Is Vicki Right or Wrong? by James L. Rubart

Was Vicki right in her post yesterday? She says you’re supposed to follow your bliss. Really?

Before I answer that, think about your bliss. What would you do with your time and life if $30,000,000 appeared in your bank account tomorrow? What would you attempt if you knew you couldn’t fail?

It sounds like Vicki is saying it’s okay to pursue those things.

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Hold on a moment. What about following what Jesus wants you to do instead of following your bliss? Think about that for a moment before reading any farther. Do you have that task in mind? The thing you know He wants you to do?

Here’s my fear: That the thing people want to do (their bliss) and the thing they feel they should (What Jesus is telling them to do) are very different.

That’s a problem.

Christianity has been infiltrated to a staggering degree by religion. A spirit of religion which says it’s impossible for what you love to do and what God’s purposes are you to be the same thing.

They can. They truly can. Passion never comes from duty. Passion comes from desire. And if we are to accomplish what God wants us to do on this earth, we need passion.

David was a man who was given the desires of his heart. (Psalm 34:7) But have you read what’s said about him in Acts 13:36? “… after David had done the will of God in his own generation, he died and was buried with his ancestors …”

Did you catch that? David DID THE WILL OF GOD.

His purposes and your desires are the same. He put them in you. He divinely designed you with specific loves and passions.

Yes, we can pervert those desires and let them crowd out God. But for the person who is fully surrendered to him, who has invited the Holy Spirit to dwell in the the holy of holys–the human heart–those passions burning inside you are from Him.

In this new year I encourage you (as Vicki did) to follow your bliss. He is there.

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A New Year’s Resolution: Follow Your Bliss by Vicki Hinze

It’s New Year’s Eve.  A chance for new beginnings.  We can have them any time, of course, but there’s something about a new year that engages our minds in greater opportunities.  Maybe it’s focus, or resolve.  Maybe it’s that we spend more time thinking about our lives–how they are and how we want them to be.  Regardless of the reason, it seemed like a good time to share a bit of wisdom gleaned from the past.  I hope that it helps you look forward with enthusiasm and eagerness, with joy.

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FOLLOW YOUR BLISS:  Loving What You Do

©2011,2013 Vicki Hinze

Recently, I spent the entire day doing background work on a fabulous new series: creating settings and the rules of the realm, characters and developing plot lines. I love those days because the flush of enthusiasm burns like a welcome fire, the interest level is sky high and focus is tight–so tight that the mind is snapping with possibilities: Oh, oh, include this! Ouch, forget that–oh, wait, what about this!  See where it goes– if this happens? Dang. Hit a wall, a mud puddle, a panacea!

The birth of fiction is energizing on a writer and that makes it energizing on a book. On a series, it’s like live wires cracking and whipping in a storm. And the writer gets to experience all the emotion of creation and feel that warm glow that lets him or her know they are definitely onto something special. It’s an awesome experience.  And a rewarding one for a writer.

Backside to leather requires discipline, and on warm, sunny days, it can be hard-won discipline. So immersing in this polar opposite of unbridled creative energy is a wonderful experience on its own–and a perfect balance to the disciplinarian.

The difference?  Loving what you do.  Whether you write or do something entirely different, if you do what you love, you experience that same unbridled enthusiasm and zest for what you’re doing.  (Secret:  that’s a sign that you’re on your right path in life.)

By the time I stopped working that night, I felt as if I’d run a marathon and I was totally drained. I fully expected that when I shut down and relaxed, my mind would continue to whirl for hours. It often does.  But what actually happened surprised me.

My mind didn’t whirl. Instead, my mind was calm–and on a different, though related, topic.  And that was on analysis and how much time we (meaning you and me—the human beings and not you and me, the writers) spend analyzing everything.  So much time that too often we don’t have time to experience life!

We think about what happened, why it happened, how it happened, who it happened to, why it happened to them specifically, of all the other people indirectly impacted, and what will trigger it happening again–if it can happen again, and if it can’t, why it can’t and if that can be altered.  Or how to keep it from happening again, who’d have to do what to make sure it was stopped… See what I mean?

I’m not saying that analysis isn’t valuable, it is. But it’s like anything in excess, it’s, well, too much, and we lose the good in it under the weight of the excess. If we are moderate, we know what we need to know and we are content with that, then we have more time to actually live life rather than be distracted from it by excess analysis or anything else.

It happened. Does it matter why? Will it change circumstances to know why? If so, explore the reasons. If not, live instead.

It doesn’t pay to rehash the past for the sake of rehashing it. If you’re paralyzed on forward mobility because of the past, then revisit it.  But get what you need and then get back to forward momentum because each day spent dwelling on the past is a day spent not living in the present with an eye toward the future. Days such as that cannot be recaptured or regained.

I thought about this for a long time that night. And I thought of all the events I’ve rehashed in my mind time after time–good events and bad ones–and what a waste of life that rehashing really was. Memories are great, but to have them you have to make them. And if you’re stuck rehashing the past, well, the only memories you’re making are memories of memories. Living life has so much more to offer!

I awakened the next morning and this ran through my mind again–analysis or life–only this time, the thought was about what religions and philosophers throughout time have said on the subject. I had to smile. Had I thought of this topic in this context first, the answers were there waiting for me. But there is good that comes in working through something in your mind until you explore it fully and determine what you think about it, and in your mind, resolve it–provided you’re not avoiding a solution because it requires an action you don’t want to take.  That’s avoidance, pure and simple, and you always come out on the losing end in that.

Joseph Campbell, bless him, nailed it in short order. “Follow your bliss.”

I am smiling here. Follow your bliss kind of sums it all up and punctuates the point with a bright red bow.

If you do that–follow your bliss–you’re going to be spending a lot more time loving what you do and living, and a lot less time analyzing that which changes nothing.

Living . . .?  Changing nothing . . .?

Yes, definitely follow your bliss…♦

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New Year’s What?

MP900405396There’s something to love about a new calendar, almost like getting a new box of crayons before the school year starts. The younger you are, those days might crawl by, especially January through May. Then during June through August they’ll flash like lightning. The older you are, those days just keep flashing and flashing and…

Something about a new calendar has prompted people—for thousands of years—to resolve to carry out certain actions. The Babylonians resolved at the beginning of their new year to return borrowed farming equipment, since the new year coincided with the start of their growing season. I’ve read that historically, the Chinese culture observed the new year with cleaning house and starting the new year fresh. My husband would like that one.

Then there’s our modern Western culture. An early 20th century New Year’s resolution postcard reads, “Your New Year’s Resolution: Resolve to renew all your old resolves, and add a few that are new. Resolve to keep them as long as you can. What more can a poor man do?” I can’t imagine renewing all my old ones, plus adding more, and then trying to keep them longer than January 2nd. Statistics show that less than half of us make resolutions, and a little less than half of those people keep them more than six months.

I wonder how many people have already given up on those New Year’s resolutions. We want to break a bad habit, or make new ones. Read more (who doesn’t want to do that?). Exercise. Start being on time. Eat better. Save money. However, I think the reason we drop those resolutions is that we don’t realize how hard it is to create a new habit and stick with it. I’ve heard the 21 days theory of creating a new habit. Well, it takes a LOT longer than 21 days for me, and I can still break a resolution.

There’s a neat little song called “New Year’s Day,” and it talks about making a list of all the things we plan to change…until January 2nd. It goes on to say, instead of trying to change a whole bunch of things, to make just one resolution: Every day is New Year’s day.
I kind of like that. If each day is another gift, then it’s definitely New Year’s each morning. The song also says another chance to change, another chance to grab grace and never let it go. We always have a chance to work on that diet, form that new habit, break the old one. This year in 2013, if you make one resolution, why not resolve that every day is New Year’s day?

 

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Lynette Sowell writes fiction for the inspirational market, from contemporary romance to mysteries. She’s always looking for the perfect recipe for a story–or a great dish–and is always up for a Texas road trip.

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Twas the Day After Christmas Thoughts and Poem by Julie Arduini

Ah, the day after Christmas.
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As for me, it was fun to watch my side of the family come together and share laughs
over board games. We're a pretty "plugged-in" family, so the non-electric games
were a special treat.

We're also part of the big northeast snowstorm, so it's been nice to stay inside and
enjoy family presence. For me, that's better than anything I could find under a tree.
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The view outside my mom's garage tonight

But for Americans most of all, the poem below rings true.

I know a lot of families who dread opening their mailboxes in January
 because the reality of their credit card shopping for what they thought
 would be a great Christmas catches up to them.

My hope is that as you read this, it brings a smile,
because it's over-exaggerated, and not dread, because it is your situation.

May you continue to embrace the reason for the season--
Jesus, King of Kings and Lord of Lords!

Twas the day after Christmas, and all through the house,
Every creature was hurting -- even the mouse.

The toys were all broken, their batteries dead;
Santa passed out, with some ice on his head.

Wrapping and ribbons just covered the floor, while
Upstairs the family continued to snore.

And I in my T-shirt, new Reeboks and jeans,
Went into the kitchen and started to clean.

When out on the lawn there arose such a clatter,
I sprang from the sink to see what was the matter.

Away to the window I flew like a flash,
Tore open the curtains, and threw up the sash.

When what to my wondering eyes should appear,
But a little white truck, with an oversized mirror.

The driver was smiling, so lively and grand;
The patch on his jacket said "U.S. POSTMAN."

With a handful of bills, he grinned like a fox
Then quickly he stuffed them into our mailbox.

Bill after bill, after bill, they still came.
Whistling and shouting he called them by name:

"Now Dillard's, now Broadway's, now Penny's and Sears
Here's Levitz's and Target's and Mervyn's--all here!!

To the tip or your limit, every store, every mall,
Now chargeaway-chargeaway-chargeaway all!"

He whooped and he whistled as he finished his work.
He filled up the box, and then turned with a jerk.

He sprang to his truck and he drove down the road,
Driving much faster with just half a load.

Then I heard him exclaim with great holiday cheer,
"ENJOY WHAT YOU GOT ... YOU'LL BE PAYING ALL YEAR!"

Author Unknown
Found at this site
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Giving Selflessly to Those Who Need It Most

Tomorrow is Christmas, but I must admit that Christmas Eve has always been my favorite time of year. When I was a child it seemed “magical,” as we waited for Santa to bring us the gifts we would open the next morning. I know now, that though Jesus most likely wasn’t born on the night of December 24, the real gift of Christmas is what we celebrate on this most loved of holidays. I also know, as a former biblical counselor on a large church staff, that this is the time of year that heightens all our emotions–whether joyous or heart-wrenching. Right now I can’t help but think of the many families impacted by the most recent school shooting. Regardless of where they stand on the purpose for Christ’s birth, this has got to be the most difficult time for them that any human can experience.

We’ve all lost loved ones at some point in our lives, but our children–torn away by a murderer’s bullet? No pain can compare–except perhaps that of the Father, as He watched His only Son suffer and die at the hands of His own creation. And that’s the answer I give when asked, “Where was God when this horrible massacre took place?” He was where He always is, sitting on the throne in complete control and yet weeping with those who weep, hurting with those who hurt, mourning with those who mourn–because He’s been there and He knows better than anyone the tragic outcome of evil, selfish choices. The Scriptures say that God bottles our tears, and that one day in heaven He will wipe them all away. Until then, He stands waiting, His nail-scarred hands extended and ready to carry us through to the other side.

I see practical and creative ways popping up all over where we can offer assistance to those who are experiencing grief beyond imagining right now–places to donate meals, money, flowers, etc.–and I encourage you all to take advantage of those opportunities whenever possible. But I also encourage you to pray, not just now when the pain is fresh but for a long time to come because this isn’t something anyone will get past quickly or easily–possibly not ever on this earth. We may never personally meet any of those who have lost loved ones in this shooting, but we can give them a selfless gift at Christmas–a commitment to pray for them for as long as we have breath to do so. Then one day, when we have “graduated to heaven” and met those precious little ones who went on ahead of us, God will wipe away our tears as well.

A very blessed Christmas to you all, beloved.

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Give the Gift of Books

Like you, I’m busy catching up on shopping for Christmas as well as taking the time to remember what Christmas is about. In addition to all of that, I’m busy writing on two different books for approaching deadlines. The writer’s life is not to be envied. As Christian authors, we pour our blood, sweat, and tears into the stories that bring the message of Christ whether subtle or inherent.

The Bible is about HIS story, and Jesus himself told parables or stories in order to bring understanding to a deeper message.

Why not  give a gift that holds the deep messages of Christ and brings the recipient several hours of enjoyment along with that spiritual nugget?

Merry Christmas

Elizabeth Goddard

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TreacherouSkies3Elizabeth Goddard is the award-winning author of over a dozen romance novels. Treacherous Skies is her newest romantic suspense.

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Lesson from The Princess Bride by Maureen Lang

the_princess_bride-2The Princess Bride is a classic movie most people — well, girls, anyway — are familiar with, at least if they’re under thirty. Over the years the movie has become a huge favorite for all ages, though, and for good reason. It has everything a romantic adventure could ever want: a beautiful princess, of course, and a brave hero, an evil prince, even a giant. Throw in a touch of humor and excellent performances and it’s little wonder the movie has grown to classic status.

The story is framed as a fairy tale, a grandfather reading to his stuck-in-bed-but-not-so-sick-with-pneumonia grandson. Basic ingredients necessary to keep the pages turning are quickly introduced: sympathetic characters like Buttercup and the “farm-boy” whose only response to her bossing him about is a devoted “As you wish.” But once she realizes his love for her but also her own in return, he must leave to earn a fortune worthy of what he feels she deserves. The next thing you know, dear, sweet Buttercup is now a Princess, forced to become the bride of a handsome yet evil Prince Humperdink. You can’t help but notice the over-the-top names—perfect for a fairy tale, yet played so wonderfully straight.

As you can see just by that brief glimpse into the beginning of the story, it captures the viewers attention early on. Between a kidnapping, a rescue, a journey through the Fireswamp and the expected sword fight the storyteller rarely gives the viewer a chance to sit back and relax—or to get bored. That’s the sign of a truly successful story! The characters cling to goals everyone can identify with: all the basics like true love, revenge, power. We all want true love to win, but we know it won’t be easy. The humor in this story works partly because the performances are so wonderful and partly because the writing is so witty. But even when events stretch reality (such as when our hero Westley is “mostly dead” all day . . .) we’re more than willing to suspend disbelief in order to be entertained, because the circumstances are set up in such a way that within the context of the story it could have happened.

That’s the lesson from The Princess Bride. As readers, we’re willing to accept just about anything if it’s placed logically within a carefully designed setting. It wouldn’t be logical for a character to survive being “mostly dead” in any story but a fairy tale, but in this context it works because the story world is properly set up.

I for one needed an escape from all of the recent tragic news and was so glad this movie provided such a thing. It was a visual fairy tale for any age, compacted into a couple of hours of refreshment. I hope you can find the time this holiday season to enjoy an escape of your own!

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Making Sense of the Senseless by James L. Rubart

Has it been hard for you since Friday? Trying to make sense of the massacre?

Me too.

Our boys are 20 and 17, but moments ago they were in grade school and my mind skips a beat when I try to fathom what I would feel like if … well, you know.

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I’ve cried. Prayed. All the things you’re doing and what much of the nation is doing.

So many people are shocked by this evil. But I wasn’t. Why? A blog post by author John Eldredge captured what I couldn’t put into words and explains my thoughts far better than I could say it. You’ll find it here.

After you read it, I’d be interested to know your thoughts.

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Christmas (anytime) Blessing

My daughter, Cindy, called this morning to share what was impressed upon her this morning while reading her Bible. She was reading in Jude. The first question she asked was, “Do you ever feel like a failure?”

I said, “Much of the time.”
She continued to say what the reading in Jude meant to her. The realization that God doesn’t see all the negatives we see, but he sees us as good and loved and forgiven.

We discussed negative thought which is so prevalent within ourselves and in our culture according to news media, etc. Even when compliments are given, they’re often followed by, “Thank you, but…” and a negative follows.

As we talked she said that my books mean so much to her mother-in-law, who doesn’t attend church, which in turn influences her son (my daughter’s husband), my daughter’s son. On and on. My daughter thanked me for having taught her about Jesus.

She works as a nurse on Tuesday and Wednesday nights, so on Tuesdays she’s out-of-sorts because she doesn’t want to go, although she’s thankful, knows it’s a service, and appreciates the benefits to self, family, and others but doesn’t look forward to those two all-nighters and no sleep and then trying to get into routines again. She home-schools her son, and they have tennis tournaments almost every weekend, so hers is a busy sleepless life.

This Tuesday, her thirteen-year-old son said, “You seem a little depressed.”
She said, “Oh, it’s just that going to work thing. But I’m fine.”
He said, “I knew you weren’t feeling too good, so I’ve been praying for you.”
Now, that’s something from a teenage boy.
I told her that yes, he hears and notices her negativity, but he also notices her faith and she has taught him where to turn for life’s answers and that’s to Jesus.

What a blessing that our influence, although we may feel like failures, reaches out with the positive things we’ve said and done and touches other people’s lives.

What a Christmas (anytime) blessing.

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It’s Not too Late for Advent Reading by Julie Arduini

If you’re like me, you lost a week somewhere between Thanksgiving and now. My kids explained how they can’t wait for vacation, and I learned their last day of school for 2012 is next week. The Christmas season is flying by.

It’s important to me not to lose the meaning of the season. That’s easy when there are Christmas concerts, shopping, traveling, wrapping, Christmas cards, and then the daily schedule to muddle through. Advent readings are how I connect the real reason I celebrate Christmas. Although the official Advent season is underway, I don’t think it’s too late to find some Advent readings and use even a few moments each day to reflect.

Here are books and other resources where you can celebrate the Advent season.

Lynne Modranski–I don’t remember how I stumbled onto her site, but she has a few Advent options for a very low price. Each of her readings has been exactly what I needed to read. Learn more here.

Goshen College– sends devotions via e mail during Advent and Lent.

Crosswalk.com–Today at Mothers of Preschoolers, MOPS, the coordinator read from Rick Renner’s Sparkling Gems from the Greek. This was the first I heard of this book, but Crosswalk is featuring devotionals from it this Christmas season.

Jesus Calling–I received a .pdf that gave the Advent portion of the book, and it is a fantastic resource for families.

Billy Graham–I found this while researching. Billy Graham.org has a free devotional available for download.

How about you? What resources do you use to celebrate Advent and the Christmas season in general?

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Is Reading Dangerous to Your Health? by Elizabeth Goddard

I have enough writing deadlines these days (which is a good thing) that my health might be suffering.  Okay, there’s really no question. And that’s a bad thing. You see, I don’t have time to do much more than write, which means I’m sitting.

A lot.

I need to exercise. This isn’t about making excuses either. I used to run every day until about two years ago when I started writing on double deadlines.  But you don’t have to be a writer to have this problem.

If you’re crazy about reading this could be you too. Maybe you’re not a couch potato, technically speaking. But do you spend hours reading every day? Still, I don’t think we’re going to see the Surgeon General Warning on books, at least anytime soon.

Thinking about this reminded me that years ago before I was a published and had writing deadlines to meet, I spent the time reading, and a good part of that time I spent riding a recumbent bike while I read.

I’m not sure what happened to that bike. Did it end up in a garage sale? Or sent to the Goodwill?

I’d love to have it back.

Fortunately, I’m not the only one with this all-consuming work schedule so there are many exercise machine solutions out there. I might even think about asking for one of these contraptions for Christmas. Think about it—you can read and write while you exercise on a TrekDesk Treadmill or any number of other offerings.

Sounding like a commercial isn’t my intention.  I’d love to hear from those of you who’ve tried the various exercise machines that allow you to read or use your laptop while you exercise. What do you like or dislike? I really want to know.

This could be the answer to my exercise problem.

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Elizabeth Goddard

Elizabeth Goddard

Elizabeth Goddard is the award-winning author of over a dozen romance novels. Treacherous Skies is her newest romantic suspense.

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Too Many Books?

Over the weekend I visited my daughter’s place and she happily showed me the improvements she’d made to what she calls her “book room.” It’s not a library; she holds a Masters in Library Science and hasn’t found the time to organize all of her 4,000 books in a way that honors such a degree. 🙂 So a book room it is. She has six very tall and wide shelves, every shelf filled and on top as well, so books literally reach the ceiling. The room offers the not-unpleasant feeling that you’re being swallowed by four walls of books as you enter.

Her husband has been hoping she would get rid of a number of her books, and I suspect that sentiment will only increase once they make serious plans to move. Having carried a number of book boxes myself, I can attest to how heavy they are. He even had a brief season of hope when the Kindle released and she started purchasing some of her books digitally.

Some of her books. You see, my daughter is an avid book lover. Book lover. As in books with spines, with the smell of pages new or old (well, minus mold that is, or perfume if you check back to Camy’s post last week). She likes to hold a book in her hand, and her Kindle doesn’t offer the exact same experience (though she does love it).

Personally, I tend to agree that 4,000 books is a bit over the top – especially since she’s been known to read a book more than once. But she does donate, give away or sell books on Book Swap or at used bookstores on occasion. The problem is she loves too many books, so much that she won’t be parted from them.

So I was wondering how many is too many when it comes to books? Personally, I define that number by how many books I can reasonably store. I have books in three places: a book closet in the basement, the study where I work, and a shelf in my bedroom. Splitting the locations in three doesn’t overwhelm anyone – either me or my family. I may have a thousand books, but certainly not 4,000!

How about you? How do you define too many books?

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Your Opinon of Audio Books Please by James L. Rubart

When Brilliance Audio bought the rights to my first novel ROOMS, I asked if I could try out to be the narrator. They said, “Sure, send us a sample.”

I recorded the first chapter, sent it to them, and they hired me. And I’ve been fortunate to voice my other three novels as well.

This past Saturday my mom said, “I’m liking Soul’s Gate (my just released novel) even more hearing you read it.”

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Do you agree? (Not about Soul’s Gate, about hearing a book read where a narrator can create character voices, use inflection, etc.)

I have a friend who only listens to audio books. He’s busy and his time to “read” is in the car on the way to work and back.

What about you? Do you like being read to? Is price a factor in your buying more audio books? If audio books were as inexpensive as e-books or DTBs (Dead Tree Books) would you buy more?

Talk to me. I’m listening.

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Readers Touch Lives by Vicki Hinze

 

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Most writers write because they have something to say they want others to hear. Something that the writer deems significant enough to sacrifice time doing other things—children and family and hobbies—to say. Writing requires sacrifice. That’s pretty common knowledge among writers, but I’m not sure if readers are aware of it. More importantly, and this is the focus of what I want to share here, is that readers touch writers and impact them in ways readers probably aren’t aware. Touched, these writers take the insights and wisdom shared with them by readers and incorporate that wisdom and insight into future stories the authors write—and the circle of interaction between readers and authors continues and the reader’s ripple of influence broadens.

Many readers never realize that they’re a significant part of the process, but they are. An extremely significant part of the process. Let’s look at how.

1. Publishers buy books readers want to read. If reader reaction to a book is good, then publishers want more books of that type. If reader reaction isn’t good, then no matter how much a publisher loves a book, the editor won’t buy it because the editor has to buy books s/he loves and books s/he can sell. That’s essential to the health of the publisher. So readers define the types of books made available to them by their reactions to the books they read and support.

2. Booksellers stock the books its customers want to buy. It’s simple supply and demand. If a bookseller doesn’t have the books readers want, then that bookseller won’t sell books, which it must do to stay in business. So readers tell the bookseller what they want, and the bookseller seeks out those books and makes sure they’re available in his/her store. Readers influence what books are in their bookstores and available to the readers.

3. Readers through word-of-mouth influence other readers. When a reader loves a book and speaks well of it to other readers, then other readers are more likely to develop interest in a book—whether or not the other readers are familiar with the author. There is nothing better for a book than a strong “buzz” among readers. “Buzz” is word-of-mouth, a personal recommendation, and a reader’s personal recommendation is the strongest recommendation. It’s personal, trusted, seated in the personal relationship between readers.

4. Readers have amazing influence over writers. This is largely under-reported and under-realized, but readers’ responses and reactions directly to authors are probably the most influential in directly impacting what authors write and why they write what they write.

As stated earlier, writers write because they have something to say they want others to hear. The vehicle for saying what they want to say is the story. So when a reader reacts to that story, the author’s desire is fulfilled and validated—provided the reader reacts in the way the author hoped. That’s a blessing to the author, who spends much time alone creating and hoping that exactly this will happen. Let me share a personal example.

When my dad died, my mom went into shock. She couldn’t stay alone and so came to live with my family. I focused on helping her cope, helping my three children cope with the loss of their grandfather and its impact on their grandmother. I really didn’t have the luxury of time to mourn. I wrote a book about this. The book was delayed in being made available to readers—for six years.

That was a long delay that I really didn’t understand at the time. Maybe it wasn’t meant to be shared? Maybe it had served its purpose in helping me get through grief? But it did sell and then publishing was delayed two years, making the total six years between writing and publication. Shortly after it was published, the reason for the delays became clear.

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I received a note from a reader asking me to call her, and I did. I had no idea what to expect—but I couldn’t have imagined what she said.

The reader told me a story of death and loss in her own family and her utter desolation. She felt hopeless and despairing and couldn’t see a way forward; she too wanted to die. But when in a store with her young daughter, her daughter grabbed my book off the shelf and said, “Mom, you need to read this.” When asked why, the girl told her, “It will help you.”
And so the mom bought the book and then read it.

She wanted me to know that, grieving and mourning and lost, she read the book and found encouragement and hope and that it helped her see that a way beyond grief existed. The characters found it and she could, too. She wanted to say thank you—and to let me know that the book had made a difference in her life. Now she could see her way to keep living.

As you can imagine, I was in tears. At the affirmation and confirmation the reader had gifted me with as an author, but in sheer gratitude that this woman who was hopeless had found hope. The dark tunnel of grief had lost its death grip on her. God is so good!

It was in this reader’s feedback that I found my mission to write books with constructive solutions to difficult challenges many of us face. This reader influenced me and my work. She gave me insight to my personal purpose. She touched my life and all of my future works. She will continue to influence me forever.

My story isn’t unique. I spoke with Robin Lee Hatcher about this, which led to an interesting exchange that might surprise readers. Robin said, “It is so easy for a writer to get discouraged. We spend a great deal of time alone with our own thoughts and imaginations. A dangerous place. And the present turmoil in the publishing industry can make this discouragement even worse. But then a reader reaches out and tells you something like this message that I received this summer:

‘I am an avid reader and have been for many years, but I’ve never contacted an author before. But, I wanted to share how the book Beyond the Shadows changed my life … When I read your book in May, I did so with sobs. I didn’t quite realize why I could identify with the main character, her husband being an alcoholic, mine just angry. I felt hopeless and for the first time could relate to someone, even if it was just a fictional book … [description of a troubled marriage and the reconciliation and healing that has followed] … Throughout this process many people have asked me what made me seek change, and I say, God sent me a little fictional book that desperately made me want to get beyond the shadows of the emotional pain. So, I want to say how grateful I am. I’ll always remember your book and the pain I felt when reading it, but now it’s only a Remembrance. God has provided a miracle for us.’”

I listened with a knot in my throat. And Robin went on to add, “An email like this provides me with enormous encouragement. It reminds me that I am doing what God called me to do, and that I must look beyond the discouragement and persevere. I never know how God will use the words I write. My job is to be obedient. The end results are up to Him.”

Now not all reader feedback is positive or constructive. Some readers don’t like a book and feel compelled to say so. There’s no surprise in that; if we all liked the same type of book, we’d collectively need fewer books and fewer authors. But that doesn’t mean that the reader’s negative feedback is without value. Often readers see an author veering off-track, so to speak, and let him/her know. This can be a welcome wake-up call to the author.

Of course there is also feedback that isn’t constructive. But that is easy to spot and given the weight it is worth. It’s amazingly easy to discern constructive versus destructive feedback, and most authors don’t judge. They differentiate between constructive and destructive feedback. In all feedback, they seek the good. Rarely have I encountered an author who neglects the gems of wisdom and insight in constructive negative feedback.

My point is that readers touch lives. They touch authors, influence them, and their feedback is cherished. Let me share a bit of a discussion had with my fellow Christians Read author, Kathi Macias. (I feel a special affinity with Kathi since we both have written books warning about human-trafficking and its dangers.) When asked, Kathi recalled a specific reader and a specific event:

“I will never forget this one. I was sitting at a book-signing when a young man (about 17) came up to me and said, “Mrs. Macias, I just wanted to come here and tell you that I read all four books in your Extreme Devotion series, and they made me want to lead a noble life.” It really doesn’t get any better than that, does it?”

A noble life, I thought. Constructive. Solutions. Elevating and entertaining. Encouraging. Inspiring. No, it really doesn’t get any better than that. And it would be utterly impossible not to expect that this reader encounter wouldn’t influence future Kathi Macias’ works.

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Readers are a treasured, significant part of the entire process. From preferences on what they want to read to supporting and purchasing the books they prefer, from sharing their opinions through word-of-mouth and in their feedback to authors on what they’ve read, readers influence . . . because readers touch lives.•

© 2012, Vicki Hinze

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ChristmasCountdownCover-copy2-189x300Vicki Hinze is the award-winning, bestselling author of 30 novels, 4 nonfiction books and hundreds of articles. She sponsors The Book Club Network and Christians Read. Her latest release is Christmas Countdown, the second book in her new Love Inspired Suspense, Lost, Inc. series, which follows Survive the Night www.vickihinze.com. Subscribe to her Newsletter here.

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