought their fifth wheel and we spent the entire time talking. The temperature was perfect, and at night, the skies were filled with stars—we even saw a few falling ones. It was a good time spent catching up with dear people and I am grateful for their friendship and for the chance to unwind.  

As I gazed up at the stars, I was reminded again of God’s promise. No matter what is happening in the world, or how hectic my life becomes, He is in control of everything. He calls each star by name and he knows everything about them and the future. And he knows me and knew that two days spent relaxing with friends was exactly what I needed.

What an amazing God we have.

Mary Alford

www.maryalford.net

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In Times of Trouble

Birds, In Times of Trouble, Vicki Hinze

The past few years have been a trying time of troubles and upsets for many of us.  I’d say all of us, but some seem insulated in their worlds and oblivious to all the turmoil.  This article is for the rest of us.  Those who have been tested and faced trials and have at times felt overwhelmed by all confronting them.

Thomas Paine once said, “These are the times that try men’s souls.”  People tend to remember that part but not what he went on to say in the same quote.  It is relative and important to recall as well.  Paine also said, “the harder the conflict, the more glorious the triumph. What we obtain too cheap, we esteem too lightly: it is dearness only that gives every thing its value. Heaven knows how to put a proper price upon its goods…”

At a time when so much seems upside down, we need perspective.  Just days ago, with Hurricane Ian we got a great deal of it.  I am not saying God sent a hurricane to teach us a lesson.  I am saying a lesson revealed itself in the hurricane.

Yes, we saw looting—and an intolerance for it.  We saw rescues, those eager to help and restore, those who cried with the victims who lost so much and listened to aid them in acceptance and to guide them in recovering.  We will continue to see these acts of kindness and compassion for a long time to come.  It is the way of things in the south, and the way of things between people who see the challenges and recognize that the victims well could have been them—and in the future, might be them.

It’s a strange sight to see sharks swimming down the flooded street.  To see empty lots or heaped rubble at what once was someone’s home.  Miles and miles of destruction that makes the heart heavy and empathy swell.

There have been many tears shed and will be many more because the damage is so great, the swath of those impacted so large.  

To those who suffered loss, know that many hearts are broken with yours.  Many who live far away feel the pain you feel and the overwhelmed sense you are experiencing.  

From experience, I offer encouragement.  Be strong, be reasonable with your expectations in recovery, and do not fear.  You are not alone.  Others are eager to help as they are able, and God is with you always.

A Bible verse that has always been a pillar during troubled times is this one:  “Be still, and know that I am God; I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth.”  —Psalm 46:10

In times when I was so weary, so ill, I didn’t think I could summon another breath, I repeated that verse to myself, and I breathed.

In times when overwhelmed and lost as to what to do, I repeated that verse and sat quietly, and direction came.

In times when I felt broken and alone, I repeated that verse and comfort found and healed me.

There is nothing special about me.  I’m an average, everyday American just trying to do the best I can.  That’s the case for so many of us.  But there is a great deal special about God.  He is our rock, our safe harbor, our healer, our redeemer, our guide, and he is with us always.  

No matter how hard things get, He is there, and what we can’t do, He can…and does.

Seek Him and you’ll find your strength.  Hold tight to His hand and trust His judgment.  He knew you before you were born and has been with you every day of your life.  Nothing about you surprises or shocks Him.  Nothing is too big for Him to handle.  We are at times fragile and frail, but He is not, and He loves nothing more than helping His children.  He loves nothing more than His children.  We are His family…

Be blessed and stay calm.  Trying though times might be, they last but a season, and all seasons, trying or peaceful, pass.  Lastly, you will discover you are stronger than you think.

Blessings,

Vicki Hinze

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Legacy by Bridget A. Thomas

There are certain words that I love to hear, such as the word “seek.” Whenever I hear it, it reminds me to seek the Lord with all my mind, heart, and soul. And my heart warms when I hear the word “near” because I am reminded that God is near.

There are also words that I don’t like to hear. Legacy is a word that gives me a sinking feeling. For me, this has to do with not having children. I feel as though I will leave no legacy behind when I depart from earth.

However, I recently read a quote that changed my perspective.

“Please think about your legacy, because you’re writing it every day.” – Gary Vaynerchuk

(I never heard of this guy before. So, I looked him up on Wikipedia. Apparently, he is an “entrepreneur, author, speaker, and Internet personality.”)

These words made me pause and ponder a bit. No matter who we are or what our life looks like – we are all writing a legacy. The exciting part is that we can choose what our legacy will look like. We can decide how we want to be remembered.

Each day can be intentional with our actions and our words. We can choose love and generosity and forgiveness. We can choose kindness and encouragement and compassion.

But most of all, we can be remembered as someone who loved the Lord. We can be people who pursued Jesus daily. We can be seen as people of faith. We can be known as prayer warriors.

We might make mistakes along that way. That is normal. We are all human, after all. But we can allow our good actions to outshine our less than stellar moments.

Think about David from the Bible. What comes to mind when you think of him?

David made mistakes. He wasn’t perfect. He had an affair and tried to cover it up by having Bathsheba’s husband killed.

But when we think of David, that is usually not the first thing that comes to mind. Instead, we remember that he was a man after Gods own heart. We remember that he was brave enough to face Goliath, when no one else would. We remember all the beautiful Psalms he wrote.

David left a legacy of faith. And we can do the same. Every day we can choose Jesus. We can walk with the Lord. We can rely on Him and Him alone. As a result, we will become more like Jesus. And His love and light will show in all we do.

I will end with some of the words written by David, found in Psalm 63:1…

You, God, are my God, earnestly I seek you; I thirst for you, my whole being longs for you, in a dry and parched land where there is no water.

Thank you for reading!

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Music and Memories by Julie Arduini

Earlier this month I had the opportunity to see Elton John in his Goodbye Yellow Brick Road farewell tour in Syracuse. This came about suddenly and was a gift, so off I went with my sister, my nephew, and our dear friend we first met when I was in college a few decades (gasp!) ago.

I became quite reflective during the event as video screens highlighted Elton’s career. It seemed many of his songs were ones where I had a memory from my own life. For example, as little girls, my sister and I had generic Barbie dolls and of course, they had to be part of a band. When we played there was a concert, and the only music we had was a cassette tape. One tape. I don’t even know how we got it, we were very young, and I know it wasn’t anything my parents would have listened to.

It was Elton John’s Goodbye Yellow Brick Road.

Our dolls rocked out and our signature song was “Crocodile Rock”. Every time I heard that song, no matter my age, I thought back to those young years and our dolls. It was surreal to see him play it live.

Another song that I recalled was “I’m Still Standing”. I had remarked to friends over the years that as a praying person, an intercessor, my theme song was “I Won’t Back Down”. There are several versions, but the one that seems to just get who I am as God’s praying girl is the Sam Elliott version from the animated movie Barnyard. However, when I summed up everything about me and my life, it was
“I’m Still Standing” that seemed to be my life theme. Family addiction. Infertility. Miscarriage. Near loss of child. Special needs situations. Marriage trials. Financial adversity. Writing discouragement. Church splits. Whatever the event, Jesus walked me through that fire and yes, I’m Still Standing.

That concert was enjoyable for those reasons, and to know Elton John is a historical icon. I might not share his choices in life, but he’s a gifted musician who has met all kinds of people in his 75 years. It’s neat to say I saw him in concert because concerts are typically not things I attend.

There are other songs that strike a chord when I hear them. “Rattle” by Elevation gave me hope during the pandemic and my mom’s illness and death. I couldn’t wallow in my grave clothes with those lyrics. Anytime I hear “Chances Are” by Johnny Mathis, that was a song I attribute to my mom. She enjoyed his music. Dad? I thought he was a Johnny Cash fan, so any of his songs make me think of my dad. Funny thing was my mom looked at my sister and I like we were crazy. She announced Johnny Cash wasn’t his favorite!

I’d be remiss not to mention the song Tom and I danced to at our wedding, the one we felt summed up us as a couple that to this day if we’re apart and hear it, we text a screenshot of the song to each other: “When You Say Nothing at All”, Alison Krauss and Union Station. We aren’t a loud couple, we aren’t a chatty family unless you really know us and get us talking about a passion. We’re so quiet when people visit they think we fought and aren’t speaking. Not at all. We just are exactly as the song says. And I love that.

Are there songs that stick out to you as personal memories?

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No Other Gods: Wisdom by James R. Coggins

Fifth and last in a series

In the Ten Commandments, God (who identified Himself as Yahweh or “I am”) commanded the Israelites not to worship any gods but Him. Yet the Israelites were tempted to worship the gods of the peoples around them.

In 1 Corinthians 1:22, Paul said that “Greeks look for wisdom.” The Greek word is sophia. Beginning with Socrates and Plato, the Greeks prided themselves on their expertise in philosophy. “Philo” means love, so philosophy means “love of wisdom.” The Greeks believed that they could discover truth by applying reason. They defined the rules of logic and are credited with laying the foundation for modern science.

The Greek goddess Athena (like the Roman goddess Minerva) was associated with wisdom. The city of Athens was named after her and was renowned as a center of philosophy. The people who lived there “spent their time doing nothing but talking about and listening to the latest ideas” (Acts 17:21). The place might be compared to a modern university. Some philosophers invited (or summoned) the apostle Paul to the Areopagus (the ruling council of Athens) to explain his preaching about Jesus. Paul used logic in his response, and at least one member of the Areopagus became a Christian. However, Athens was not very open to the gospel, and Paul soon moved on to the nearby city of Corinth.

In Corinthians 1, Paul said that preaching about the crucified Jesus was “foolishness to Gentiles” (1 Corinthians 1:23), but that to believers Jesus is “the power of God and the wisdom of God.” He added that “the foolishness of God is wiser than human wisdom, and the weakness of God is stronger than human strength” (1 Corinthians 1:24-25).

Ecclesiastes and Proverbs in the Old Testament praised the value of wisdom, in contrast to folly. Knowledge is surely better than ignorance, and wisdom better than foolishness.

Paul described part of the problem with the Greek approach (and part of the problem with modern universities) in 2 Timothy 3:7. Paul described some false teachers as “always learning but never able to come to a knowledge of the truth.” In other words, they loved the pursuit of knowledge and truth but never reached any conclusions. They were content to pursue the truth without ever finding it. (Perhaps there is a parallel among some modern church people who always seem to want to “dialogue” and have “conversations,” to “listen to one another,” often without paying any attention to what God has to say.)

Knowledge and science are wonderful human gifts. But we must be careful not to worship them, to raise human knowledge and wisdom and science to the level of an omnipotent authority, to see human knowledge (with all of its limitations and biases) as infallible, able to find truth without God. To do so is to put humans in the place of God, to worship human wisdom and knowledge without recognizing its limitations. God loves knowledge and put the love of knowledge into human hearts. He placed humans over creation and encouraged them to learn about it and manage it. But human knowledge can never replace God. After all, Paul said that “the foolishness of God is wiser than human wisdom.” Jesus said that He is truth and the only way to find God (John 14:6). He also said that that the Holy Spirit would guide believers “into all the truth” (John 16:13, see also John 14:17, 15:26). Human reason, wisdom, and knowledge are limited and cannot lead us to know certain things. We cannot know them unless God reveals them to us. Jesus said that since people were having trouble believing Him when He spoke about earthly things (where human reason might provide some confirmation), they would have even more trouble believing Him when He spoke about heavenly things (John 3:12), which they could learn in no other way than divine revelation.

The worship of Athena is also a relic of history. But scientism (the worship of science) and human pride in human knowledge are widespread idolatrous philosophies in our modern world.

The True God

If we are to worship only the true God, then who is He? The answer is both simple and profound, straightforward but very complete and detailed. He is the one who revealed Himself in the Bible, the one who declared that He is the all-powerful I Am, the Creator and Ruler of the universe. He is omnipotent (all-powerful), omniscient (all-knowing), and wise. He is perfect and holy, just and truthful, loving and kind, forgiving, unselfish, patient, and extremely generous and giving. He values life and truth. He cares for the weak and vulnerable and needy. He is the God of order and creativity. And He is the one who sent Jesus to teach us more and to die on the cross to save us from our sins.

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Of Making Many Books There Is No End by James R. Coggins

“Do you still use a typewriter?”

It is one of those questions that I get asked from time to time. I think it is intended to imply that I am old and out of date.

Unfortunately, the question is not completely misdirected. Until about two years ago, I used a typewriter every day.

But I didn’t use it for typing. For years, I propped my old portable typewriter against my office door to hold the door open. It made a good doorstop. The grandchildren were fascinated by this new and unique (to them) piece of technology. They were always asking if they could use it. Unfortunately, they couldn’t, at least not very well. The ribbon was worn out, and it was impossible to get replacements. The technology was obsolete.

Still, I had had that typewriter for half a century, and it had given me good service. I wrote a lot of things on it. Some of them were even good. I hope.

We have to move with the times. Next time my computer dies, I plan to use that as my new doorstop. I shouldn’t have to wait long. Computers only last about five years. There is no way that a computer will still work after 50 years.

I am grateful for the invention of the typewriter. It allowed people to produce uniformly legible print at high speed (if they were good typists).

I am also grateful for the invention of the computer. It makes writing and editing and publishing much easier and more efficient. It is astounding that someone as old and out of date as I am can write, edit, and lay out a book on a machine that, taking inflation into account, cost no more than my old typewriter.

That got me thinking about technological change. I have lived through a lot of it. It is astounding to think that I wrote my first book (my doctoral thesis) with a pen and paper, not even a typewriter. And now I publish books on my personal desktop computer. Historically, the first books were written and copied by hand, a very slow and laborious process. The printing press, the typewriter, the photocopier, the computer, and the many new electronic gizmos that I have not yet mastered have made the whole process so much easier and more efficient.

And yet I wonder. Has the process become too easy? Anyone can now churn out a book. But are these new books better than older books? Shakespeare did not even have a typewriter, but printing presses copied his writings and spread them around the world. His plays are still read, studied, and performed four centuries later. Plato, Aristotle, Virgil, Augustine, Chaucer, and many others lived long before the invention of typewriters and printing presses, but their works are still read today. The Bible is still relevant and powerful thousands of years after it was written, but maybe that should not count. Its authors had divine help.

Modern technology has made the production of books and stories much faster. But that does not mean that these modern books will last longer or even as long. Technology does not necessarily improve the quality of the stories.

Writings with sufficient quality have been preserved by copying them over and over again for hundreds and sometimes thousands of years. Only high quality writings are worth so much sustained effort.

We even have original copies of some ancient writings. That is because back then writers used much slower and yet more permanent communications media. They chiseled their messages into stone or metal or baked them into hardened clay.

Paper has also proven to be relatively enduring although not as impervious to time as stone and metal. Today, we have manuscripts that are hundreds of years old and a few that are even thousands of years old. On even my modest bookshelf I have a stack of older books that includes:

• W. M. Thackery, Notes of a Journey from Cornhill to Grand Cairo, printed in 1845.  

• Bill Slade, The Doctor’s Boy: A Story Founded on Fact, which one of my ancestors acquired in 1868.

The Son of the Pyrenees, acquired by the same ancestor in 1871.

• Charles Dickens, Hard Times, printed in 1903.

Brilliants selected from the writings of Henry Ward Beecher, printed in 1904.

Evangeline, by Henry Wadsworth Longfellow, printed in 1913.

• John Ruskin, The King of the Golden River, printed in 1914.

Selections from The Arabian Nights, printed in 1920.

• A book of Robert Browning’s poetry published with a soft leather cover and acquired by my grandfather, a school teacher, who died about 65 years ago.

That makes me wonder. Will anyone still have a copy of my books a hundred years from now? The Canadian government insists that I send two copies of every book I publish to be preserved in the Canadian archives for…well, not forever, but for as long as the government and its archives endure…but will anyone else have a copy or care?

Modern computer technology produces writing much more quickly but much less permanently. Ebooks don’t even exist in paper form, only digitally, and nothing is less permanent than digital records. There are things that I saved on floppy disks twenty and thirty years ago that are now lost because the computers and programs that could access them no longer exist. A few government records from several centuries before Christ (preserved on stone, metal, clay, and even parchment) still exist. North American government archives retain records from over 200 years ago. But many government records preserved in digital form 30 or 40 years ago are gone, no longer accessible by the newest generations of computers.

Solomon wrote over 3,000 years ago: “The work that is done under the sun was grievous to me. All of it is meaningless, a chasing after the wind. I hated all the things I had toiled for under the sun, because I must leave them to the one who comes after me. And who knows whether that person will be wise or foolish?” (Ecclesiastes 2:17-19) He concluded that everything is meaningless because it is temporary and impermanent. And yet we still read his words today.

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Live Abundantly!

Each week, I post a Bible scripture to my social media. John 10:10 was this week’s scripture. As I posted it, the last part of the verse got me to thinking.  

In John 10:10, Jesus says,   

The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly.

Have you ever wondered what that looks like?

The word abundant means, plentiful, rich, ample, lavish, or copious. By the world’s standard, this is what living abundantly means. Our society is geared toward accumulating things in order to obtain a higher social status. A fancy house. Expensive cars and clothing. Toys of all kinds whether it’s a motor home or four-wheelers. The more you can gather for yourself the higher your status is in the world.

But what did Jesus mean when He said that He’d come that we might have life and have it more abundantly?

Jesus certainly wasn’t talking about wealth. He talked about the pitfalls of wealth in Matthew 6:24;   

No man can serve two masters: for either he will hate the one, and love the other; or else he will hold to the one, and despise the other. Ye cannot serve God and mammon.

In fact, in Jesus’ opinion, an abundant life consists of so much more than wealth and material things.

Luke 12:15 says,  

And he said unto them, Take heed, and beware of covetousness: for a man’s life consisteth not in the abundance of the things which he possesseth.

So, what is an abundant life?

Salvation is the most important step to experiencing an abundant life. Knowing that you will be with God in heaven is the most important decision you can ever make.

According to Jesus, abundant life is not based on money, but following God’s will for our lives. We each have a calling to spread the news of what Jesus did for us. If you want abundant life, ask Him to help you find your calling, and know that no matter what you go through here on earth, He will see you through.

And one day there will be a homecoming like nothing any of us have experienced before.

Abundant life isn’t having money and things; it’s knowing that the struggles of this world are temporary for those of us who have put our trust in the One who created this world.

Wishing you an abundantly lived life…

Mary Alford

www.maryalford.net

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Taking Time Off by Nancy J. Farrier

There are times when we get so caught up in work and life, that we forget to take any time off. At least, that’s what I do. Even when I go somewhere for a vacation, I often take my computer and work after my husband is in bed, or find a time to do a little writing or editing. 

It’s interesting that the Bible often talks about time away and resting, but we choose to ignore that. Instead, we make excuses for our busyness and ignore the need to recharge by relaxing and enjoying time alone or in the company of friends or family. Even God took time off.

“And on the seventh day God ended His work which He had done, and He rested on the seventh day.” Genesis 2:2 (NKJV)

We know that Jesus rested during his ministry. He worked hard teaching, healing, and ministering to people but there were times he needed to refresh. He ate with his friends Mary, Martha, and Lazarus. He went away into the mountains to pray. He went out on the water with his disciples and slept in a boat. He set the example for working tirelessly but also caring for himself and others.

On September 7th, I flew into St. Louis for a writer’s conference. The next four days were intense and wonderful. I connected with friends I hadn’t seen since the start of Covid. I met other friends I knew online but not in person. I made new friends. I learned a lot by attending many classes. By Sunday I was worn out.

I traveled to Indiana on Sunday and spent the next week with my sisters. We visited family, some who are older and not in great health. We took walks. We talked and talked and ate way too much. It was glorious.

I didn’t write a word. I didn’t edit anything. Instead, I spent time with family and allowed God to refresh me. 

I returned home two days ago, very tired but at peace. The story I’m getting ready to start has been building in my mind and I want to write. The story I need to edit will be like new, giving me the opportunity to see if afresh. 

I don’t think I realized how much I needed this time away. The laughter. The relaxation. Those were gifts from God because He knew my needs. 

I pray that you will also take some time away. Maybe not a week, but even a few hours or days to get away and allow your mind and body to refocus. Connect with God. Allow Him to renew your vision for His work. Then you’ll be ready to do the work He has for you with more enthusiasm than before.

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Not a Superhero by Bridget A. Thomas

Stress! We all have stress from time to time, due to external circumstances. And sometimes we have stress from our own doing. If you are like me, maybe you put too much pressure on yourself. Maybe you try to juggle too many things. Perhaps you are a perfectionist? We think we can manage, until one small thing after another becomes too much. Suddenly we find ourselves overwhelmed.

I am learning that I am not a superhero. And I am learning that just because I feel something, doesn’t mean it is true. On a recent day which I felt was useless (remember feelings aren’t always truth) I wrote down these words: “Some days you will be rocking and rolling. Some days you won’t. Give yourself grace! Listen to your body. You can only do what you can only do. God will help you. Lean on Him. Baby steps are still steps.”

God has been leading me to live a more intentional life. In part, this means slowing down and making better choices with my time and energy. And it means realizing that I can’t do it all. And it means learning to “be” and not always “do.” While initially it may be a bit painful to admit that we are not superheroes, it is actually a good thing.

When we see our weaknesses, we can make a decision to rely on God’s strength. When we stumble, we can decide to run to the Father. When we can’t carry ourselves, we can choose to lean on the Lord.

Paul knew he was weak without the Lord. His words in 2 Corinthians 12:7-10 inspire us: “…Therefore, in order to keep me from becoming conceited, I was given a thorn in my flesh, a messenger of Satan, to torment me. Three times I pleaded with the Lord to take it away from me. But he said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.’ Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me. That is why, for Christ’s sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong.”

And Jesus knew we would try to carry more than we could handle. His words found in Matthew 11:28-30 encourage us as well: “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”

What an invitation! What Jesus offers us should cause us to let out a contented sigh. But it can be hard to let go, when we are used to being in control.

Sometimes perfectionism and pushing ourselves too much can be a spiritual issue. The enemy will use anything he can to take our eyes off of the Lord. Sometimes that means keeping us so busy, we don’t have time to meet with God. And perfectionism can lead to idolatry. If we think we can handle it all, we will feel we don’t need to rely on God.

Psalm 46:1 is a beautiful verse that can assist us when we need to learn to hand everything over to God. It says, “God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble.”

The words in this verse are powerful. Let’s break it down.

Saying God is our refuge means that He provides us with safety and shelter.

Strength means God is physically strong. He can sustain under any amount of pressure or force. There is nothing He can’t handle.

Ever-present tells us that God is always there. He is constant and reliable.

And God is our help. He is there to assist us and support us. And even more than that, He actually wants to help us.

Reflecting on the words in this verse brings us comfort. When we are tempted to do it all, I pray we remember that we have a Savior who really can do it all. Let us learn to rely on Him and Him alone.

Thank you for reading!

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New Address, New Wineskin by Julie Arduini

I was recently struck by something my son shared as he is in a new season. In less than a year after college graduation he started teaching, moved out, and married. Even as he returned to teach, he learned what he taught last year was no longer the plan. He was teaching two classes that better fit his degree and interests. With all the transition he said, “Mom, not even what I eat for breakfast is the same.”

Change is hard. I’m a bit surprised I’m in the middle of transition. I thought his move and marriage was about him, and it is. I thought our daughter’s graduation and college start, even online from home, would be her change. Yet, I am shocked by how lonely it’s been. Quiet. So, so quiet, and we are a quiet family. It’s rocked my routine and thought life.

It’s uncomfortable. Like breaking in new shoes or an outfit.

Or, maybe shedding that old wineskin.

Matthew 9 is where God has placed me as I pray for the kids and all the transition. If only there was a promise that after the wedding life was easy-peasy for the first year. Honestly? The first year is usually one of the hardest. In our case it wasn’t getting to know each other and our personalities, it was my chronic pain from PCOS and endometriosis. That’s a rough way to start a marriage.

It’s even harder when you try to keep the new things stored in the old ways. Of course, God does not change. But to live Kingdom minded, we’re going to have to make changes. It’s more than an address or marital status. The faith I worked with last year isn’t enough. The Bible knowledge I had even six months ago isn’t going to cut it. I need to press in and receive the uncomfortable stretch God is taking me through. The praise is the new wineskin holds so much goodness. Insisting on pouring it in the old? That old leather pouch will burst. And you’re left with a mess.

—Julie Arduini

I’ve been through transition enough to know God is in it and trust He has our best in mind. It’s still hard watching your loved ones navigate their faith when change and adversity hit. Like my son, I’d love to see the fruit come now. But I also know if he’s given it too soon, it’s not ripe.

Are you feeling an uncomfortable stretch? Are things changing? Don’t fight it. Consider the wineskin. Embrace the new and believe God is with you every step of the way.

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No Other Gods: Asherah by James R. Coggins

Fourth in a series

In the Ten Commandments, God (who identified Himself as Yahweh or “I am”) commanded the Israelites not to worship any gods but Him. Yet the Israelites were tempted to worship the gods of the peoples around them.

Several times before they entered the Promised Land, God warned the Israelites to get rid of the Asherah poles that the Canaanites were worshiping (Exodus 34:13, Deuteronomy 7:5, 12:3, 16:21). But, of course, the Israelites did precisely the opposite, setting up their own Asherah poles. An evil king of Judah named Manasseh even erected an Asherah pole in the temple of the true God, Yahweh, in Jerusalem (2 Kings 21:7).

We are not given much information about what this worship entailed. Two words are used. “Asherah” seems to be related to a word meaning “straight,” and “Ashtoreth” seems to be related to a word meaning “increase.” The first is often translated “Asherah pole” and the second just “Asherah.” Most of the biblical references are commands to destroy these. Interestingly, the Israelites were almost always told to tear down pagan altars and to “burn” the Asherah poles. This suggests that they were poles or statues/idols made of wood. The King James Version translates the word as “groves.” The worship seems to have had something to do with the natural world or fertility. Asherah worship was often carried out outdoors “on every high hill and under every spreading tree” (2 Kings 17:10 NIV). 2 Kings 23:7 suggests women wove something for use in this worship and suggests Asherah worship might possibly involve male shrine prostitutes.

From other sources, we know that Ashtoreth was the goddess of love and increase worshiped by Phoenicians and other Middle Eastern peoples. She was a fertility goddess like the Greeks’ Aphrodite and the Romans’ Venus. Ashtoreth worship was intended to bring the worshipers fertility (both sexual and agricultural), prosperity, and pleasure (including sex) and was thus connected to Baal worship.

Modern people do not erect Asherah poles or worship a goddess named Asherah. Yet, there are many in our society who pursue fertility, prosperity, pleasure, and sex as their highest good. The apostle Paul warned in Ephesians 5:5: “No immoral, impure or greedy person—such a person is an idolater—has any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God.”

There are also an increasing number of people in the Western world who turn Nature into a god, worshipping (valuing above all else) the natural world, God’s creation.

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“An Intensely Written Novel” by James R. Coggins

Against All Odds is described as “a gripping, intensely written novel.” It tells the story of Jaan Willem Mobach, his wife Johanna, and their six children, who were captured in Indonesia by the Japanese during World War Two. In different camps, they experienced horrific things. Then, two days after the end of the war, Indonesia declared its independence, ushering in another violent period marked by more torture, rape, and murder. The family’s struggles led them to ponder many things, including the nature of evil, family dynamics, and Christian faith. Daan Fousert, a noted Dutch novelist, tells the story based on two authentic memoirs written by Jaan Willem and his son Jan. To make the picture more complete, author Monique Melief tells the story of mother Johanna from her perspective. The book was originally published in Dutch as Het geluk te overleven. It was translated into English by Helen Mobach, whose late husband Gerard was another of the family’s sons.

This book came to me when Helen Mobach asked if I would agree to publish it under my Mill Lake Books imprint. This I was glad to do. It relates in graphic detail a period of history that is not well remembered today. It offers a window into the complexities of international social and political issues. It opens another window into family dynamics, as the brutal circumstances the family experienced led them to ponder what had put them into that situation in the first place and how they interacted with each other. Like most families, they struggled to understand what they were really feeling, how they communicated with each other, and how they had failed each other in numerous ways.

Most of all, I appreciate this novel for the spiritual insights it offers. This is not one of those “they trusted God and everything turned out great” stories. The Mobach family, especially son Jan, struggled to retain their faith in God in bewildering and difficult circumstances, but the story goes even deeper than that. Even while they remined faithful, they sought to understand more clearly who God is, how He works, and how He was active in their own circumstances and in the larger world swirling around them.  

Against All Odds: A fact-based story of a Dutch family in Japanese concentration camps in World War II Java was written by Daan Fousert and Monique Melief and translated into English by Helen Mobach. It was published in 2021 by Mill Lake Books, is printed and distributed by IngramSpark, and is available through bookstores and from online retailers such as Amazon.

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Then Sings My Soul!

One of my favorite hymns is How Great Thou Art. Just hearing the song when it comes on the radio or when we sing it in church speaks to me.

The song was written by Carl Boberg in 1885. Boberg was walking home in the bayside town of Mönsterås, Sweden when a thunderhead appeared on the horizon. Lightning flashed. Thunder clapped.

When the storm had passed, Boberg opened his windows to let in the fresh bay air, and the vision of tranquility that greeted him stirred something deep in his soul. He sat down and wrote “O Store Gud”—the poem that, through a winding series of events would become “How Great Thou Art.”

Here’s the first verse of the song:

Oh Lord, my God

When I, in awesome wonder

Consider all the worlds Thy hands have made

I see the stars, I hear the rolling thunder

Thy power throughout the universe displayed

Then sings my soul, my Savior God to Thee

How great Thou art, how great Thou art

Then sings my soul, my Savior God to Thee

How great Thou art, how great Thou art

Every time I hear the song, I think about the storms of life that we all go through. When we’re in the middle of them and the skies are so dark that it’s impossible to see our hand in front of us, it’s hard to keep your bearings much less feel like singing.

Psalms 34:17-20 says,

The righteous cry, and the LORD heareth, and delivereth them out of all their troubles.

The LORD is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.

Many are the afflictions of the righteous: but the LORD delivereth him out of them all.

He keepeth all his bones: not one of them is broken.

I love that the Lord hears us whether our voice is in song of rejoicing and thanksgiving or crying out for mercy while the storm around us threatens to swallow us up. No matter the circumstances, He always hears and delivers.

Looking back on the many storms that I’ve gone through in life, I can see God’s hand on me through them all, and I am in awesome wonder that He has brought me through each of them, just as He will get you through whatever storm you are going through now and, in the future, until we stand before Him face to face.

What an amazing God we serve.

And all the more reason for our souls to sing no matter what we’re going through.

For those of you who love the song, here’s a version of it sang by Carrie Underwood that is amazing.

All the best…

Mary Alford

www.maryalford.net

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September Book Release by Tara Randel

I’m pleased to announce the release of His Small Town Dream, the third installment of The Golden Matchmakers series. I love writing about these passionate matchmakers who are determined to give true love a chance, even if it is on their terms! They’re lots of fun and I hope you enjoy spending as much time with them as I did while writing the book.

This Harlequin Heartwarming book features the romance between Adam and Carrie, a small town guy and big city girl. Can they make a relationship work?

This city girl…Could be his perfect match!

Adam Wright is ready to stop nursing his broken heart and give in to his family’s matchmaking. He knows lively marketing exec Carrie Mitchell wants to return to New York. But he’s showing her all small-town Golden has to offer…including himself. When his ex-fiancée arrives, it could scare Carrie away, or it may be a chance to heal past hurts…and share his small-town dream with her!

Here’s an excerpt:

“The only way to get over your fear is to meet it.” 

He brought her to Maggie, hoping Carrie would remember the animal.

She pushed her sunglasses on top of her head as she started walking again. “I’m not afraid. I just don’t know what to expect.”

“Hold on.” Adam strode to the office and reemerged with his hands full. When he got closer, he let her take a peek.

“Baby carrots and cut-up apples?”

“Treats.”

He dropped a few carrots in her hand. “Just let the horse smell them and she’ll take it from there.”

“I don’t know.”

He held out the apple pieces for the horse. When Maggie devoured them, he turned toward Carrie. “Like I said, Maggie knows what to do.”

A bit tentatively, Carrie approached, holding out her hand. Adam stood close, hoping to give her some confidence. Maggie did the rest.

Carrie pulled her hand back. “Oh, wow, that tickles.”

“Not so bad, huh?”

She smiled at him and his chest constricted.

“Can I try it again?”

He handed her a few more carrots. Again, she approached the horse and laughed when Maggie took the snack.

“Before you know it, you’ll be a pro,” he predicted.

“I’m really not sure small-town life is for me…”

I hope you’ll return to Golden to discover new characters, catch up with old friends and visit the small mountain town I love. There’s something about a love story that brings hope and puts a smile on your face, and my wish is that you find both in this book.

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The Golden Matchmakers Club

Book 1: Stealing Her Best Friend’s Heart
Book 2: Her Christmastime Family
Book 3: His Small Town Dream

Tara Randel is an award-winning, USA Today bestselling author. Family values, a bit of mystery and of course, love and romance, are her favorite themes, because she believes love is the greatest gift of all. For more information about her books, visit Tara at www.tararandel.com.Like her on Facebook at http://www.facebook.com/TaraRandelBooks. Sign up for Tara’s Newsletter

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Timeout by Bridget A. Thomas

My husband likes watching fishing programs on television. He was recently watching a tournament where one of the fisherman had to take a two minute penalty. If the fish touches “anything inside the boat other than the angler’s hand,” he gets penalized. He has to wait two minutes before he is allowed to proceed. In those two minutes, “the angler can do absolutely nothing except talk to the camera.” [1]

When this happened recently on a show we were watching, my mind wandered to children and how we make them sit in timeout. Or for those of us prior to the “timeout” era, we had to stand in the corner, which was a similar concept.

This led me to thinking about how we all need a timeout. Not because we broke the rules necessarily, but because we are all running through our lives at top speed. At least I feel I am on most days. I feel frazzled half the time, trying to multitask and get more accomplished. I have eight books I started reading and haven’t finished. I feel like every moment needs to be productive. When I have downtime, I wonder what I should be doing. It’s hard to rest because I have trained myself to keep going, like the energizer bunny we used to see on commercials.

Can you relate? I know many of us have been overwhelmed and stressed out lately. We feel we need to keep up or we will fall behind. Our devices certainly don’t help because they are constantly alerting us when we need to check our emails, messages, comments, and a million other things. But it’s not just our devices that get us in trouble. People in general have a hard time slowing down. And we fill our lives with chores, shopping, food, and anything else that we think might satisfy us.

In many cases, we are trying to fill a void that only God can fill.

Many of us, myself included, need a timeout. We need to take a timeout from running through our day. We need to take a timeout from whatever it is that we keep reaching for, instead of God. We need to learn to move more slowly.

When we first try to slow down, it feels painful. When we are addicted to movement, stopping makes us want to hyperventilate. But it is possible. And it’s vital. Our bodies cannot keep going at this fast pace forever.

Here are a few things we might do to help our bodies slow down:


1 – Don’t neglect your quiet time with God. Spend time with Him first thing in the morning, if possible. This will help set a tone for your day.


2 – Pray throughout the day. My friend sent me a meme via text recently that said, “Don’t forget to pray today, because God didn’t forget to wake you up this morning.” I appreciated that reminder. And I have found that when I pray throughout my day, it helps me to stay grounded and keep my mind focused on the Lord, not on my to-do list.


3 – Get outside. Even if it’s just a few minutes, try to get some time outdoors. This always helps me feel closer to the Lord. Either I take time to say a prayer, or just soak up the vitamin D.


4 – Limit noise. This isn’t something we always have control over. However, at times, we can try to limit the noise that surrounds us. For example, when I drive to the grocery store, many times I won’t turn on the radio. Rather, I enjoy bathing in the silence.


5 – Note that sometimes I do put on praise music though. Especially if I am worried about something. This gives my mood a boost. If you are stressed about a particular concern, try singing God’s praises. Praising Him miraculously shifts our perspective.


6 – Exercise. I am trying to carve more movement into my day, whether it is walking or a Pilates video. Personally, I am trying to pick activities that are peaceful and enjoyable, taking some time to focus on the body and not my worries. Find something you enjoy and something you will stick with.


7 – Breathe. Take moments throughout the day to stop and breathe.

Slowing down will take discipline. If you are like me and constantly on the go, then this simply means being intentional with your time and energy. As a result, we will find that we have better mental clarity and more peace in our hearts.

Yes, my soul, find rest in God; my hope comes from him. – Psalm 62:5

Thank you for reading!

Photo by Morgane Le Breton on unsplash.com

1 – https://majorleaguefishing.com/select-events/how-anglers-end-up-in-a-timeout/

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